i have a friend that is in love with someone and they want to be together but
there are certian things that are holding her back. well she knows that he has a
"girl" friend and every time she talks to him and he brings her up she
gets a shot of jealousy thru her. but she does nothing about it. she just lets
it eat her up because she has no right to this guy.
so my question is how do you all deal with jealousy?
Umm most of the time if i'm jealous, i'd keep quiet about it, jus think in my
head, e.g. " Darn he has that new game," etc. then i'll just tell
myself, dont worry when i have saved enough money i will buy that game...so
maybe in ur friend's situation, she can say she'll get a better guy or, say
that, that "girl" friend, is jus a friend, nothing more and that she
has a chance with that guy? ,
not really sure if i brought over the solution over to the problem...sorry if i
didnt make sense...
Just tell to wait for the moment when the time is right that sort of
thing...Also tell her to pay no mind to being jealous cause then aren't you
being self centered thinking that person can onl;y be for you when they are with
others? So yeah just tell her to pay no mind to it just act normal
I mean come on your by definition awkward and retarded. The epitome of
loser.
merged: 11-08-2005 ~ 03:14am
Just because I act the spaz in school does not reflect who I am in life. In
truth we all wear a metaphorical mask to hide who we really are.
Who the hell are to impose on our friendship, it work, thatâ?s good
enough. If I wanted your opinion I would have made some sappy thread like
everyone else.
Tell her to strenthen her moral/standards. They are together and she's putting
her own wants over his happiness. She doesn't deserve to make someone else
miserable for the sake of her new posession. If she really cared, this would be
a different discussion. (not of jealousy)
ok first off thanks to those who stayed on subject and for you two (Delgados and
Darastrix) please if your gonna comment on something comment on the topic at
hand. take your arguement somewhere else please.
If she talks to his friend, and to him, she might get over being jealous.
Jealousy is a tricky thing, and a powerful thing -- that's why it's one of the
Seven Deadly Sins (but it is known as Envy) -- and it's hard to work through.
Chances are, if she's the jealous kind of person, she's not going to be much of
a friend or lover. She needs to trust this guy a little more than she does. Tell
her that too, because trust is just as powerful, if not more so, than
jealously.
I can't say that I've never been jealous of girls talking to the guys I like,
because I have, but I can say that I just let it go. Jealousy allows me to
"rent space in my head" to the people I am jealous of, and it's not
healthy.
i have a friend that is in love with someone and they want to be together but there are certian things that are holding her back. well she knows that he has a "girl" friend and every time she talks to him and he brings her up she gets a shot of jealousy thru her. but she does nothing about it. she just lets it eat her up because she has no right to this guy.
so my question is how do you all deal with jealousy?
Umm most of the time if i'm jealous, i'd keep quiet about it, jus think in my head, e.g. " Darn he has that new game," etc. then i'll just tell myself, dont worry when i have saved enough money i will buy that game...so maybe in ur friend's situation, she can say she'll get a better guy or, say that, that "girl" friend, is jus a friend, nothing more and that she has a chance with that guy?
,
not really sure if i brought over the solution over to the problem...sorry if i
didnt make sense...
simple i dont get jelous at least not a lot
Just tell to wait for the moment when the time is right that sort of thing...Also tell her to pay no mind to being jealous cause then aren't you being self centered thinking that person can onl;y be for you when they are with others? So yeah just tell her to pay no mind to it just act normal
I just follow in Cain's foot steps (biblical ref.), and Kill the one who causes the jealousy.Bwa hahaahh
i look at you...delgados...i look at you and my life doesn't seem that bad...
Hey ass your one to talk
0_o what how? compared to you... i chould get like 3 people in this comp lab right now to say i own you...
merged: 11-08-2005 ~ 03:12am
0_o what how? compared to you... i chould get like 3 people in this comp lab right now to say i own you...
I mean come on your by definition awkward and retarded. The epitome of loser.
merged: 11-08-2005 ~ 03:14am
Just because I act the spaz in school does not reflect who I am in life. In truth we all wear a metaphorical mask to hide who we really are.
i have 2 jobs... one cancer recearch! i think i add alot more to this world than you do...
Dude you suck at spelling who would believe you to be a cancer reSearcher.
you know i have dislexcea and i fucking do do cancer recerch on rats!
You are the lab rat; you're just too stupid to realize it
thats a prity stupid comeback
come back to what insult, can you even read.
Agan retarted....
I just relax and get rid of that ill feeling.
no don't hes abought to poast somting stupid agan...
Who the hell are to impose on our friendship, it work, thatâ?s good enough. If I wanted your opinion I would have made some sappy thread like everyone else.
see
the only thing I can say is do something about it get past the fears and make your move
Tell her to strenthen her moral/standards. They are together and she's putting her own wants over his happiness. She doesn't deserve to make someone else miserable for the sake of her new posession. If she really cared, this would be a different discussion. (not of jealousy)
ok first off thanks to those who stayed on subject and for you two (Delgados and Darastrix) please if your gonna comment on something comment on the topic at hand. take your arguement somewhere else please.
If she talks to his friend, and to him, she might get over being jealous. Jealousy is a tricky thing, and a powerful thing -- that's why it's one of the Seven Deadly Sins (but it is known as Envy) -- and it's hard to work through. Chances are, if she's the jealous kind of person, she's not going to be much of a friend or lover. She needs to trust this guy a little more than she does. Tell her that too, because trust is just as powerful, if not more so, than jealously.
I can't say that I've never been jealous of girls talking to the guys I like, because I have, but I can say that I just let it go. Jealousy allows me to "rent space in my head" to the people I am jealous of, and it's not healthy.