i don't know if someone has started this topic already but anyway...
once i was talking with my friend, she said her exboyfriend did blah blah blah,
has blah blah blah... whatever. and this issue popped up on my mind.
im just curious about your thoughts bout exes. well,
what im thinking is exes are not necessary to me. and i think its unfaithful to
the one i love. i will not desire to get one ever. it is just wrong.
discuss!
Is not a matter if you want to get one or not; if a relationship fails you'll
get one. I think depending on the terms you break up you can still keep the
friendship, although sometimes that can be imposible.
Exes = not for me. If it's over, I make sure it's absolutely over and tell em
not to expect me to ever talk to them again. I feel better not having them
around, personally. Interesting fact: I always tell girls at the beginning of
the relationship how I handle a breakup, since it would be unfair to just out of
the blue be like "Don't ever talk to me again." I just mention how
that "let's be friends" crap doesn't fly with me. I have enough
friends. =)
I'm not a fan of keeping exes around. It only happened once, but we were really
good friends to begin with. Most of my relationships ended baddly so I just
didn't want to see them again. Although I know it's immature, there will always
be that thought in the back of my head about how good things used to be with us
and how they will never be that way again.
I dont really see a point in holdin a grudge for an ex.... the reason being is
that u can say they broke ur heart, which may be in fact true, tho u have to
consider that sooner or later u'll end up breaking someone's heart too. I dont
really care either for an ex but that doesnt mean that im gonna be rude or mean
to them. Ihave some that r still friends and some that i dont even talk to
anymore. It really depends on how well u delt with the break-up and how far u r
over it, ya know?
And then you also have the type of ex who stalks you later on. Yeah currently in
another relationship for 9 months and my ex keeps on calling me and stuff
Funny thing for me is that for the past few relationships I've had, my exes have
all tried to get back together with their exes and broke things off with me.
When we were together they'd tell me of how bad their ex treated them yet they
go back to them? Maybe just my luck i guess, but to me I've never had anything
to do with my exes after we broke it off, even if they try to be friends with me
I just brush em off. Exes are stupid... get over them and move on, if you really
feel you want to get back together with an ex you have to ask yourself what made
you break up in the first place.
i don't think its a bad thing to still be friends with your ex...
depending on the terms u broke up on
sometimes u just lose that feeling for each other but its not like you hate the
other person.
any way even though i'd rather not see my ex again lol, i think being friedns
with your ex is a good thing.
I don't believe in that 'lets still be friends' cwap~ If you're still talking to
them, and still in contact with them they might fall for you again, or vise
versa. I find that really stupid especially since if the first time didn't work
out, what'll make you think the 2nd time will? That's acctually happened to me,
and it just pissed me off.. I ignore them and move on =]
I got angry with my exboyfriend for cheating on me so many times. I've given him
more than 4 chances. And yet he still does it. He likes flirting around girls,
he's a playboy. I get so upset, i kept worrying about it. whenever he knows I'm
angry with him or if he finds out that he's up to something, he'll prolly just
make me even more sad by ignoring me/not talking to me. there's once when i was
jealous of a girl he's been hanging out with, he knew that i knew. he miss
called me 29 times. i kept picking up the call and he puts down. for 10-15
minutes he's been miss calling for, i don't even know what reason. It was hard
for me to let him go, coz i still loved him. I didn't think he loved me at all.
As far as I know, I've tried really hard just to get him notice that I'm deeply
in love with him. And sometimes we're both all lovey dovey, he over does it.
And, he treats me like a sex slave when we're online. I got sick of it. I was
rather stupid enough to wait, for nothing. waited, til one day i was having my
holiday in singapore, he texted me and wanted to break up. i had to accept that,
i know. i know he doesn't love me, i'll just let him go. after few months of
that break up, he coupled with 3 girls. i felt so angry with him eventhough
we're not even together anymore.
2 of his ex-girlfriends came to me and complained often. i couldn't do anything
to help them. i told them to break up. they were smarter than i thought, they
did. i didn't think wisely before.
this year, my exboyfriend totally changed. he apologised to me 6 months ago. at
first i didn't even thought of forgiving him and i wanted to teach him a good
lesson. so my guess is that he already knew that what he was doing was wrong. he
even admitted that he was a playboy. now that i'm already with my current bf, my
exbf really respected that. in fact both of them are friends. so now he's a good
person xD he's my friend now, and not long ago me and my friends went out with
him :3~ so i really think being friends with him was better than i thought
-claps while crying-.....*sniffle*...thats so nice...Yeah..its good to forgive
people. u.u -sigh- My ex-b/f called me a bitch for breaking up with him...HE was
the one who wouldnt talk to me! Why
am I the bitch!? T-T
meh it hurts but i like to keep my exes as freinds after,cuz ya never know,if
you break up with your new bf/gf then you could possable talk things out with
your old ex,and maybe get back together.but like i said i keep my exes as my
freinds.als o i feel its wrong to scorn the one you broke up with,like the
poster above me,her bf calling her a bitch,thats just wrong ya know, but im me i
just dont treat woment that way,we just go our separte ways and say well it was
nice while it lasted eh,and go but hopefully still freinds ^^
well for me ... my ex's are all reasonably close friends now, i talk with them
every now and then each of us have moved on. i'm currently in a relationship and
i dont want this one to be an 'ex' because i trully care for my gf .. a feeling
i havent experienced with past ex's
i don't know if someone has started this topic already but anyway...
well,
what im thinking is exes are not necessary to me. and i think its unfaithful to
the one i love. i will not desire to get one ever. it is just wrong.
once i was talking with my friend, she said her exboyfriend did blah blah blah, has blah blah blah... whatever. and this issue popped up on my mind.
im just curious about your thoughts bout exes.
discuss!
Is not a matter if you want to get one or not; if a relationship fails you'll get one. I think depending on the terms you break up you can still keep the friendship, although sometimes that can be imposible.
I never want to talk to my exgirlfriend again, she broke my heart and I never forgive her
Exes = not for me. If it's over, I make sure it's absolutely over and tell em not to expect me to ever talk to them again. I feel better not having them around, personally. Interesting fact: I always tell girls at the beginning of the relationship how I handle a breakup, since it would be unfair to just out of the blue be like "Don't ever talk to me again." I just mention how that "let's be friends" crap doesn't fly with me. I have enough friends. =)
yea, the "we can still be friends" thing is really crappy.
I'm not a fan of keeping exes around. It only happened once, but we were really good friends to begin with. Most of my relationships ended baddly so I just didn't want to see them again. Although I know it's immature, there will always be that thought in the back of my head about how good things used to be with us and how they will never be that way again.
Hmmm, my exes ended up becoming my good friends
and I do
not think it's crap to have exes as friends... 
I
guess it depends on how you started off...
me and my exes just become friends,not more than friends.
and i don't care abot them anymore.
I dont really see a point in holdin a grudge for an ex.... the reason being is that u can say they broke ur heart, which may be in fact true, tho u have to consider that sooner or later u'll end up breaking someone's heart too. I dont really care either for an ex but that doesnt mean that im gonna be rude or mean to them. Ihave some that r still friends and some that i dont even talk to anymore. It really depends on how well u delt with the break-up and how far u r over it, ya know?
An ex is called an ex for a reason. I dont desire to have anything more to do with them after the break up.
And then you also have the type of ex who stalks you later on. Yeah currently in another relationship for 9 months and my ex keeps on calling me and stuff
Funny thing for me is that for the past few relationships I've had, my exes have all tried to get back together with their exes and broke things off with me. When we were together they'd tell me of how bad their ex treated them yet they go back to them? Maybe just my luck i guess, but to me I've never had anything to do with my exes after we broke it off, even if they try to be friends with me I just brush em off. Exes are stupid... get over them and move on, if you really feel you want to get back together with an ex you have to ask yourself what made you break up in the first place.
i don't think its a bad thing to still be friends with your ex...
depending on the terms u broke up on
sometimes u just lose that feeling for each other but its not like you hate the other person.
any way even though i'd rather not see my ex again lol, i think being friedns with your ex is a good thing.
I don't believe in that 'lets still be friends' cwap~ If you're still talking to them, and still in contact with them they might fall for you again, or vise versa. I find that really stupid especially since if the first time didn't work out, what'll make you think the 2nd time will? That's acctually happened to me, and it just pissed me off.. I ignore them and move on =]
I got angry with my exboyfriend for cheating on me so many times. I've given him more than 4 chances. And yet he still does it. He likes flirting around girls, he's a playboy. I get so upset, i kept worrying about it. whenever he knows I'm angry with him or if he finds out that he's up to something, he'll prolly just make me even more sad by ignoring me/not talking to me. there's once when i was jealous of a girl he's been hanging out with, he knew that i knew. he miss called me 29 times. i kept picking up the call and he puts down. for 10-15 minutes he's been miss calling for, i don't even know what reason. It was hard for me to let him go, coz i still loved him. I didn't think he loved me at all. As far as I know, I've tried really hard just to get him notice that I'm deeply in love with him. And sometimes we're both all lovey dovey, he over does it. And, he treats me like a sex slave when we're online. I got sick of it. I was rather stupid enough to wait, for nothing. waited, til one day i was having my holiday in singapore, he texted me and wanted to break up. i had to accept that, i know. i know he doesn't love me, i'll just let him go. after few months of that break up, he coupled with 3 girls. i felt so angry with him eventhough we're not even together anymore.
2 of his ex-girlfriends came to me and complained often. i couldn't do anything to help them. i told them to break up. they were smarter than i thought, they did. i didn't think wisely before.
this year, my exboyfriend totally changed. he apologised to me 6 months ago. at first i didn't even thought of forgiving him and i wanted to teach him a good lesson. so my guess is that he already knew that what he was doing was wrong. he even admitted that he was a playboy. now that i'm already with my current bf, my exbf really respected that. in fact both of them are friends. so now he's a good person xD he's my friend now, and not long ago me and my friends went out with him :3~ so i really think being friends with him was better than i thought
-claps while crying-.....*sniffle*...thats so nice...Yeah..its good to forgive people. u.u -sigh- My ex-b/f called me a bitch for breaking up with him...HE was the one who wouldnt talk to me!
Why
am I the bitch!? T-T
meh it hurts but i like to keep my exes as freinds after,cuz ya never know,if you break up with your new bf/gf then you could possable talk things out with your old ex,and maybe get back together.but like i said i keep my exes as my freinds.als o i feel its wrong to scorn the one you broke up with,like the poster above me,her bf calling her a bitch,thats just wrong ya know, but im me i just dont treat woment that way,we just go our separte ways and say well it was nice while it lasted eh,and go but hopefully still freinds ^^
well for me ... my ex's are all reasonably close friends now, i talk with them every now and then each of us have moved on. i'm currently in a relationship and i dont want this one to be an 'ex' because i trully care for my gf .. a feeling i havent experienced with past ex's