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Love hurts. Does anyone else agree?

Love, Friends & Family

Minitokyo » Life & Lifestyle Fora » Love, Friends & Family  Love hurts. Does anyone else agree?

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Why do you feel like love hurts?

In my personal experience, it hurts when someone doesn't return as much love as what you are giving. And when it dawns on you, there is nothin you can do but wait for things to change, if they ever will...

yes it does...thats y i avoid people

Love hurts, if you love someone but they don't love you back, so I agree with you

love hurts no matter what. you can get your greatest pains from it and your greatest high from it. you must choose your battles to make your innermost peace.

nice words swiftsword420

Not really, it all depends on the person. Love itself isnt wats hurting.
Im in love and ive never been happier in my life.

But, ofcourse like you write, it hurts when the love isnt shared. But you cant give up and dwell on just one failure, there are alot of people who loves and likes you, you just have to open your eyes and be open to accept the love they are offering. But there are limits, If the person hit you or something else, that wont change, how much you even love them you have the responsability to leave him/her.
I had a bf who loved me but, i couldnt love him back. So i broke up with him for his own sake and for mine. I was unhappy, did bad in school and so on. He was happy, didnt think anything was wrong. But all the time i just lied to him, cause i didnt want to hurt him. I left him because, if I didnt he would start to hate me and I him. Especially me, I would hate him for making me lie and other things.
So, it is painful, when love is with the wrong person.

love hurts...especially the person you love doesn't love you back and when you see him/her everyday taht really hurts....

of course it does ^ - ^

Just because someone doesn't love you the same way doesn't mean they don't love you with all they've got.
So be cool.

Love is both pleasure and pain.

Love always hurts when the person you love doesn't love you back. That one's the worst. But there are a lot of other subtle ways that love hurts...you don't have to be single and seeking love to experience love's thorns.

Love is painful when you love someone, and they love you too...but they don't love you the way you want to be loved. I know a friend who was very touch-oriented, and he and a girl fell in love...but she was just naturally aloof, physically; that was how she was raised. I knew them enough to know that she still loved him with all she had. That was painful for both of them.

Love is painful because sometimes hurt the ones you love. Anyone who has had someone they love come home from a really, REALLY bad day knows what I mean. When you love someone, you get to see all of them: personality flaws, ugly moods, and all.

Perhaps the sweetest pain of love is when the person you love is hurt, you hurt with them. It is a testimony to how strongly you love each other. Perhaps an even sweeter pain is the one you feel when you find out the person you love has been hiding their pain, so that you wouldn't feel it with them.

I can't believe I mentioned "pain" and "sweet" in the same breath, myself. But that's because the pain of love is also part of the pleasure of love. The sacrifices, the heartache, the disappointments are all intertwined with the successes, the happiness, and the triumphs. The pains of love make the pleasures that much sweeter...yes, even the pain you feel when you give love that isn't returned. When you DO find someone you love who truly feels the same towards you, it will be a delicious madness for both of you, with a delight that's beyond exquisite.

I do agree it is both love can make you happy but yet crush you like a bug.

Love is so hurtful, I rather not deal with it any more.

  • ajb
  • 2y 45wk ago

love doesnt have to hurt, but it definatelly can

love can hurt, cuz it takes the tiniest hurts and multiplies the intensity by a thousand...
or at least it feels that way

no one can hurt u more than ur lover...

when u get hurt by an enemy, it hurts ya, but feels almost nautral cus u hate em...
u are closed to them...u dun care about their feelings that much...if they hurt u, no biggie

when u get hurt by a lover, the pain is just so great cus ur receiving the pain from someone u love so much...
u are open to them...u would share ur dreams and secrets wit em and sacrifice urself for em....yet they hurt u

it does.that's why you trust who you love...you trust them not to destroy you emotionally

hurts no matter wat

well in my opinion love hurts yes! sometimes :P see...some things work and some things doesnt and just because it didnt work the first time doesnt mean theres no hope XD lets not get all emo and think that theres no hope! coz the truth there is :) we might not find it today but some day we will XD
omg! my favorite quote!
"Gawd! what now? dont fall in love? Hell no! there are things one learns through example and things one learns through experience. falling in (and out of) love is definitely something one has to learn through experience...getting hurt in the process is unavoidable but it is a risk worth taking."
ok! its more like a comment! XD

-_- yea i'd say that it does, probably why some ppl don't want to resk getting into another relationship and being hurt again..

love is but a thing of the mind... an imagination, if you will... and being so, it can only hurt as much or as little as you want it to... .. in other words... "FUCK YOU AND THE HORSE YOU RODE IN ON!... IF IT HURTS THAT ONLY MEANS YOU WANTED THAT SHIT TO HAPPEN!... SOMEWHERE DEEP DOWN YOU WANTED TO BE SO CALLED-'HURT'!.. SO YOU WENT AND DONE IT, GOT HURT AND NOW YOUR TELLIN A LITTLE STORY ABOUT IT... BOO HOO!... GET OVER IT, IT'S ONLY IN YOUR HEAD!" ... ..

break ups hurt more than any physical pain...childbirth aside. the happy relations are better and sweeter than the best drugs, chocolate or anime...

so what if there is hurt...blame god that the world has hurt in it. without the hurt there is no happyness. that life so its best to deal with it.
*aimed at all those emo's on mt :angry: *

love sure does, but i like it. its life.

Quote by hazeyLove hurts, if you love someone but they don't love you back, so I agree with you

love is wonderful, love is mysterious i love love and i love my girlfriend

merged: 11-29-2005 ~ 03:10pm
cheers everyone

I agree and it has hurt Me for the last time

love hurts....yea pretty much true. U gutta b strong to resist this feelings LOL, when there's a relationship, there's hurt to go wit it. I wish u all da best wit ur relationships den :)

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