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does she like me?

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..... closed. forget about it.

confess

Do you really like her THAT much ?
If so, go ahead and confess her. She won't guess your feelings.
"Let God decide" ? What are you blabling about ?
God won't decide what you will do. Only the weak try to find a meaning in "fate" because they are not strong enough to act themselves.

I tell you, act now. Be strong and face your fears. This is the only way to go forward.

Oh and good luck btw.

yeah.... you should just confess to her, get it off your chest.

Hmm. since I'm a girl...maybe I could help you out......

Girls are very sweet and gentle to almost anybody. That's why guys always found girls to be giving a hint to them. Well let's say she IS giving you a hint. Did you say that of all of your companions she's the only one who remembered your birthday? Well for us girls, it is a sin if you forgot special days. Especially if you are that special to her.....
So if you really wanna know if she likes you or not...go and talk to her heart to heart. That's what we girls like the guys to be......

I'm not a god fan XP.. but I think that she should make the moves as she is your best friend, it wouldnt be clever to ruin a friendship over love.. as it has been a friendship for over a year, but that is only my two cents

ima god fan XD
just ask her.. shes eighter wants to be ur best friend(bday thing) or likes you... its 50:50
dunno about you but id like those odds...im a bettin man XD

as a girl, i think i'd be nice to anyone that's nice to me in return.she isnt necessarily interested.and best friend is not equal to boyfriend.keep that in mind.

i say just carry on with your friendship and take it as it comes.if you feel that she's still dropping hints and you're willing to risk the stable fiendship then go and confess

well im a guy, and i think if you really like this girl than go for it. She could very well be waiting for you to make your move. You might regret it later on

Confess

i think you should confess but then she says that your her best freind. sometimes guys get a little carried away when it comes to girls. i was a best friends with a guy once and it turned out he thought i was his girl friend. i found that out by mistake and it ruined our friendship. he wasn't my type just a best friend type (you know what i'm saying? ;) )so it's kinda hard to say.
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both.
let god decide or if it's your gutt feeling that is really and i mean really strong then ya take a chance.
she may slap you or love you :)

It sounds like a really good friendship relation. If you really do LOVE this girl, confess to her and see what she makes of it. Good luck!

be a man, step up, and tell her. thats what i say

Tell her! If you don't, and she was the one for you, you'll wind up wondering your whole life about "the one that got away" :D

ohhh...you're in the "friend zone" thats..a BAD thing. When girls become your friends....you really have almost no chance of taking the net step, it may sound ignorant and stereotypical..but its true. Just ask her now..don't wait any longer, and hope for the best.

Well, I'm a girl and I like guys that take the initiative and go for it.

But you really can't decide by what people tell you.

Is this a girl who remembers ALL her friend's birthdays? Or just yours?

And while confessing it might be a good thing, do you really want to risk the relationship you have with her now?

And what if she says that she really likes you, but then the relationship doesn't work out? What then?

I say think about it a bit more before you go confessing.

CONFESS NOW!

if you don't, youl ever regret it! whadda you have to loose?

whatever, do it! if no, you deserve to get your butt kicked.

Confess! You'll regret it otherwise. Tell us if you do :)

hm...tricky question XD
if u really like..'OMgosh can't stop thinking bout her, think she like me as in bf? i dunno wat to do?!' < < < if ur lidat arh, i guess u need to work on ur self-esteem 1st. In other words bulit up ur self confidence. Get her prepared lol, say...'i really haf this big confession to make, hope ur not angry n not going to ruin our friendship'...then 'are ur ready, honestly?'
aiyohzz.. -_-' think i talk to much...
i advice u think thru 1st n considers da results carefully...
so-ree i'm confused myself >_<

i say just wait it out and think about it first before you confess or not. she might be dropping you hints or it might just be her acting like herself. i personally wouldn't ruin a good friendship if it was only a gut feeling

<chuckling> Good advice by all, I think.

<thoughtfully> There's a saying: "Fortune favors the bold." ^^

<laughs> When they said that, they must've been trying to tell me something, because that's something I have trouble with myself. Anyways, I think you should go for it. If she's a true friend, your telling her how you feel shouldn't kill your friendship...so you have much more to gain than lose.

Try to approach it gracefully...it's a bit of a sticky issue, but a lot of things in life are. Look at it from the standpoint that she's not a mind reader, so you have to tell her what you're thinking. I'd stick to the basics: tell her that you really like her, you find her attractive and you want to spend more time with her and get to know her better. If she says OK, you're in. If she turns you down - even though you may be dying inside - just smile and say, "I understand. I just wanted to let you know what I was thinking." And just let the conversation drift back to normal things...unless she wants to talk more about it. Sometimes handling the situation with grace can lead to her sharing her doubts and fears about the situation with you, and then you can address them. But even if it doesn't, handling the situation well help dispel any discomfort she may feel (unless they're truly mean, NO ONE enjoys rejecting someone) and keep your friendship intact. AND, it'll also give you more confidence for next time. ^_^

GOOD LUCK! Let us know how it turned out.

Go for it. You'll regret it later on. Worse comes to worse and she doesn't share the same feelings.

You two can still be friends. However, try and become more than just friends.

Now go and tell her your feelings about her.

well it all seems positive. so my suggestion is to confess, but with caution as always.

tekkzero: of course you risk your friendship by confession to her. i've been in this situation before. this girl is pretty, cute and very nice to me ( and i have no idea if she was nice with others too ) so one day i confess to her and hugs her. she just smiling at me without saying any words..then tommorow, she began to stay away from me and my friendship with her was completely broken.
thats why, do a triple check if that girl aslo have a feeling on you...if you're not sure, dont do it. take your time. or else you'll regret it..

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