This is a common problem no only between teens, but adults and people of all
ages and races.
I was just wondering if someone has cheated on you. How did you find out? did
you forgive him/her? what do you think about this issue?
In my case, when I was in 11th grade, I had a 'lovely' boyfriend. I liked him so
much. We were apparently happy and had our problems like everybody else, but we
found our way. Then, my best girl friend told me that her sister told her this
guy had another girlfriend! in the school of the sister of my best friend! I was
so dumb, I didn't want to believe it. My friend's sister said she saw them often
kissing and leaving school together. She even said the guy gave her presents to
her so she could give them to this guy's other girlfriend!
We broke up and made up like 4 times. I just thought this was a misunderstanding
or something. But why would my best friend and her sister lie to me? It just
doesn't make sense. We love each other, we're like sisters, so I finally decided
to dump this guy. I wasn't there, I can't know what happened, but I really don't
think they would lie to me, and my best friend reminded me of that also.
I felt so guilty, for preferring a guy and leaving my best friend just like
that. She forgave me, but I don't think she can forget the incident. We're fine
right now, I have an awesome boyfriend that really cares for me. I learned my
lesson and I will never betray her just like that. Sometimes, guys make me do
stupid things. Oh, damn heart!
In truth that when that happens one knows that nothing the same goes to be of
before, because it is to heal those wounds much and in special when you feel
that they have to you betrayed friends... good I hope that you surpass it...
pardon my horrible English
Yes, a couple of times. Of couse these experiences were bitter, but there is
always something good to learn from them. So I learned my lesson, I got up and
kept going.
Meh, 4 girls and counting. My second girl was really weird, we were spending a
night at her house, and we got in bed to watch some TV together. All of a
sudden, a staunch asshole comes in and starts frenching my girl. And she
accepted it..
Yeah, somebody did cheat on me....>_<
But that was whan i was in 3rd yr HS... He was 2 years older than me...
I know he loved me, and i loved him too... When there came a time that we would
have troubles, we would automatically find a solution... He was about to go to
college out of town.. He asked me if i want him to leave... i said its fine with
me co'z i cant really do anything bwt it.. i mean lyk, his mom wants him to
study outside... bdw, his parents dsnt knw of our relationship...
He said, he wont go if i dont want him to.... (What, and get blamed for ruining
his lyf?) So he went but we still kept in touch of each other... He would always
call at night and tell me he misses me and what he's been up to...
One time, He did not call me anymore... i figured maybe he was just busy... a
month passed still... no call... i kept thinking that maybe hes jz tired...
but i couldnt take it anymore, so i called his cellphone... a girl answered...
Her voice sounded flirty... I asked her who she is... she said it wsnt my
business... we started arguing until it came to the point wer she actually told
me that she's my bf's gf....
Shocked... i turned off my cell and did not use it for three weeks... wen i
opened it.. a great no. of missed calls wer der.... from him..
Of course i dumped the guy... i mean even though he was my 1st bf ever... and
actually ...I REALLY REALLY LOVED HIM!
Now, m still single... m in college, a freshmen... and happy!
This is a common problem no only between teens, but adults and people of all ages and races.
I was just wondering if someone has cheated on you. How did you find out? did you forgive him/her? what do you think about this issue?
In my case, when I was in 11th grade, I had a 'lovely' boyfriend. I liked him so much. We were apparently happy and had our problems like everybody else, but we found our way. Then, my best girl friend told me that her sister told her this guy had another girlfriend! in the school of the sister of my best friend! I was so dumb, I didn't want to believe it. My friend's sister said she saw them often kissing and leaving school together. She even said the guy gave her presents to her so she could give them to this guy's other girlfriend!
We broke up and made up like 4 times. I just thought this was a misunderstanding or something. But why would my best friend and her sister lie to me? It just doesn't make sense. We love each other, we're like sisters, so I finally decided to dump this guy. I wasn't there, I can't know what happened, but I really don't think they would lie to me, and my best friend reminded me of that also.
I felt so guilty, for preferring a guy and leaving my best friend just like that. She forgave me, but I don't think she can forget the incident. We're fine right now, I have an awesome boyfriend that really cares for me. I learned my lesson and I will never betray her just like that. Sometimes, guys make me do stupid things. Oh, damn heart!
In truth that when that happens one knows that nothing the same goes to be of before, because it is to heal those wounds much and in special when you feel that they have to you betrayed friends... good I hope that you surpass it... pardon my horrible English
Yeah i caught my ex gf in the act...first person ive ever really loved
Yes, a couple of times. Of couse these experiences were bitter, but there is always something good to learn from them. So I learned my lesson, I got up and kept going.
Meh, 4 girls and counting. My second girl was really weird, we were spending a night at her house, and we got in bed to watch some TV together. All of a sudden, a staunch asshole comes in and starts frenching my girl. And she accepted it..
Yeah, somebody did cheat on me....>_<
But that was whan i was in 3rd yr HS... He was 2 years older than me...
I know he loved me, and i loved him too... When there came a time that we would have troubles, we would automatically find a solution... He was about to go to college out of town.. He asked me if i want him to leave... i said its fine with me co'z i cant really do anything bwt it.. i mean lyk, his mom wants him to study outside... bdw, his parents dsnt knw of our relationship...
He said, he wont go if i dont want him to.... (What, and get blamed for ruining his lyf?) So he went but we still kept in touch of each other... He would always call at night and tell me he misses me and what he's been up to...
One time, He did not call me anymore... i figured maybe he was just busy... a month passed still... no call... i kept thinking that maybe hes jz tired...
but i couldnt take it anymore, so i called his cellphone... a girl answered... Her voice sounded flirty... I asked her who she is... she said it wsnt my business... we started arguing until it came to the point wer she actually told me that she's my bf's gf....
Shocked... i turned off my cell and did not use it for three weeks... wen i opened it.. a great no. of missed calls wer der.... from him..
Of course i dumped the guy... i mean even though he was my 1st bf ever... and actually ...I REALLY REALLY LOVED HIM!
Now, m still single... m in college, a freshmen... and happy!