I'm not really "attractive" persay.. but a lot of my guy friends say
that confidence is a big issue. How a
girl carries herself, not being egotistical, but being confident in the things
she does.. and being strong on their own.. I think they find that really
attractive ^_^ .. Every guy has different tastes.. a lot of guys like girls who
are independent, but who can also be protected when needed.
Just don't be full of yourself and think that the world revolves around you.
that is the fatal flaw in alot of girls in my area but sadly us boys have to put
up with it cause they are the only girls in our area *sigh*. Anyways be modest
to say the least.
i think i speak for most boys when i say, dont act like ur really good and hot,
this repulsive girl i know thinks shes hot, and always makes up stuff about her
many exs blah blah blah - it doesnt work
so to avoid that dont wear REALLY exposing clothing..
dont hug everyone u know, and dont say that ur friends are "eyecandy"
etc
and if a girl ask out a guy, that makes its easier for us guys lol,
It depends on what type you are going after. Each personality type warrants a
different attitude on attracting us. The best thing is to be who you are and
make sure that who you are attracting is the type of person who wants you for
you. Thank you and back to our regularly scheduled programming.
don't try and think of it as a sport... we guys aren't fish you know :P
Just be yourself, and someone is bound to notice you.
Then again, if you want to get glances dress in modest clothes, skirts, put
ribbons in your hair, grow your hair out long, and
don’t wear tons of makeup...
you’ll be noticed...
There is substance for every stereotype out there. And particularly for guys the
female "equipment" should at least "be there," (size doesn't
matter for MOST guys, but they should be present) to fulfill some subconcious
male requirement. It's a bigger factor at parties with strangers where outward
appearance (and dancing skill?) are the only things one can observe. And could
be a big factor for creating those "love at first sight" moments.
Then personality, clothes, hobbies, etc: will improve a friendly relationship to
one that's closer. But due to the sheer variety in "tastes" there's
bound to be a guy who likes "who you are." It's just up to fate to let
you find that person.
Shallow or not, that is a way to attract boys.
Keeping them interested takes intelligence. The question was how to attract
them, not how to get a meaningful relationship.
learn to cook, learn to be nice when I happen to come back from work after all
day, learn to be nice when I say that your butt actually does NOT look nice in
that ugly pair of flower pattern print pants that exposes your hips like a low
slung hippie, and learn to know that I like porn, and if you are going to B*tch
about it at least be nice and stay away from my collection, if you don't like
it, don't watch it.
of course, I would prefer that you actually sit down, relax your mind and watch
it with me, but that would be rare, cause you probably think I am crazy.
Also, boobies are shallow, but what can you deny, fact is we are animals, and
shallow is the art of survival, if you want morals, time to go back to fairytale
land where people live happily ever after.
you asked how to attract on the surface, so yeah, you need outer accessories,
then the deeper part comes in.
Just be yourself........to be honest, it seems you are looking (and you
shouldn't be doing that) for a particular type. Normally when you do that, the
good guys slip away from you and you get the assholes. Also, agressively
pursuing boys it makes you look sleezy, you will get used and abused that way.
What made me fall in love with my girl was her way of getting along with me.
When we were friends, she would be very close to me, would hug me or take my
hand and want to be allways with me.
I agree that it depends on the kind of boy you're talking about, but generally,
we like to be hugged and receive affection signs.
To be honest, it was my girl who made me fall in love with her, not me, and
someday, when she finally had made up her mind, she just kissed me and I took
that kiss.. and that was the most lovely moment I remember in my life ^__^
Depends on what type of guys you want to attrack. If its just any guy, just
1) Make yourself look nice but not extravagent
2) Learn how to walk, I mean that sexy walk where your butt moves back and
forth.
3) Give plenty of hints (small hints) that you want the guy to come over and
talk to you.
Lemme tell ya somethin', homey. Don't listen to jasaiyajin. No, seriously,
though... Being a guy, I can tell you right now that you can't just attract all
guys. Like girls, our tastes vary. I've fallen for girls that the majority of
the male population wouldn't even look twice at. My advice is this; since you
can't please everyone, please yourself. Just be yourself, you know? That way,
when someone is attracted to you (and I can promise you that this will happen
soon, if it's not happening right now), you know that they're attracted to you,
not an image that you've put on. And really, don't hit them with clubs. Lemme
know how it goes!
can somebody tell me how to attract boys? >=0000000~~~~~!
.... o_o;;;
I'm not really "attractive" persay.. but a lot of my guy friends say that confidence is a big issue. How a girl carries herself, not being egotistical, but being confident in the things she does.. and being strong on their own.. I think they find that really attractive ^_^ .. Every guy has different tastes.. a lot of guys like girls who are independent, but who can also be protected when needed.
Just don't be full of yourself and think that the world revolves around you. that is the fatal flaw in alot of girls in my area but sadly us boys have to put up with it cause they are the only girls in our area *sigh*. Anyways be modest to say the least.
boobies
It all depends on the kind of guy that you want, as we do have different tastes in friends, hobbies, foods, etc.
But as Boris hints as long as you've got "it," then every guy should show "some interest"
i think i speak for most boys when i say, dont act like ur really good and hot, this repulsive girl i know thinks shes hot, and always makes up stuff about her many exs blah blah blah - it doesnt work
so to avoid that dont wear REALLY exposing clothing..
dont hug everyone u know, and dont say that ur friends are "eyecandy" etc
and if a girl ask out a guy, that makes its easier for us guys lol,
It depends on what type you are going after. Each personality type warrants a different attitude on attracting us. The best thing is to be who you are and make sure that who you are attracting is the type of person who wants you for you. Thank you and back to our regularly scheduled programming.
boobies? how shallow...
don't try and think of it as a sport... we guys aren't fish you know :P
Just be yourself, and someone is bound to notice you.
Then again, if you want to get glances dress in modest clothes, skirts, put ribbons in your hair, grow your hair out long, and don’t wear tons of makeup... you’ll be noticed...
There is substance for every stereotype out there. And particularly for guys the female "equipment" should at least "be there," (size doesn't matter for MOST guys, but they should be present) to fulfill some subconcious male requirement. It's a bigger factor at parties with strangers where outward appearance (and dancing skill?) are the only things one can observe. And could be a big factor for creating those "love at first sight" moments.
Then personality, clothes, hobbies, etc: will improve a friendly relationship to one that's closer. But due to the sheer variety in "tastes" there's bound to be a guy who likes "who you are." It's just up to fate to let you find that person.
Shallow or not, that is a way to attract boys. Keeping them interested takes intelligence. The question was how to attract them, not how to get a meaningful relationship.
learn to cook, learn to be nice when I happen to come back from work after all day, learn to be nice when I say that your butt actually does NOT look nice in that ugly pair of flower pattern print pants that exposes your hips like a low slung hippie, and learn to know that I like porn, and if you are going to B*tch about it at least be nice and stay away from my collection, if you don't like it, don't watch it.
of course, I would prefer that you actually sit down, relax your mind and watch it with me, but that would be rare, cause you probably think I am crazy.
Also, boobies are shallow, but what can you deny, fact is we are animals, and shallow is the art of survival, if you want morals, time to go back to fairytale land where people live happily ever after.
you asked how to attract on the surface, so yeah, you need outer accessories, then the deeper part comes in.
Just be yourself........to be honest, it seems you are looking (and you shouldn't be doing that) for a particular type. Normally when you do that, the good guys slip away from you and you get the assholes. Also, agressively pursuing boys it makes you look sleezy, you will get used and abused that way.
be fun and talkative and playful. flirt alot. hehe...
It is said that the shortest way to reach a man's heart is thru the stomach :P
Beign funny and sure of yourself is very helpful too.
flirt? ... why not? :P
What made me fall in love with my girl was her way of getting along with me. When we were friends, she would be very close to me, would hug me or take my hand and want to be allways with me.
I agree that it depends on the kind of boy you're talking about, but generally, we like to be hugged and receive affection signs.
To be honest, it was my girl who made me fall in love with her, not me, and someday, when she finally had made up her mind, she just kissed me and I took that kiss.. and that was the most lovely moment I remember in my life ^__^
Depends on what type of guys you want to attrack. If its just any guy, just
1) Make yourself look nice but not extravagent
2) Learn how to walk, I mean that sexy walk where your butt moves back and forth.
3) Give plenty of hints (small hints) that you want the guy to come over and talk to you.
You want to attract the men...
Men are very visual...
Look nice... Be presentable...
What the heck is a "sexy walk?" LMAO!
nothing's more attractive than being your true self.
if the girl's not my type, than no matter how hard she tries, it just doesn't work for me.
Stick head out for whacking with big club, guy come knock you out, drag you to cave, then do the happy dance ^_^
years later, he's the one getting the club over his head
then after clubbin' so long, he dies first... wife lonely with club - have erotic nights ^_^
wtf, I need sleep...
When you see someone you really like, it always works to act horny in front of him, i'm aguy and believe me it works.
As long as the girl doesn't look like a tramp and showing signs of STDs.
just smile and strut what you've got! be yourself and wear pink...^^
guys have a fetish for pink...o_O and i don't know why...
Lemme tell ya somethin', homey. Don't listen to jasaiyajin. No, seriously, though... Being a guy, I can tell you right now that you can't just attract all guys. Like girls, our tastes vary. I've fallen for girls that the majority of the male population wouldn't even look twice at. My advice is this; since you can't please everyone, please yourself. Just be yourself, you know? That way, when someone is attracted to you (and I can promise you that this will happen soon, if it's not happening right now), you know that they're attracted to you, not an image that you've put on. And really, don't hit them with clubs. Lemme know how it goes!