You have a close friend that just came from a terrible break up with his ex..
then now your comforting him (not in a flirty way), you go to movies
together..
you play.. and laugh together for him to forget his ex..
and then suddenly you realized that you're falling for him..
what will you do?
Okay my baby listen to old foggy Jenosydes...you're not even twenty yet right?
The thing to do is to see right away how he feels about you RIGHT AWAY! There is
no dancing around when it comes to love. Now he might say that he's not
interested but then he's still a baby himself right...not even twenty or maybe
not even thirty. Allow the both of you to grow and live life not live love right
now...you can only end up being hurt like 99% of the time and no one wants that.
The truth of the matter is you have your whole life a head of you and the world
is huge! You do not want to end up doing something stupid that you would regret
later. Think of it like this love, he is your friend and loves you because of
that. If it develops into something more than consider yourself blessed that the
powers that be, the lesser gods, and the one God found it necessary to make you
lucky enough, blessed enough, and rare enough to embrace love-true love-in it's
purest form. So many people will never get that chance.
That is what usually happen to me. i fall for my friends but not for long! I
pretended that I didn't like that person, so I could make some interesting
points in front of him, but i don't think that seem to work. However that didn't
last for long. THe longest time is about 1/2 months...
I remember there was a time when I liked my best friend's bf. ALthough I haven't
seen his face, neverthelesss, I began to feel guilty because him is a VIP to my
friend, how could i ever betray her, after all things that she had done for
me...
That situation is very difficult to explain, can't breathe, luckily I've got out
of that by some other guy, who's very funny.
I am the type of person who don't really interest in something like love(gf/bf)
THat just isn't fun, it could kill you anytime, It's really hurt, badly!
It's ok for you to fall in love with your friend...but I would really suggest
that you still give it some time. Just let him feel that you are there for him
and show him that you care enough to let him know that you love him.
I'd say give him some time to get over his ex before you ask him (if you were
palnning to ask him) about how he feels for you.
Just act the way you've always acted and see if you can tell if his feelings are
also changing for you.
i wouldn't say that it's wrong... but in a way, i think that it is... if you do
hook up with him, it might be forever and it might not because he might see you
as a rebound. it would be best if you let things flow and check over your
emotions. are you really in love? infatuation? sibling-like love?
after all... you can't just say straight out that you're in love with your
friend because you've hung out, shared good times and tried to help him through
his break up. i should know... =\ too many guy friends around for me to handle.
and my feelings always get mixed up with what they really were and usually, i'd
end up getting hurt.
well its better to develop a feeling to a friend than to someone u juz know.. so
wad ill sae is take ur time.. dun take too long though.. or the chance might juz
slip..
You have a close friend that just came from a terrible break up with his ex..
then now your comforting him (not in a flirty way), you go to movies together..
you play.. and laugh together for him to forget his ex..
and then suddenly you realized that you're falling for him..
what will you do?
Okay my baby listen to old foggy Jenosydes...you're not even twenty yet right? The thing to do is to see right away how he feels about you RIGHT AWAY! There is no dancing around when it comes to love. Now he might say that he's not interested but then he's still a baby himself right...not even twenty or maybe not even thirty. Allow the both of you to grow and live life not live love right now...you can only end up being hurt like 99% of the time and no one wants that. The truth of the matter is you have your whole life a head of you and the world is huge! You do not want to end up doing something stupid that you would regret later. Think of it like this love, he is your friend and loves you because of that. If it develops into something more than consider yourself blessed that the powers that be, the lesser gods, and the one God found it necessary to make you lucky enough, blessed enough, and rare enough to embrace love-true love-in it's purest form. So many people will never get that chance.
That is what usually happen to me. i fall for my friends but not for long! I pretended that I didn't like that person, so I could make some interesting points in front of him, but i don't think that seem to work. However that didn't last for long. THe longest time is about 1/2 months...
I remember there was a time when I liked my best friend's bf. ALthough I haven't seen his face, neverthelesss, I began to feel guilty because him is a VIP to my friend, how could i ever betray her, after all things that she had done for me...
That situation is very difficult to explain, can't breathe, luckily I've got out of that by some other guy, who's very funny.
I am the type of person who don't really interest in something like love(gf/bf) THat just isn't fun, it could kill you anytime, It's really hurt, badly!
It's ok for you to fall in love with your friend...but I would really suggest that you still give it some time. Just let him feel that you are there for him and show him that you care enough to let him know that you love him.
I'd say give him some time to get over his ex before you ask him (if you were palnning to ask him) about how he feels for you.
Just act the way you've always acted and see if you can tell if his feelings are also changing for you.
*shrugs* Let it happen I suppose - its not a crime. I just wouldn't force things, let things happen in their own time.
i wouldn't say that it's wrong... but in a way, i think that it is... if you do hook up with him, it might be forever and it might not because he might see you as a rebound. it would be best if you let things flow and check over your emotions. are you really in love? infatuation? sibling-like love?
after all... you can't just say straight out that you're in love with your friend because you've hung out, shared good times and tried to help him through his break up. i should know... =\ too many guy friends around for me to handle. and my feelings always get mixed up with what they really were and usually, i'd end up getting hurt.
I.. guess I'll just act natural and see what happens, once she gets over her ex, then maybe I'll confess
well its better to develop a feeling to a friend than to someone u juz know.. so wad ill sae is take ur time.. dun take too long though.. or the chance might juz slip..
i tink its fine to start fallin for ur fren but but but.. do take xtra care. things cld turn out veri much different in a relationship.