Easiest way to go about this (to bypass all that likes me/likes me not stuff),
is just to ask them. Don't feel like going that direct? Then invite them to a
date (group date if you're still shy).
Uhh... I don't really know... I was kind of antisocial or whatever, so I didn't
care really much about new classmates.
Of the 3 newcomers there was only one girl, but we got along very well.. or you
could say that I guess. Used to walk home together n stuff like that. How it
happened? Don't really know... it started when heading home on the same bus, and
she was writing an sms, and I asked her who she was writing to.
Later on we started talking to eachother more when I was skipping classes, and
she had no lessons (she didn't have to attend french class, since she was
learning spanish).
She then started bringing me chocolate every day, and little gifts of the
sort...
I think I wasn't quite friendly with most people in school, but she seemed to
like me regardless.
Invite them to study with a group (that your in of course). Or better yet, just
start flirting with them. If they don't flirt back, you have your answer. If
they do, ask them to a simple date like grabbing something to eat for lunch or
getting some coffee.
If you wanna find out without ever talking to that person, good luck. This route
almost never ever works.
i found my classmate likes me bcoz he kept staring at me, and he didn't break
the eye contact when i looked at him!
but unfortunately, he isn't my type... bcoz i don't like a man who kept staring
at me without even talked to me, disgusting
and my friend told me that he liked me, he told my friend that he did, stupid
eh?
If i like that person then I'd smile , but if not, bad luck...
NEVER!
It's seem hard to people to say no/ never but to me if i don't like them, then
just say no, if have to, f them. Coz if you didn't hurt them now thye'll be hurt
later and it'll be more painful.
how can i tell? haha.. if tt person suddenly starts givin u stufff, showing
affections and tokin to u.. not to mention asking u out. but if i like tt
person. i dun mind being at de receivin end.lolx. if i dun like tt person. i
ignore her.
i'm pretty simple tbh, not boasting but i had a request of love and it wsa
simple-no
i mean shy people really just gotta take the long road, not in bad terms but
it's bcoz they r a bit afriad of 'somthing' so they need to hesitate little by
little
but simple straight forward would go and ask them (privately) do they like u or
not and then ask them to forget about the situation. but in any
case it's less of a chance of u getting 'hurt' if u build up YOUR relationship
with them not them to YOU, so simple and clean is me
Hmmm, when I meet a new classmate, I usualy ask a few simple questions, not too
intrusive; but enough to deduce their relationship status.
If she is single I will ask if she would like to go catch some tea or coffey (I
always invite friends who are already in their own relationships to come along
with us, because if I invite single people they will usualy hastle the person
that I have just met); thus, I can sort of learn more about what she prefers,
and at the same time get a semi-date.
During the semi-date, I like to put the idea out there that I am interested.
After that I simply let things resolve, I leave it up to her to decide if we
shall follow the road of a friendship, or draw the straw of a potential
relationship. The "resolving" period often takes a while; but, I don't
worry about it, and I don't bring it up again. Sometimes not even a friendhip
will pan out, and thats always fine, not everyone in the world can get along, no
matter how hard folks try.
That is the way that I like to opproach new classmates and new people in general
as long as the feeling seems mutual. Remember, always be honest, and be
yourself. Nothing will go right if you don't let someone know who you trully
are.
yes indeed, thats a very touching thing, well a bit but anyway
since i'm at the teen, i hardly go out so when i ask a class mate if they wanna
come and catch a drink i have other class maktes wanting to come since they've
never seen me in my original clothes lol. but it's just as renjiro said, ask a
FEW questions and if ur feeling edgy go and sneak to another table to talk to
the class mate. it's rather dodgy to ask them if there like all popular or bit
all hard acting. mostly succesful with the shy type
how? she keeps looking at me.....she keeps her face away when i look at her(her
reaction is fast) ...she tells her best friend about it who happens to be my
friend ....and i will know if a rumour spread.....but i just keep
quiet.....because i wanna enjoy my life....
Really now, how do you know if your classmate likes you? Girls- what do u guys try to do when u meet a new classmate? how about you, guys?
Easiest way to go about this (to bypass all that likes me/likes me not stuff), is just to ask them. Don't feel like going that direct? Then invite them to a date (group date if you're still shy).
Uhh... I don't really know... I was kind of antisocial or whatever, so I didn't care really much about new classmates.
Of the 3 newcomers there was only one girl, but we got along very well.. or you could say that I guess. Used to walk home together n stuff like that. How it happened? Don't really know... it started when heading home on the same bus, and she was writing an sms, and I asked her who she was writing to.
Later on we started talking to eachother more when I was skipping classes, and she had no lessons (she didn't have to attend french class, since she was learning spanish).
She then started bringing me chocolate every day, and little gifts of the sort...
I think I wasn't quite friendly with most people in school, but she seemed to like me regardless.
Invite them to study with a group (that your in of course). Or better yet, just start flirting with them. If they don't flirt back, you have your answer. If they do, ask them to a simple date like grabbing something to eat for lunch or getting some coffee.
If you wanna find out without ever talking to that person, good luck. This route almost never ever works.
i found my classmate likes me bcoz he kept staring at me, and he didn't break the eye contact when i looked at him!
but unfortunately, he isn't my type... bcoz i don't like a man who kept staring at me without even talked to me, disgusting
and my friend told me that he liked me, he told my friend that he did, stupid eh?
If i like that person then I'd smile , but if not, bad luck...
NEVER!
It's seem hard to people to say no/ never but to me if i don't like them, then just say no, if have to, f them. Coz if you didn't hurt them now thye'll be hurt later and it'll be more painful.
how can i tell? haha.. if tt person suddenly starts givin u stufff, showing affections and tokin to u.. not to mention asking u out. but if i like tt person. i dun mind being at de receivin end.lolx. if i dun like tt person. i ignore her.
i'm pretty simple tbh, not boasting but i had a request of love and it wsa simple-no
i mean shy people really just gotta take the long road, not in bad terms but it's bcoz they r a bit afriad of 'somthing' so they need to hesitate little by little
but simple straight forward would go and ask them (privately) do they like u or not and then ask them to forget about the situation. but in any
case it's less of a chance of u getting 'hurt' if u build up YOUR relationship with them not them to YOU, so simple and clean is me
Hmmm, when I meet a new classmate, I usualy ask a few simple questions, not too intrusive; but enough to deduce their relationship status.
If she is single I will ask if she would like to go catch some tea or coffey (I always invite friends who are already in their own relationships to come along with us, because if I invite single people they will usualy hastle the person that I have just met); thus, I can sort of learn more about what she prefers, and at the same time get a semi-date.
During the semi-date, I like to put the idea out there that I am interested. After that I simply let things resolve, I leave it up to her to decide if we shall follow the road of a friendship, or draw the straw of a potential relationship. The "resolving" period often takes a while; but, I don't worry about it, and I don't bring it up again. Sometimes not even a friendhip will pan out, and thats always fine, not everyone in the world can get along, no matter how hard folks try.
That is the way that I like to opproach new classmates and new people in general as long as the feeling seems mutual. Remember, always be honest, and be yourself. Nothing will go right if you don't let someone know who you trully are.
yes indeed, thats a very touching thing, well a bit but anyway
since i'm at the teen, i hardly go out so when i ask a class mate if they wanna come and catch a drink i have other class maktes wanting to come since they've never seen me in my original clothes lol. but it's just as renjiro said, ask a FEW questions and if ur feeling edgy go and sneak to another table to talk to the class mate. it's rather dodgy to ask them if there like all popular or bit all hard acting. mostly succesful with the shy type
how? she keeps looking at me.....she keeps her face away when i look at her(her reaction is fast) ...she tells her best friend about it who happens to be my friend ....and i will know if a rumour spread.....but i just keep quiet.....because i wanna enjoy my life....
well im going to make this topic rise again
since my one got deleted.. and classmate kinda.. differs from people out side of
school eg.work.