Alright, well I met this really amazing guy at a friends party and now we see
eachother everyday. I really like this guy, and my friend thinks he has some
interest in me because he always talks about me, but the thing is he's bi. I
can't help liking him...but what should I do?
First off, did he or a close friend to
him tell you that he was bi? Is it a known 100% fact or just a rumor? Secondly,
does it matter to you if he's bisexual? If you really like him, then I would
suggest talking to him and getting to know him better. You never know... maybe
going with a guy was a one time deal? Good luck!
if he's bi then there's no problem. i would only say forget about him in a
romantic sense if he were gay. i agree with fireflywishes, you should get to
know him better. good luck! i hope it goes well for you^.^
why on earth is it a problem? honestly, there's no "problem" if a guy
is bisexual. just because he likes both genders doesn't mean you can't have a
relationship with him.
get to know him better, and don't let his supposed sexuality make you think any
less of him. he's human, nothing more,
nothing less.
whats the deal?bi doesnt mean gay last time i checked, so stop worring about it.
bit of advice from a guy, If he's "always talks about me" then he
likes you. Also are you sure hes single
My best friend told me about him being bi. I never tried saying there was
anything wrong with him being bisexual. And no, he is not single, he has a
boyfriend (Sorry, I forgot to add that) I do want to get to know him better, but
I'm afraid that I'll get hurt in the process, even if we're not in a
relationship or anything close to that.
But how come you want to know him if he already taken .Do you want to become his
friend or his Girlfriend .Is okay to get to know someone who is taken but trying
to come between is a little wrong don't you think. He must be cute or have a
really nice personality right?And I think being Bi is okay because You know the
best of both world.
You don't have to worry about him whether he is bi or not, but it's more about
you, what does come in your mind when you think of him? Anyway I don't think
that you should go for him, because he already has someone. I mean being a
"third person" in a relationship isn't something you want to.
If and only if he single and he shows really interest in you then you might
consider it......
Quote by jennafoxBut how come you want
to know him if he already taken .Do you want to become his friend or his
Girlfriend .Is okay to get to know someone who is taken but trying to come
between is a little wrong don't you think. He must be cute or have a really nice
personality right?And I think being Bi is okay because You know the best of both
world.
When dealing with guys that are bi, "already taken" hasa a whole new
meaning. If his boyfriend is also Bi then give up, hes going to see you as a
threat and drive you out of town. However if his boyfriend is gay and only
interested in guys then you might not be seen as a threat and believe it or not
you might end up sharing your love interest. It all depends on their
personalities though, because some people are cool with this kind of thing and
some definately aren't.
Off topic: Meleesaw, you've been a member 14 weeks and still haven't put anyting
on your userpage, change it otherwise it looks like you have a dummy/bot
account.
(some of you guys might have the wrong idea, I'm sorry if I didn't make this
clear, but I don't mean to say there's anything wrong with him being bi or that
I want to stop liking because of that, that's not what I'm trying to say, sorry
about the confusion) I want to get to know him as a friend, and I'm not the kind
of person to get in between relationships. But like some of you say, MAYBE
someday things can be different, that is another reason why I still want to get
closer to him, but for now, only as friends.
Do u not just like him but love him?If so tell him how u feel, does it really
matter if he's bi?It's all about how the person feels.I can't tell the person i
love for certain reasons,but u can. So don't wait till the chance u have goes
with the wind.
Ya, you shud make the bi thingy clear a not you will miss this guy... And if
he`s a bi, he could possibly have interest in you and if you like him then make
him love you too, then he will not be a bi... He will but all his attention in
you...
i agree with some.. disagree with some.
first of all.. if you really like him.. why did you even bother if he is a bi..
if you really like him, you shld be able to accept him as a a bi.. if he really
has a "bf" o_O then.. then... dont you think forgetting him will be
goodie? knowing him more isn't a bad idea.. at least he will be a good friend of
yours.. and who knows.. maybe you can help him to turn back to a normal guy..
Alright, well I met this really amazing guy at a friends party and now we see eachother everyday. I really like this guy, and my friend thinks he has some interest in me because he always talks about me, but the thing is he's bi. I can't help liking him...but what should I do?
First off, did he or a close friend to him tell you that he was bi? Is it a known 100% fact or just a rumor? Secondly, does it matter to you if he's bisexual? If you really like him, then I would suggest talking to him and getting to know him better. You never know... maybe going with a guy was a one time deal? Good luck!
if he's bi then there's no problem. i would only say forget about him in a romantic sense if he were gay. i agree with fireflywishes, you should get to know him better. good luck! i hope it goes well for you^.^
who told you he was bi?
why on earth is it a problem? honestly, there's no "problem" if a guy is bisexual. just because he likes both genders doesn't mean you can't have a relationship with him.
get to know him better, and don't let his supposed sexuality make you think any less of him. he's human, nothing more, nothing less.
whats the deal?bi doesnt mean gay last time i checked, so stop worring about it.
bit of advice from a guy, If he's "always talks about me" then he likes you. Also are you sure hes single
good luck with it
My best friend told me about him being bi. I never tried saying there was anything wrong with him being bisexual. And no, he is not single, he has a boyfriend (Sorry, I forgot to add that) I do want to get to know him better, but I'm afraid that I'll get hurt in the process, even if we're not in a relationship or anything close to that.
But thank you guys for your support!
But how come you want to know him if he already taken .Do you want to become his friend or his Girlfriend .Is okay to get to know someone who is taken but trying to come between is a little wrong don't you think. He must be cute or have a really nice personality right?And I think being Bi is okay because You know the best of both world.
You don't have to worry about him whether he is bi or not, but it's more about you, what does come in your mind when you think of him? Anyway I don't think that you should go for him, because he already has someone. I mean being a "third person" in a relationship isn't something you want to.
If and only if he single and he shows really interest in you then you might consider it......
When dealing with guys that are bi, "already taken" hasa a whole new meaning. If his boyfriend is also Bi then give up, hes going to see you as a threat and drive you out of town. However if his boyfriend is gay and only interested in guys then you might not be seen as a threat and believe it or not you might end up sharing your love interest. It all depends on their personalities though, because some people are cool with this kind of thing and some definately aren't.
Off topic: Meleesaw, you've been a member 14 weeks and still haven't put anyting on your userpage, change it otherwise it looks like you have a dummy/bot account.
(some of you guys might have the wrong idea, I'm sorry if I didn't make this clear, but I don't mean to say there's anything wrong with him being bi or that I want to stop liking because of that, that's not what I'm trying to say, sorry about the confusion) I want to get to know him as a friend, and I'm not the kind of person to get in between relationships. But like some of you say, MAYBE someday things can be different, that is another reason why I still want to get closer to him, but for now, only as friends.
Yeah, sorry, I will update my page.
Do u not just like him but love him?If so tell him how u feel, does it really matter if he's bi?It's all about how the person feels.I can't tell the person i love for certain reasons,but u can. So don't wait till the chance u have goes with the wind.
Ya, you shud make the bi thingy clear a not you will miss this guy... And if he`s a bi, he could possibly have interest in you and if you like him then make him love you too, then he will not be a bi... He will but all his attention in you...
i agree with some.. disagree with some.
first of all.. if you really like him.. why did you even bother if he is a bi.. if you really like him, you shld be able to accept him as a a bi.. if he really has a "bf" o_O then.. then... dont you think forgetting him will be goodie? knowing him more isn't a bad idea.. at least he will be a good friend of yours.. and who knows.. maybe you can help him to turn back to a normal guy..
Good luck to ya!~
Go for it, if it doesn't go well, mop up and move on.
I've dumped and been dumped a total of 16 times, it doesn't hurt to try.