Well, I'm not sure if I found my first love yet or not..
I recently broke up with someone I've been seeing. He still loves me though..
I'm over him, but he seems to be so sad. I wish he'll get over me...
We weren't together that long.. only about 2 months. However, I guess I broke up
with him is because he was so well... let's say posessive. He would force me to
do some things I'd rather not do... (against my will, but dont worry, nothing
was bad or "wrong" or against the law)
Did I ever love him? I guess not... I think it was just a crush that got too
far..
Besides, I realized that I love my best guy friend more than him. I'm more
comfortable with him than my ex... We can talk about almost anything. We have a
really close friendship, and it's great=)
But anyway, everyone else, how did your first love work out?
Well...I'm enjoying my first love right now, it has been about 4 month now and
still going. We aren't a normal couple, because we don't give up that easily.
And love each other the best we can. We even thinking of marrying later also.
OP, no offense, you you sound very conceited and selfish from here. Maybe I was
In your ex's shoes before, and let me tell you, if you haven't expirienced it
before..you would say what you'd just said. How would you feel if your existance
were not validated, that your best is not good enough. Worst of all, you may not
even have told him the reason or reasons, which makes it even worse. I'd imagine
he is writing a ton of poems right now, populating his blog. Anyways, if he
really is an asshole, please disregard.
Chau-chan, good job, guys! Your love is what I'd wished for before my first.
I always dreamed the first love would last and all or at least we could still be
good friends but no. this is sometihng so very very wrong. you can't be friends
ith your ex! .... *ahem* ah... that's another topic ^^;
well my first love ended in a very interesting way..
it's a long story though=P
you said that yours was a crush that got too far.
I guess it was the same with me. I was simply impressed but when i think about
how i feel about the guy i love now and remember what i felt for the guy i broke
up with.... well let's just say there is a huge difference!
Maybe some of you will find me selfish but i had to be realistic there: we had
no future and the relationship was depending on my patience against his abnormal
reasons of "not talking with me" and "having psycological
problems because of the exams and his mother" etc. And as i thought about
it more and more the guy who commented about the chick on the next table (while
we're hanging out with our group) would go and make a move on her if i wasn't
there.
So anyway after a lot of things we stopped seeing each other (but we didnt break
up. the oh-so-in-love guy suddenly stopped calling and out of anger i didnt call
back either and said that we broke up.)
Two months later when i talked with a friend of mine she said that she talked to
him and he said: "i guess we broke up she hasn't been calling me for 3
months"
give me a break here!
anyway, after a lot of other stuff we finally met again on the summer break and
i noticed something was wrong since everybody was acting differently around
him...like more careful! (but that's another topic about "being betrayed by
the damned souls you trusted" so i will skip that part here)
after a couple of weeks i learned that he was two-timing while we were dating.
(as guessed by all) no wait..actually...two..three..four?!?!
so my heart which showed a little sympathy for seeing him after so many months
made a 180 degree turn.
when he heard that i learned about what he did behind my back he started showing
more affection but i did not look at him and just gave short
answers.(suprising..short answer?me?:P)
He send messages to me until christmas like "remembereing that song"
but oh boy i learned my lesson!
anyway for those who didnt read: it ended with anger. lots and lots of anger.
and now after a whole year i fell in love again with someone
(though i'm not sure if he knows my existence
)
i was with my first bf for 1.4 years, we didn't break up he had to move to New
York. That's a real long way so we both decided to move on. but i really liked
him.
my first relationship lasted 2 years, the 2nd 5 months and the 3rd/last was 16
days (my last bf was an ass). I never allowed my boyfriends to try anything
"dirty" or sexual with me, because my mom threated to put me out if I
did. I love my mom too much to go behind her back for something as stupid as
sex.
Anyway, I've been single for 2 years, and while it's annoying to be single
sometimes, it's not so bad. My friendships haven't suffered as much and my
relationship with my parents hasn't changed, for which I am grateful.
i never gone for somethig sexual too, thank god, and i'm actually quite happy
about not seeing the friends there anymore also. i guess even a bf/gf situation
might help you see the true colors of some people and return from the road
before it's too late and you suffer more.
my longest was wow O.O 3 weeks and i thought it was love but alas lust can be a
clever lil bug lol we ended it with "it isint you, its meh" lol and
now we are best friends! <3
I'm 19 and have been out with a few guys. My current boyfriend is the only
person I've been in love with, however - I guess this means he is my "first
love". We've been together about 9 months.
Mine lasted for 6 years, but I moved to another country. I haven't stopped
loving him tough. Before I left, I really hurt his feelings by acting ashamed
that he loved me, so I didn't leave on good terms.
Whoa..and i thought i was the only one who's first love lasted less than 2
years.Mine ended after 2 years.Hahaha..i think at that time i was just too
premature to understand and maintain the true meaning of a relationship.
I guess I would say.. There was no relationship in the first place...lolz
But unfortunately I was stuck to the gal for 4 years...
Why i didn't like or love anyone else.. i don't know.. My friends call me an
idiot..haha
Somehow she knew all along & decided to stall me since she likes
attention..
Well..in short i was used...haha
Either way it's a long story.. Well,that's about my first love..(If u can call
it as that)
hmm..
My first love.. It was in primary school ^^ I can barely remember that ;P I was
in love for a few years, even when we broke up I was still loving him
I have many beautifull memories from that time
Well I am still with my first love, we have been together for almost 2 years.
And I am planning to move to the Uk to be with him permanently next year. We
have managed to survive long distance. And I think we will probably get married
soon True love the first time, I was very lucky.
Well, I'm not sure if I found my first love yet or not..
I recently broke up with someone I've been seeing. He still loves me though.. I'm over him, but he seems to be so sad. I wish he'll get over me...
We weren't together that long.. only about 2 months. However, I guess I broke up with him is because he was so well... let's say posessive. He would force me to do some things I'd rather not do... (against my will, but dont worry, nothing was bad or "wrong" or against the law)
Did I ever love him? I guess not... I think it was just a crush that got too far..
Besides, I realized that I love my best guy friend more than him. I'm more comfortable with him than my ex... We can talk about almost anything. We have a really close friendship, and it's great=)
But anyway, everyone else, how did your first love work out?
Well...I'm enjoying my first love right now, it has been about 4 month now and still going. We aren't a normal couple, because we don't give up that easily. And love each other the best we can. We even thinking of marrying later also.
Until she decided to get pregnant with another guys child while I was in basic training. Memories...
Mine lasted about two months...I wish it was longer...but stuff happened. Not a good thing.
OP, no offense, you you sound very conceited and selfish from here. Maybe I was In your ex's shoes before, and let me tell you, if you haven't expirienced it before..you would say what you'd just said. How would you feel if your existance were not validated, that your best is not good enough. Worst of all, you may not even have told him the reason or reasons, which makes it even worse. I'd imagine he is writing a ton of poems right now, populating his blog. Anyways, if he really is an asshole, please disregard.
Chau-chan, good job, guys! Your love is what I'd wished for before my first.
I always dreamed the first love would last and all or at least we could still be good friends but no. this is sometihng so very very wrong. you can't be friends ith your ex! .... *ahem* ah... that's another topic ^^;
well my first love ended in a very interesting way..
it's a long story though=P
you said that yours was a crush that got too far.
I guess it was the same with me. I was simply impressed but when i think about how i feel about the guy i love now and remember what i felt for the guy i broke up with.... well let's just say there is a huge difference!
Maybe some of you will find me selfish but i had to be realistic there: we had no future and the relationship was depending on my patience against his abnormal reasons of "not talking with me" and "having psycological problems because of the exams and his mother" etc. And as i thought about it more and more the guy who commented about the chick on the next table (while we're hanging out with our group) would go and make a move on her if i wasn't there.
So anyway after a lot of things we stopped seeing each other (but we didnt break up. the oh-so-in-love guy suddenly stopped calling and out of anger i didnt call back either and said that we broke up.)
Two months later when i talked with a friend of mine she said that she talked to him and he said: "i guess we broke up she hasn't been calling me for 3 months"
give me a break here!
anyway, after a lot of other stuff we finally met again on the summer break and i noticed something was wrong since everybody was acting differently around him...like more careful! (but that's another topic about "being betrayed by the damned souls you trusted" so i will skip that part here)
after a couple of weeks i learned that he was two-timing while we were dating. (as guessed by all) no wait..actually...two..three..four?!?!
so my heart which showed a little sympathy for seeing him after so many months made a 180 degree turn.
when he heard that i learned about what he did behind my back he started showing more affection but i did not look at him and just gave short answers.(suprising..short answer?me?:P)
He send messages to me until christmas like "remembereing that song" but oh boy i learned my lesson!
anyway for those who didnt read: it ended with anger. lots and lots of anger. and now after a whole year i fell in love again with someone
(though i'm not sure if he knows my existence
i was with my first bf for 1.4 years, we didn't break up he had to move to New York. That's a real long way so we both decided to move on. but i really liked him.
my first relationship lasted 2 years, the 2nd 5 months and the 3rd/last was 16 days (my last bf was an ass). I never allowed my boyfriends to try anything "dirty" or sexual with me, because my mom threated to put me out if I did. I love my mom too much to go behind her back for something as stupid as sex.
Anyway, I've been single for 2 years, and while it's annoying to be single sometimes, it's not so bad. My friendships haven't suffered as much and my relationship with my parents hasn't changed, for which I am grateful.
i never gone for somethig sexual too, thank god, and i'm actually quite happy about not seeing the friends there anymore also. i guess even a bf/gf situation might help you see the true colors of some people and return from the road before it's too late and you suffer more.
thankfully im still with my first love...and i pray that we'll stay together because ill do anything for her.
2 days. lol i hope i can increase the lasting of my relationships, but love isnt my priority.
my longest was wow O.O 3 weeks and i thought it was love but alas lust can be a clever lil bug lol we ended it with "it isint you, its meh" lol and now we are best friends! <3
Mine lasted about 2 years. To bad it didn't work out. **sigh** I don't think I will ever be over it.
I'm 19 and have been out with a few guys. My current boyfriend is the only person I've been in love with, however - I guess this means he is my "first love". We've been together about 9 months.
my first love lasted only 6 month but it was a on and off thing becasue we were young only 15 that time.
Mine lasted for 6 years, but I moved to another country. I haven't stopped loving him tough. Before I left, I really hurt his feelings by acting ashamed that he loved me, so I didn't leave on good terms.
Whoa..and i thought i was the only one who's first love lasted less than 2 years.Mine ended after 2 years.Hahaha..i think at that time i was just too premature to understand and maintain the true meaning of a relationship.
I guess I would say.. There was no relationship in the first place...lolz
But unfortunately I was stuck to the gal for 4 years...
Why i didn't like or love anyone else.. i don't know.. My friends call me an idiot..haha
Somehow she knew all along & decided to stall me since she likes attention..
Well..in short i was used...haha
Either way it's a long story.. Well,that's about my first love..(If u can call it as that)
hmm..
My first love.. It was in primary school ^^ I can barely remember that ;P I was in love for a few years, even when we broke up I was still loving him
I have many beautifull memories from that time
Never had a love... but simply posting because even after 20 years some people still don't find love.
Well I am still with my first love, we have been together for almost 2 years. And I am planning to move to the Uk to be with him permanently next year. We have managed to survive long distance. And I think we will probably get married soon
True love the first time, I was very lucky.
well 1 day 2 min and 34 secs.....
.... you counted? woah... it's an interesting world out there alright... (no offense) LOL
My first love was only imaginary... i fell in love with a girl in our class. But could never dare to ask.....