Those girls are so incredibly annoying. How about a tip: listen in class, retard. =D And I understand what you mean by them 'thinking they are being clever about it'. I have WAY too many girls like that in my health class.
GAH

Okay, luckily, I don't hang around those type of girls anyway in my classes. In general, any girl I like is someone who is smart. Although sometimes I end up hurting some people when they do the same thing, I try to keep my distance from those kinds of people because usually they're just trying to play with me to make fun of me in front of their friends.

When it comes to people who don't know answers to things, I try my best to help them out since they don't give me the impression that they're faking it.

well that seems pretty annoying, I had a problem with ignorant girl once, and its actually about money. Once, I was doing my homework in the car, since my dad was shopping in the supermarket and told me to wait in the car. A women in her mid twenties Im guessing comes up with her son. Her son was probalbly 12 and pretty chubby. She was holding a small little sign saying she needs money to feed her 3 children. I wasn't sure I about it since I can tell she feeds that one kid pretty well. But I decided to be nice and give her 3 bucks. I pulled out a ten dollar bill at the same time and she asked if she could have that 10 dollar. I just sat there and stared. Then I told her I just gave her 3 bucks. But she kept asking for the 10 dollar bill. and that little chubby kid tries to get the 10 dollar from me. I was kind enough to give 3 bucks and they want more? They should be glad I didn't kick that little fatboy's butt for trying to mess with me. After 4 times me repeating I just gave you 3 bucks, they left, that little turd giggled walking away.......and when they were far enough I threw an empty water bottle at them.....I smacked the turd....heheheh ^_^

that suks alot dude...i have this girl in one of my classes who copies all my junk n everything...gets me ticked off cause shes gettin a better grade then i am n she sleeps in class all day...the heck........and she wonders y i get mad at her.....FREAKIN LAZY.....DO YOUR OWN WORK...LEARN IT..ITS NOT MY JOB TO TAKE CARE OF YOU....i hate havin leaches....bleh.....anyone who does that suks lol....though im bein sorta a hypocryte kinda......lol....i dont try to do it though.....i ask for help when im lost bleh....

leet, asking to learn is not being a hypocrite. They don't want to learn, they just want to pass.

I know this type "dumb females". This type is also known as "blonds".
I know how you feel. I've been used by this type too. It saddens me when i think i helped them. Look, you have got to act more egoistic. Ask her:" What do i get in return for helping you?"
Someone, please help me! My class contains 31 people, all girls, 19 of them are "dumb females". They finaly left me allone when i simply said: "i don't know"

Try it some times

Never done that before, so I don't have any idea on how a female would react, but why don't you try things like ignore her, or explain to her why you don't want to help her anymore... she can't be dependent on you forever. She has to learn by herself. You won't always be there to help her...

Oh, and one more thing, please don't take too much pity on her if ever she begs you to help her some more, it could just be another trick to start the whole helping thing... again...

If they are clearly using you, why do you still bother to hang around them and help them do their work? You yourself said you are being used, so why help them?

I think if your aware of it you should stop letting yourself get played.
Im not the type to use people I perfer to do things myself or in some cases make an even trade if you have something I want then I'll give you something you want.

I don't bother those types of girls... So just stay away from them. if they come to you on purpose and you know it's going to be something not good, bitchslap them... Those kind of girls just piss me off

Psh Please dump them, dont pay attention to them, just everyday abd on ignore them a lilttle and a little until they dont talk to you anymore. psh thats what I did with some people I didnt like.

merged: 05-04-2006 ~ 10:28pm
btw i hate those girl that think they are so smart but hey are totally pathetic and LAZY like some girl behind me in one of my classes.

Well if your not happy with helping her, then don't do it.

I don't usually encounter or hang out with many "dumb girls", by that I mean that I don't care how they are intellectually, as long as I enjoy beeing with them.
If anyone would try to use me, then I'd tell them square in the face that they should drop it and rely on themselves more.

What AceGunman said is a good point, tell the girl that you're not helpin her anymore and she can back off and fail the stupid class, or start paying attention and make sure to be mean about it, cause girls hate it when a guy is mean to em...specially when they're really bein mean and not playin around :P. Also tell her the little stupid act isn't cute, because...if you put an end to the little "dumb and defensless" act you would be my hero (also my name does not mean I am clueless all the time, sometimes I space out and get a lil...clueless :P so yea...not a "dumb" girl )

Quote: also my name does not mean I am clueless all the time, sometimes I space out and get a lil...clueless :P so yea...not a "dumb" girl

Funny now isn't it, the names we choose for ourselves? It's seen as showing off when we call things as we see them. For example people would talk if you came here with the name "richgirl06". They'd say who's she kidding, and look up the other 5+ "richgirl" accounts here. OTOH "clueless" fits the mold, so you get to pass under the radar of back stabbing.

If you were smart you would be avoiding them from the start :P
I can understand you being nice and stuff. But I consider myself a nice/helpful person aswell, and there's a line you draw for self respect. If you make yourself out to be someone who is easily controlled, you will obviously attract people who only seek to take advantage of you.
There's also a point of being honest with youself and with others. It can only get worse the longer you let it go on.
I'm not trying to sound harsh here, but it's just that I've encountered many of these type of people you speak of. Sure they suck, but you can't change who they are.

That is a fate that has already befallen me. Of course, it's not too late to change, but to be blunt, manipulation is just something that all people should avoid, whether you're smart or not. People will do evil things to get their way, and as a result, will pretty much do anything just to do whatever it is they need. They manipulate in order to satisfy their wants. And that will soon apply to you yourself, so you should try to get used to it and adapt to that situation by taking the appropriate action. Being evasive is NOT going to help.

After all, that'll only lead to even more pestering and annoyance, which no one really likes at all. I know this, because I've experienced this probably far more than you have. If I'm wrong, well. Still. It's an inevitable encounter which you will come across more than once in your lifetime, but you must learn to become tougher. I made the mistake of being virtuous to a fault. It's made me become indecisive. And, ultimately, a weaker person.

You're so right. I'm now trying new methods w/ even my close friends. Once you start to deconstruct your life, whole new points of view present themselves. I'm done doing all the heavy lifting for the people in my life. If they can't follow under their own power, then they'll stumble, and fall. Then I get to see if they can pick themselves back up again.

Don't ever let someone exploit you---friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, even family. That's what I believe. The people who exploit most likely aren't the people who hold you closest to their heart since they're using you for their benefit. I would steer clear of all people who exploit me---and I'd tell people if they ask too much from me or are growing too dependent on me. No one should ever be controlled and used by someone else.

I dont know your scenario but I'm glad I dont have anyone that I like or anyone who likes me. =D When it comes to relationships....or whatever.....I dont give a crap for that....but yeah I help people who come to me about their problems =D

merged: 05-19-2006 ~ 02:35pm
also keep in mind is that if she's not respecting you then just screw it =D

Uhh....yeah I know those kinds of people. They usually aren't bad, just manipulative.

I teach them things incorrectly anyway.

I don't consider myself as part of the "smart male" population, however. Although I don't think I'm stupid, I just don't want to be in the same group as you, and I really don't feel the need to flaunt whatever intelligence I may - or may not - have.

That dumb female that you mentioned is probably a person who thinks of you only as her "classroom friend." Except for near the class time and during that period, she will want you to be her friend, but after that time is over, pretend that you are hardly acquaintances.
Don't let her think this way. Do what you want and talk to her any time you want. If she has the right, you do too. If you are a "smart male" as you claim, tell her that you aren't so easily manipulated by discreet actions. And while you're at it, get yourself a social life with girls other than her to show that you aren't so flattered by a friendship with her.

Quote by Rosegirl18...thinks of you only as her "classroom friend." Except for near the class time and during that period, she will want you to be her friend, but after that time is over, pretend that you are hardly acquaintances.
...get yourself a social life with girls other than her to show that you aren't so flattered by a friendship with her.

Actually she wanted to be "seen with me" after class, and got mad when I left. She accused me of rushing away.

Maybe there is something to that, I have a rather large social order on campus. I'm involved with some of the science related clubs. Maybe she was trying to get "in", and going about it wrong? Missunderstanding that these aren't really all my friends, they just depend on me? You make a good point.

umm so i guess that chick sucks..
are you still with her?
gosh stupid chicks like that piss me off... they try to act like theyre all dumb but you know theyre just pretending..

but anywhoo..
ohh well shite happens all ya gotta do is go on with your life

She's using you. She's the one in trouble and that needs your help. Take it to your advantage. Either refuse, or ask for something in return. You know equivalent exchange?