i have been asking myself that for the past two days. I have no idea if this
girl likes me or not. (i cant tell because i dont really look
attractive.) It came right of the blue, she just talks to
me and i cant think of anything to respond that fast. Then we finish our
conversation and she smiles and walks away. I just stare in awe "what just
happend" moment. Later on that day i run into her after PE class and she
mentions how girls talk about guys during that class and that my name poped up.
Right away i was like "CRAP, what do girl think of me, a loser that i
already am." But insted she mention that i was a very nice person. I felt
like that was the only good day out of my 8th grade.
But the problem is now over the weekend i dont know if she likes me or not. I
like her but i am sooo freaked out because i never had any eperience like
this.
Ah, I love these difficult problems... Some things I'd try, though I'm really
not sure if they'd work or not, would be...
1: Buy her something, make some really nice compliment about her, or stand up
for her if she's ever getting teased, and see how she responds. If she gets a
big, uncontrollable smile on her face, then you probably know she either likes
you or she's starting to like you.
2: Rarely make any attempts at starting a conversation with her, and see how
often she starts a conversation with you.
3: Pay attention to the little things; how often she compliments you, if she
says she likes it when someone does something that you do, how often she looks
at you, how often she sits with you, etc. Those little things most would
overlook tend to tell an awful lot.
I don't have much more to say than that, other than "I'm once again not
sure if those things will work," and "Out of curiosity, and you may
reply or ignore this question, do you like her?"
merged: 05-08-2006 ~ 12:06pm
Could i get one more person to reply. I am really nervous to go to school
tommorrow. i dont know what to do.
its really hard since i go to a private school and there is so much drama at my
school.
There is always drama in every school...sigh. What you can do, and what you
should do is known best only by yourself. But if you really need some advice, I
would like to say that from past experiences, you should just go gung-ho and be
straight up with it even if you feel as if you can't... Only holding onto the
possibility of whether she likes you or not will only cause you more stress and
will not solve anything no matter how much you ponder.
well i already tried and she sort of dumped me. but its ok. theres someone else
i like and im going to not try to get my whole grade to get involved. (only 88
students in my grade everyone knows what happening)
i have been asking myself that for the past two days. I have no idea if this girl likes me or not. (i cant tell because i dont really look attractive.) It came right of the blue, she just talks to me and i cant think of anything to respond that fast. Then we finish our conversation and she smiles and walks away. I just stare in awe "what just happend" moment. Later on that day i run into her after PE class and she mentions how girls talk about guys during that class and that my name poped up. Right away i was like "CRAP, what do girl think of me, a loser that i already am." But insted she mention that i was a very nice person. I felt like that was the only good day out of my 8th grade.
But the problem is now over the weekend i dont know if she likes me or not. I like her but i am sooo freaked out because i never had any eperience like this.
Can you help me out here? Please.
Ah, I love these difficult problems... Some things I'd try, though I'm really not sure if they'd work or not, would be...
1: Buy her something, make some really nice compliment about her, or stand up for her if she's ever getting teased, and see how she responds. If she gets a big, uncontrollable smile on her face, then you probably know she either likes you or she's starting to like you.
2: Rarely make any attempts at starting a conversation with her, and see how often she starts a conversation with you.
3: Pay attention to the little things; how often she compliments you, if she says she likes it when someone does something that you do, how often she looks at you, how often she sits with you, etc. Those little things most would overlook tend to tell an awful lot.
I don't have much more to say than that, other than "I'm once again not sure if those things will work," and "Out of curiosity, and you may reply or ignore this question, do you like her?"
i feel more safe saying it here than out loud.
I do like her.
and to add also. i am only in 8th grade.
merged: 05-08-2006 ~ 12:06pm
Could i get one more person to reply. I am really nervous to go to school tommorrow. i dont know what to do.
its really hard since i go to a private school and there is so much drama at my school.
There is always drama in every school...sigh. What you can do, and what you should do is known best only by yourself. But if you really need some advice, I would like to say that from past experiences, you should just go gung-ho and be straight up with it even if you feel as if you can't... Only holding onto the possibility of whether she likes you or not will only cause you more stress and will not solve anything no matter how much you ponder.
the easiest way is to just ask her out! if she says yes then she likes you! seems like she does already
well i already tried and she sort of dumped me. but its ok. theres someone else i like and im going to not try to get my whole grade to get involved. (only 88 students in my grade everyone knows what happening)