Quote by Chopstickz
Quote by KwadjoCelessa, how woould your parents feel about this thread.
Your parents
who changed your stinky little daipers and fed you for the last 20
years. WHo cared about everything you do, because they care about you.
Do you think this thread gives them the love they deserve. :) No tot
mention that they are the only reason you exest.
its true
thatour parents did do all of that for us and are the reason we exist
now but do you think that gives them the right to be good parents for
only a certain amount of time...if you plan to have a child you should
plan to always be supporting your child and helping them in everyway
possible so that they can achieve their goals and live a better life
than yourself...once you start to abandon your child's needs and care
for them less and less that really isn't what parents should do...it
hurts me to say it but some parents are screwed up....they decided to
have a kid because they like babies but when they child becomes a teen
or adult...things change....and thats not right....
btw....thanx cel...i appreciate your words..as i do gund's short yet
simpathetic words...i know i can't do much to change anything but that
doesn't mean i'll go do something stupid and selfish as suicide...i
have too much to live for and too many ppl i would disappoint...i plan
on being a better parental figure than what i have lived with..i know
that my not sound right but...it has its meaning...plus...i always have
kind friends like you guys to help me when im done...thats why i choose
to live by the quote "you can choose your friends...but you can't
choose your family" ...i may not be able to change who my family
is...but at least i can find some decent ppl in this world that can
help me and fill those empty places in my heart...
Wow - you know what - that's one of the most
serious posts you've ever made Chopstickz - darn, if my home was open, jump right in pretty much while I'm
gone to another place. lol - but really, what you say is true.
And I'm glad you brought it up. My friends have gone through the same pain already, and you definitely aren't
the only ones. Some parents are just - messed up, really.
Quote by Chopstickzif you
plan to have a child you should
plan to always be supporting your child and helping them in everyway
possible so that they can achieve their goals and live a better life
than yourself...once you start to abandon your child's needs and care
for them less and less that really isn't what parents should do
I have no idea how some people
became parents, really.
Quote by Chopstickz...it
hurts me to say it but some parents are screwed up....they decided to
have a kid because they like babies but when they child becomes a teen
or adult...things change....and thats not right....
I would literally just go ballistic and slam that
case down - because its so utterly true. I just don't understand why they tend to stray away from their own
children, when they should really be paying attention and giving them lots of care, really.
Mordin - I thank you when you told me that I might make a good parent - the key actually is that I try my best to be a
good person - and some people just never want to try - it's saddening - really.
As to Chopstickz - a story - and I'm not making this up - I'm sure you can believe me that every story I tell
you is the utter truth - believe me.
I was on the way to Niagara Falls and I was down at St. Catharines, about a 20 minute drive away from my hometown. I was
deciding to take the bus after I've finished my midterms and this creep - whatever he is - had this 2 year old -
and everytime he walked away for a bit, the guy would literally scream at him. Literally - in front of his face.
"Mikey! Mikey!!!"
I just wanted to crawl and like beat my head with a thick pillow because this guy is not only one of the rudest parents
I've ever met - but he screams at a 2-year old! He screams at him, literally! Like what did the kid do to deserve
this? Muttering from behind me, you can hear people say - what in God's given name made this guy a parent? Like
literally.
And what ticked me off was that I had to sit close to the guy who screamed to the little one.
I was like 2 seats back, but I had to crank the headphones and the music up - I just couldn't bear it no more. I
just don't realize - why are some people acting this sort of way? I don't get why young children should
deserve the treatment they get from their so-called parents. What are these people, really? **Shrugs** Like what the
heck is going through their heads? Like somebody - please kick that guy out - literally - I can't take parents who
scream at their children in public and walk around like nothing ever happened. So - ugh! You know what I'm trying
to say? Good riddance... I agree, some parents just don't deserve to be parents at all. Heck - people just need to
get out of that little rut of theirs - really. I'm surrounded by those fumbling jerks everytime - and I try my best
to avoid them.
Those people - I can't believe some even exist in our world today. **Shakes her head in shame**