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inochikyo

inochikyo

Shy Little Me

I wanna know what you would do if you were in an online relationship for a long time...would you meet the person or not? Tell me why...
(>_< Darn....i triple posted by accident...dont mind the rest of them sorry...)

Masaru-San

Masaru-San

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I wou.dn't trust anyone unknown in person when it comes to a relationship. The person adored could be some kid tricking people, or a 55 year old priest waiting for a victim to look for him.

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Ayamael

Ayamael

yumemitai

hum... i'm going with what Masaru-San said... the internet is a beautiful world where you can lie to everyone about yourself without fear of someone discovering the truth (now i'm not saying i'm doing it loll, i'm just saying it's possible ^^)

thelunarmage

thelunarmage

I'm getting too old for this...

Since I'm old enough to look after myself (at least I hope so XD) I'd meet the person. After all a long term relationship over the Net is at the least something to build upon. Mind you I probably wouldn't try starting a relationship purely online. I think it'd be way too strange not to meet the person unless the relationship blossomed as a side effect from just getting to know each other. :)

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breadcrust

breadcrust

glowing city lights

depends on how long, if it was about a year or more, then yeah. but i would always do so with a bit of caution, just in case they are a total nut or something.

bmagrl

.:hot pink cosmo:.

i was watchin the muray show, there was a story about this girl in a online relationship with this guy. they decieded to meet each other. the girl found out that the guy was 45. it turned out that he was a child molester.
personally i wouldnt really meet the person. it really depends how much i trust that person.

Yoh

Yoh

Yoh The Great!

Quote by Ayamaelhum... i'm going with what Masaru-San said... the internet is a
beautiful world where you can lie to everyone about yourself without
fear of someone discovering the truth (now i'm not saying i'm doing it
loll, i'm just saying it's possible ^^)


What! People lie about themself! No way! Really? Just joking! Hey, you can meet the person, but maybe you can realize that isn't what you expected! ^_^'

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I'ld say you should meet...
I've met my 2nd g/f, which I've been with for the past...almost 3 years, in a forum...we met after 1/2 year... the thing is...we hadn't seen each other before...so I guess it would've been easy to just leave, if the other had lied about him/herself... But, what can I say...Fortuna was on my side...bringing me together with a smart, intelligent, beautiful, kind south-korean girl :D ~love~

AngelKate

AngelKate

~*Lady Sweetness*~

I would say it depends on how long you've known them and how well developed your relationship is. If you really trust the other person and you have been talking for a long time, say a year or more, then I would say it's ok to meet them. But just as a caution, I would take another person with you just in case they turn out to be a total nut. And meet in an ares where there is sure to be a lot of other people, like a restaurant or a coffee shop or something. That is just my advice. Its ok to meet them but I would still be careful about it, because you never know what could happen . . .

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ShiNN

ShiNN

O RLY?!

Absolutely yes. I already did it sooo many times. I used to play (and still play) an online game (warcraft 3), and I had the chance to know a lot of people and to meet a lot of them in real life. I remember first time I met them we were a group of 7 people, and we organized a sort of pizza party and had tons of fun :) . I even went to a very big lan event (in italy, called SMAU ILP) that gathered something like 500+ people from different online communities... I really made lot of friends there who shared my same passion for videogames and so on. It was really cool. I've been even invited to the wedding ceremony of one of my friends that I first got to know on the internet :)

So yes if you get to know someone on the internet for a long time I'd say you could try to meet him/her, just remember to not always expect the same kind of behavior, a lot of people are less/more open in real life, but overall it is usually a good experience. :D

I would like to meat that person if it has been a long time. But it would also depend on who that person is and what kind of online relationship there is.

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runic

meep

yeah nowdays its normally pretty safe, even i have done it a couple of times.
Thats how i met on of my best mates 3 years ago

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