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Guys are hot and sexy! That's what I think of the oppisate sex!^__^ Even though they can be stupid at times. And if you don't think that then that's fine just post what you think!!!

  • Mar 15, 2005

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Quote by AlishaAnd if you don't think that
then that's fine just post what you think!!!

Well then amen to that. lol

Good to see that opinions matter.

Don't take this into offense, though. I don't mean to attack any of the guys directly serious like that, just to let you know - so pardon my behavior for what I am about to post here. From where I've been, around my area - To me, - I think the men in general are:

Perverts
Immature Individuals
Goofs
Just Not Plain Intellectual

What I like to see more in men:

Honest
Mature
People who at least keep their dirty thoughts to themselves rather than shout it out quite often in public.
People who keep their harmones under control for once.

Men who respect the girls for who they are and gives them the space they need for other personal reasons as well.
Are extremely kind and helpful individuals - those who hardly argue unless its appropriate and someone who can take the blame for his fumbled mistakes, while at the same time criticize in a polite manner as well. Someone who at least thinks sensibly for once.
Have a deep understanding of what it takes to keep females happy and be there when they need them the most.
Men who never take advantage of the ladies.
People with a great sense of humor, and a wonderful personality to boot.

That's about it. Picky, I know. lol - But I never liked some guys in general. There are exceptions, yes, but I fail to see these guys in a whole new light. Sometimes their behavior - and themselves - is just a constant utter disappointment, really.

But there's always time for change, and hopefully I will see that this isn't really true, indeed.

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girls. they're ok. i dun see anything wrong with them. (aside from taking advantage of their boyfriends sometimes)

  • Mar 15, 2005

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Quote by AlishaAnd if you don't think that
then that's fine just post what you think!!!

Well then amen to
that. lol
Good to see that opinions matter.
I think the men in general are:
Perverts
Immature Individuals
Goofs
Just Not Plain Intellectual
What I like to see more in men:
Honest
Mature
People who at least keep their dirty thoughts to themselves rather than
shout it out quite often in public.
People who keep their harmones under control for once.
Men who respect the girls for who they are and gives them the space
they need for other personal reasons as well.
Are extremely kind and helpful individuals - those who hardly argue
unless its appropriate and someone who can take the blame for his
fumbled mistakes, while at the same time criticize in a polite manner
as well. Someone who at least thinks sensibly for once.
Have a deep understanding of what it takes to keep females happy and be
there when they need them the most.
Men who never take advantage of the ladies.
People with a great sense of humor, and a wonderful personality to
boot.
That's about it. Picky, I know. lol - But I never liked guys in
general. There are exceptions, yes, but I fail to see guys in a whole
new light. Sometimes their behavior - and themselves - is just a
constant utter disappointment, really.


Ouch, double ouch, I feel I must defend my fellow males. :D I see you still haven't change your opinion about us guys yet since the day I met you ;) Well after my nice guys thread, I felt like there is a lot of hope, and I know there is a lot of great guys out there that is being shadow by jerks and peverts :) I believe someday you will see it my way when a great guy will sweep you off your feet ;)

As to the topic, I believe ladies brings out the sun for me, and I have many great female friends that help me out during some tough times emotionally. I couldn't be here right now if it wasn't for them. This world requires balance, so we need both men and women. :)

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  • Mar 15, 2005

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Quote by MordinOuch, double ouch, I feel I must defend my fellow males. :D I see you
still haven't change your opinion about us guys yet since the day I met
you ;) Well after my nice guys thread, I felt like there is a lot of
hope, and I know there is a lot of great guys out there that is being
shadow by jerks and peverts :) I believe someday you will see it my way
when a great guy will sweep you off your feet ;)
As to the topic, I believe ladies brings out the sun for me, and I have
many great female friends that help me out during some tough times
emotionally. I couldn't be here right now if it wasn't for them. This
world requires balance, so we need both men and women. :)

lol - there are great guys out there, I agree - but we'll have to see about that, shouldn't we? **Snickers**

At least I know Mordin is a great guy. As to the balance, my ratio of friends: 95% Girls + 5% Guys. The 5% are the "Nice Guys" as you may call them - and considering the ratio, they're pretty rare to find indeed in my estimation. I know who the real nice guys are, and who aren't. That's called my extreme cognition taking effect. lol - I have a good sense on these matters here. - But that doesn't mean they can't be my friends, of course.

When you find a great guy - simple rule: don't lose them so easily. It's hard to find some people like these in the long run.

Anyways - Apparently I've noticed more guys than girls here on MT. Why do I feel like one of the only few girls being vocal around here? lol - And I evidently chat to more guys here than girls, which is kind of weird against my trend in real life. Must be me though.

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I think that girls are definitley much better than guys. They are fairer, cleverer, kinder, actually help people work through a problem and still manage put up with so much crap that some bastard men give them.
A lot of men are pretty ignorant, lazy and self-important, as well as being bumheads that are hyped up on too much testosterone. [Self plugging]Not me though. Hopefully I fall into the nice guy category of men. ^^[/plug]

  • Mar 15, 2005

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What is in my mind is that girls are great ^_^ I thought when I was young that I will never think about them but now I do too much...

Well generally I guess us guys are perverts... but some are just sensitive and keep their morals which I guess is great...

Wont you let me see what Real Happiness Trully is...
Because if this is Happiness then I want more...
I know its selfish...
But have you ever felt so much Pain...
When will you understand that the why sun dont shine through my window...
And when will you understand that I am not really what I seem...
And When will you understand I been Wishing for you to be Happy Forever...

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Quote by Celessa As to the balance, my ratio of
friends: 95% Girls + 5% Guys.

woah ... there's a huge different on that .... as for me .... it would be 90% of nature ( like animal, and the trees, sky ocean and such ). as for the 10% ... 6% are male friends ... and 4% are female ...

me ... myself ... didn't have many friends (offline friends or in other words in real life). i'd rather hang out with my cats or go to the national forest, than to hang out with the girls animals always show their true feeling, if they like someone...they will show it, but if they hate someone ... they also never hde it...

i've been betrayed once by girl ... so i keep my distance with a girl lately .... but if i met someone that would ignite this almost died flame inside my heart again .... i think i'll just see what will happen next

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Quote by Celessa As to the balance, my ratio of
friends: 95% Girls + 5% Guys.


woah ... there's a huge different on that .... as for me .... it would
be 90% of nature ( like animal, and the trees, sky ocean and such ). as
for the 10% ... 6% are male friends ... and 4% are female ... me ...
myself ... didn't have many friends (offline friends or in other words
in real life). i'd rather hang out with my cats or go to the national
forest, than to hang out with the girls animals always show their true
feeling, if they like someone...they will show it, but if they hate
someone ... they also never hde it...

Whoa - this is very unusual indeed.

Never would I have expected a post like this one. lol - A nature lover, perhaps?
You know, that's very interesting that you consider the nature as your friend. I just interact with humans pretty much, but this kind of statement makes me kind of wonder what kind of life you must be leading. Hmm - interesting indeed.

Quote by cl4ssifiedi've been betrayed once by girl ... so i keep my distance with a girl
lately .... but if i met someone that would ignite this almost died
flame inside my heart again .... i think i'll just see what will happen next

That's tough to hear. I hate when some of your loved ones betray you like that. Never would I expect one of my closest friends to backstab me, but if that were to happen, I would know exactly how you feel. I've encountered too many people who I could consider betrayers - friends who claim to be your friends but aren't really there to support you when you need them the most, especially when they talk behind your back when you least suspect it. Anyways, good luck on finding the girl of your dreams.

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^ I find it interesting that you say most men just aren't intellectual...whereas that seems to be quite contradictory from my experiences.

I am someone who doesn't like to separate people by gender, as I see everyone as an individual, regardless of gender. I don't like generalizations :/

However, for the sake of the thread, I will say that I really don't think much about the opposite sex as far as general traits that encompass the sex. However I find women in general to be beautiful, graceful, elegant, etc, but not necessarily smarter, more mature, more honest, etc. than men: It all boils down to the individual...

What's a more interesting question to me is why I crave the company of the opposite sex? Sexual orientation aside, I don't know why I want to be with a woman. Not necessarily in a sexual way or anything...I just enjoy being in the company of a woman. If I could have the exact same conversation, either with a man or a woman, regardless of how attractive they are, I think I would choose the woman. Women are just mysterious to me I guess, but as for a concrete answer why, I am in the dark, yet again.

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I'm sorry you feel so poorly about men celessa. If you could get past the hangup I think you could see them for who they really are.

back on topic, my feelings on the opposite sex ------- total mystery and awe. women are the most Emotionally unstable creature on the planet. Don't believe ask one any question about their looks, they will start to list every detail about how good this is and what they wanna change. then disagree with just one point,see how fast they either start to cry (because you "insulted them"), or get furious that you had the gaul to disagree in the first place.
I'm in awe of women because they are at the same time, able to nurture a new life(baby) and try to take one(baby's father). ;p lol

i grew up with 4 sisters my mom and grandmom,so I think I can safely say that my statements are qualified observations.

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meh, they are just people.

While it is true that females are incomprehensible, males are incomprehensible and myself just as so. Everyone is incomprehensible in their own ways in my opinion, and all that matters is being able to deal with them.

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Quote: I think the men in general are:

Perverts
Immature Individuals
Goofs
Just Not Plain Intellectual


You are just not dealing with well educated men your dad's age in formal sistuations. They'd be anything but the above when they are there.

But why let such a thing get in the path of a perfectly flawed generalization?

Quote: That's about it. Picky, I know. lol - But I never liked guys in general. There are exceptions, yes, but I fail to see guys in a whole new light. Sometimes their behavior - and themselves - is just a constant utter disappointment, really.


It would be less hypocritical if you started a thread about "understanding bitch behaviour."

What are we guys? Cars or a new computer that had to conform to some sort of random arbitary standard or we'd be deemed "unworthy?"

To use the same standard on girls would be like:

Girls who respect the mens for who they are and gives them the space
they need for other personal reasons as well. (aka, let as keep our porn, it is my space)

Are extremely kind and helpful individuals - those who hardly argue
unless its appropriate and someone who can take the blame for his
fumbled mistakes, while at the same time criticize in a polite manner
as well. (not "I hate you all, as 95% of guys suck. Being stupid, perverted, blah blah")

Someone who at least thinks sensibly for once. (but your posts shows thats not the case)
Have a deep understanding of what it takes to keep males happy and be
there when they need them the most. (so if porn makes up happy, we should have them)

Girls who never take advantage of the men. (and don't make us pay for anything)
People with a great sense of humor, and a wonderful personality to
boot. (as opposed to writing a rant proclaiming hatred for 47% of mankind...not tolerant or understanding at all)

That's about it. Picky, I know. lol - But I never liked girls in general. There are exceptions, yes, but I fail to see girls in a whole new light. Sometimes their behavior - and themselves - is just a constant utter disappointment, really.

I know who the real nice girls are, and who aren't. (including you) That's called my extreme cognition taking effect. lol - I have a good sense on these matters here.
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Ok, that is a seriously hostile and harsh post, however I've never wanted to be a nice guy when I can be a just one. You are simply so proud and arrgont in your "justifications" for complete and utter sexism. I'm just reflecting your hostility back on yourself as all I've done is replace a few words. (and yes I do have a ego and I'm aware of it)

You think it is disrespectful that we think about girl's bodies? Well you thinking that 95% of guys are hopeless morons are certainly not more respectful and probably is alot less. Why the hell should we treat you with respect and consideration when you've said that "those are my terms, take it or leave it." You refuse to be anywhere near considerate towards the opposite sex and demands a complete elimation of undesirable traits. You think thats fair?
If it is:
I demand that girls have a sense of (male) humor and not get all bitchy about male jokes and other goof offs. Take it or leave it, or I shall hate you and think you suck.

The few nice guys around you are all trying hard to please you. However, most people have no wish nor need to please you and that is their normal state. If you hate that, hate humanity in general to be fair.

gah I should start a thread claiming that all girls are selfish, arrogant, irrational, manipulative someday.....

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  • Mar 15, 2005

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I'll say this: everything depends on the person.
I know girls that I really don't like. Why? Because they're not nice.
But there are also girls that I like a lot (and I'm not only talking about my crushes) and I'm happy to consider them as my friends.
It's the same as guys, everything depends on the person you meet.

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Quote by SWPIGWANGOk, that is a seriously hostile and harsh post, however I've never wanted to be a nice guy when I can be a just one. You are simply so proud and arrgont in your "justifications" for complete and utter sexism. I'm just reflecting your hostility back on yourself as all I've done is replace a few words. (and yes I do have a ego and I'm aware of it)

You think it is disrespectful that we think about girl's bodies? Well you thinking that 95% of guys are hopeless morons are certainly not more respectful and probably is alot less. Why the hell should we treat you with respect and consideration when you've said that "those are my terms, take it or leave it." You refuse to be anywhere near considerate towards the opposite sex and demands a complete elimation of undesirable traits. You think thats fair?
If it is:
I demand that girls have a sense of (male) humor and not get all bitchy about male jokes and other goof offs. Take it or leave it, or I shall hate you and think you suck.

The few nice guys around you are all trying hard to please you. However, most people have no wish nor need to please you and that is their normal state. If you hate that, hate humanity in general to be fair.

gah I should start a thread claiming that all girls are selfish, arrogant, irrational, manipulative someday.....


I think you are taking Cel's contention way too personal, if you aren't none of the things that she said guys are, then you don't need to be so hostile about it. It is a matter subjective opinion, so I don't see the need in getting all work up over it. We all have a bias in our judgement toward other people, and Cel really believe everything she said, but it is just her opinion, and she is generalizing, she doesn't attack any individuals here in any malicious intent. Cel is Cel, she will have her opinion, but she doesn't single out anyone here. After reading your respond, your tone sound really bitter and you really try to single out Cel here. I don't see the necessity of that, if you have problem with her view just point it out. However, instead of a reasonable disagreement, you are turning into a bitter name calling respond. Don't take everything flow in the net to the heart, don't take everything so seriously. :)

i see you also got problems with nice guys huh, being civil toward Cel's comment doesn't mean these guys are Cel's lap dog, I do hope you know the difference between that, because it is very unfair for you to call out guys that don't like unnecessary conflict as weak. Because that is the tone I pick out in your words, I hope I am wrong. :)

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  • Mar 15, 2005
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I like females that are females and don't act like men.
As for the in some way " war of the genders" that I've been reading I think it' 50-50 to blame. Drak wrote about the person and to that I will agree.
But I have to defend the males side in saying that it's pretty hard to satisfy todays women.
They want a gentleman and a guy that kicks a§§ and is also sensible and tender. It has realy become complicated but ok everyone searches for him/her- self.

  • Mar 15, 2005

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humans are humans be not confused

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  • Mar 15, 2005
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haha mindless arguing...not going to make a big difference to anyone accept end up with angry people and a flamed thread that will be closed so just cut it...neither of you (cel or SW) went about the best ways to share you opinions without offending someone (well unless you wanted to offend people..then thats you prob..)

For Cel..we all know you direct your disgust at the crappy part of the male population but even the good part doesn't like to read that kind of stuff about there own...good guys already know how bad guys can be and don't need reminding..

For SW..your post truly is quite offending..not only towards the one you directed it too but to others as well..Cel has lots of friends for one thing (like Mordin there) who can connect with her and will defend her when she is attacked like that. You really could have choosen more appropriate language to use because I personally dont like to see profanity on a site where there are many young children...as mordin stated..everyone has their own opinions and you can have yours too but using profanity takes that priviledge away from you..though you may make certain points you also have lots of things wrong..such as "guy jokes"..the reason those are called guy jokes is because they are supposed to be for guys..most girls wouldn't understand them and think of them as just dirty jokes..just don't be soo offensive next time

now as my opinion for on the opposite sex...yes i know lots of girls are stuck up and high-matinance but there also a bunch of really sweet ones..though some can be deceptive..theres really not that much distinction between guys and girls other than certain organs..since all people are different..as long as you treat me kindly i'll do the same..though i tend to act a lil on my "male insticts" sometimes and come across perverted..that just shows my liking for you...no need for violence but ill try to watch my words...

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  • Mar 15, 2005
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  • Mar 15, 2005
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Quote by SWPIGWANGOk, that is a seriously hostile and harsh post, however I've never wanted to be a nice guy when I can be a just one. You are simply so proud and arrgont in your "justifications" for complete and utter sexism. I'm just reflecting your hostility back on yourself as all I've done is replace a few words. (and yes I do have a ego and I'm aware of it)
You think it is disrespectful that we think about girl's bodies? Well you thinking that 95% of guys are hopeless morons are certainly not more respectful and probably is alot less. Why the hell should we treat you with respect and consideration when you've said that "those are my terms, take it or leave it." You refuse to be anywhere near considerate towards the opposite sex and demands a complete elimation of undesirable traits. You think thats fair?
If it is:
I demand that girls have a sense of (male) humor and not get all bitchy about male jokes and other goof offs. Take it or leave it, or I shall hate you and think you suck.
The few nice guys around you are all trying hard to please you. However, most people have no wish nor need to please you and that is their normal state. If you hate that, hate humanity in general to be fair.
gah I should start a thread claiming that all girls are selfish, arrogant, irrational, manipulative someday.....


I think you are taking Cel's contention way too personal, if you aren't none of the things that she said guys are, then you don't need to be so hostile about it. It is a matter subjective opinion, so I don't see the need in getting all work up over it. We all have a bias in our judgement toward other people, and Cel really believe everything she said, but it is just her opinion, and she is generalizing, she doesn't attack any individuals here in any malicious intent. Cel is Cel, she will have her opinion, but she doesn't single out anyone here. After reading your respond, your tone sound really bitter and you really try to single out Cel here. I don't see the necessity of that, if you have problem with her view just point it out. However, instead of a reasonable disagreement, you are turning into a bitter name calling respond. Don't take everything flow in the net to the heart, don't take everything so seriously. :)
i see you also got problems with nice guys huh, being civil toward Cel's comment doesn't mean these guys are Cel's lap dog, I do hope you know the difference between that, because it is very unfair for you to call out guys that don't like unnecessary conflict as weak. Because that is the tone I pick out in your words, I hope I am wrong. :)


Sorry if I made a thread that was harsh. Never ment for it to be that way, but I agree with Mordin you might be taking it a bit to seriously. And saying that girls get a bit bichy about guy jokes it seems to me that there not the only one................sorry just had to say that don't take it personally.

  • Mar 15, 2005

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Wow, some record long posts here! :)
The way i see it there is no difference between male and female appart from biology (and stupid jokes). That is all. No one gets to chose what life they get, but it is how they use it that is important.
Some guys may be compelete idiots, but then i have known may girls who are complete air-heads. I think our culture today has far too much of a gender-divide. I wish this was not necessay, though regretably i can see why it is. And as for the whole "perverted men" thing... i really hate sterotypes!

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Quote by DrakI'll say this: everything depends on the person.
I know girls that I really don't like. Why? Because they're not nice.
But there are also girls that I like a lot (and I'm not only talking about my crushes) and I'm happy to consider them as my friends.
It's the same as guys, everything depends on the person you meet.

I agree with Drak here on this. Some guys can be fun while others are just plain stupid. And that goes the same with you girls......

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  • Mar 16, 2005

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If we are talking relationship-wise then I think men are a completion. They have the ability to become the other half that woman may not know they needed. Please don't think that I am saying everyone needs a man or woman to complete themselves. I am not. I am saying that as a couple, a serious couple, men and women become one, so in that sense men are a completion for women. Any woman (or man for that matter) who has found that one special person in their life would agree with me. I believe that the characteristics you may have a deficit in are strong in you other half. You balance each other out that way. Neither is better or worse than the other. Equal parts.

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  • Mar 16, 2005
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Quote: Originally posted by mordin
I think you are taking Cel's contention way too personal, if you aren't none of the things that she said guys are, then you don't need to be so hostile about it. It is a matter subjective opinion, so I don't see the need in getting all work up over it.


It is not okay. The problem isn't what she says about guys (despite being wrong on that count) but her attitude towards them. It is as if all males are devil spawn on birth and have to "prove ourselves worthy" or else we are worthless.

If I put in another group of people, say jewish, and make up a bunch of arbitary reasons to hate them, for example that they pray and me atheist don't like that, I'd be considered a anti-semite and bigot. Here is someone that that condamns 47% of all humanity in one swoop, how can this ever be tolerated?

Is goofing off and being immature a good reason for loathing? I'd think that the inverse, complete cynicism, would be a far better cause. In anycase, something like that is so completely superficial and would be me hating girls that don't wear skirts.....

She wants to hate us, and it only make sense to respond in kind.

Quote: your tone sound really bitter and you really try to single out Cel here. I don't see the necessity of that, if you have problem with her view just point it out. However, instead of a reasonable disagreement, you are turning into a bitter name calling respond.


I'm just being damn honest. It is certain better than being repressed, and passive aggressive don't work on the internet anyway.

It if far better to be angry at one person than to hate 3billion people at once.

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  • Mar 16, 2005

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What i think....

Girls:
Very caring, have very nice attitude, so trusted and dependable, whew...coz i feel more comfortable having girl friends, i love the way they talk, they are very mature, but they show their childish behavior.

well..actually that's only my opinion

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