What's wrong with guys watching ecchi/hentai/porn?

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Angel-on-Dragon

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Mmh, I've read a few threads here about guys watching ecchi/hentai or porn and their girlfriends having problem with this.
I can't understand this problem. In my opinion it's just normal to watch things like that.
I'd have no problem with my boyfriend (ok, I have a girlfriend at the moment...) watching hentai or porn - I also like watching things like that sometimes.
And come on there must be a reason, why there're thousands and thousands of porn and hentai. That means that a lot of people do watch them *lol*
So maybe some of you may help me, what's so wrong with people watching them... I know, I'm not a typical girl at all... Just want to understand it ^^

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Lodigo

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Hello Angel on Dragon
uhhm i dont know much about this.
just a little kid...
but i dont watch it because of my religion
im muslim and i dont watch that kind of stuff also
their are many reasons why people dont want to watch things like that.
(uhhm i didnt answer ur question really ^_^' )

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i watch it sometimes but im single so i cant comment much LOL

  • Apr 22, 2005

white-zero

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There's nothing wrong with it. Plus, my girl already gave up long ago. XD

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I am muslim, but well it's not really matter of my religion, I watch ecchi wich I love because it's fun, (popotan, mahoro, labyrinth of flame....shinobuden....etc )
but I dont watch hentai, because it's not fun, actually it doesn't attract me at all, I found it too weird, I m more a senistive guy ^^. watching shojo is better I like to cry and feel that kind of emotion when I watch an anime.
about porn, I have seen sometimes porn but not more than a minute, really it's not interesting for my taste. I think if you re horny everytime maybe you need to watch those
but it's not bringing me anything.
also if you like it just tell us the reason, :d
i have heard about one hentai anime which is great, it's words worth, so maybe I ll try to watch it, but I m not sure.
I feel really embarassed when I watch those even if I m alone.

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hahaha I wonder how many members are actually going to admit that they watch hentai!
well I do, and I think is normal to... It's a large bussines after all as Angel says, so somebody must watch besides me (although you probably won't admit it you shy bastards... but I know! yessss... I've seen the magazines you hide under you beds and the videos labeled "biology documentals" or "historical facts" that you keep under the large pile of school books (oh! wait... that was me...) hahahaha naaaaaaa... you didn't believe all those things I said, did you?
uh oh! >.<
:D :D :D

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  • Apr 22, 2005

Cataclysm

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A lot of people find it offensive just like they do with normal porn, but in my opinion people are free to watch what they want and do what they want so long as they don't try to force it on others. I think the main reason most people have a problem with it is because they're uncomfortable with that sort of thing or in the case of a girlfriend having a problem with it maybe they feel that the attraction/attention is being taken away from them or maybe they treat it as threat to their relationship. By that I mean they think that by watching that sort of thing their partner will be unsatisfied with them or become obsessed with the fantasy of those movies. I don't know really...

I hope that may have helped, I usually have a hard time understanding people myself so I'm probably of no help at all, lol. Well good luck :)

  • Apr 22, 2005

Ermac

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Nothing wrong with watching...........just make sure you're mature enough (in other words: if you can't say the word boobies without giggling, then you really don't need to watch hentai) that's my opinion^^


For love....nah....just ecchi.

  • Apr 22, 2005

Siri

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well i havent been in a relationship so i wouldnt really know
i dont really have a problem with it

but maybe girls have a problem with it because it kind of insults them? lol
i dont konw i was just thinking
if you have a girlfriend and you still watch porn might kind of be saying that your girlfriend isn't enough for you?

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  • Apr 22, 2005

Limality

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Quote by Angel-on-DragonMmh, I've read a few threads here about guys watching ecchi/hentai or
porn and their girlfriends having problem with this.
I can't understand this problem. In my opinion it's just normal to
watch things like that.
I'd have no problem with my boyfriend (ok, I have a girlfriend at the
moment...) watching hentai or porn - I also like watching things like
that sometimes.
And come on there must be a reason, why there're thousands and
thousands of porn and hentai. That means that a lot of people do watch
them *lol*
So maybe some of you may help me, what's so wrong with people watching
them... I know, I'm not a typical girl at all... Just want to
understand it ^^

It all depends on how you were raised...i mean if i had a catholic gf now, who really got influenced by parents and surroundings, she definitely would despise adult content.

If a child lives in an easy going family it wont matter, it will be quite tolerant. but if someone was raised strictly by rules and stuff that person might feel offended towards lots of things like adult content.

and well, some ppl might be too embarassed to see such things and act as if they really hate that stuff but in reality they might even like it but they will deny that fact...

or as cataclysm already stated, girlfriends might feel inferior to the porn-stars or even hentai-characters.

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I've seen some hentai and for the most part I don't really care for it. A lot of it is just made to throw some flesh up on the screen and that doesn't really appeal to me. If it had at least a somthing resembling a story behind it, or a bit more artisic in showing a beautiful girl, I might find it interesting. I find having fake sex thrown at me lame.
As for my gf she doesn't like anime in general -_- :\ oh well.

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  • Apr 22, 2005

GutsyAnime

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I don't watch the crud mainly because it makes me feel pathetic, almost like it's the best I could get.

As for why there's a problem with guys watching it, I'd have to say maybe it makes girls jealous.
Who knows, women never tell us these things...

  • Apr 22, 2005

DarkCrimson

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Quote by GutsyAnimeI don't watch the crud mainly because it makes me feel pathetic, almost like it's the best I could get.

As for why there's a problem with guys watching it, I'd have to say maybe it makes girls jealous.
Who knows, women never tell us these things...

Hm a really great Thread I think^^
Yeah what are the Problems with Ecchi/Hentai or Porn.I mean its a rather normall Thing.
I personally dont understand it when People say AHH Hentai its so dirty or Yuck how you you watch this stuff.Why have so many GF Problems with this things.
I watch it to sometimes.*hehe its more fun to watch it with my Sweety*
And for the Comment from GutsyAnime.The Girls are jealous.Hm if thats the Reason why do you Guys dont talk about it with your Girlfriends.

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Tias

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Nothing is wrong with watching those kinds of content, at least in my opinion...

  • Apr 22, 2005

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I think watching hentai/ecchi or porn is personal choice. I have seen a lot of both but have quit watching altogether because it took away the fun and mystery of certain intimate actions. Too much exposure, bared it all, there wasn't as much thrill when it came to the real thing. Also, with porn there is the aspect of sexualizing women and not see them as whole people, but mearly as objects. This last point is my gf's problem with porn. She finds it demeening to women, but at the same time has not problem with erotica.

This is just how I think; if you like then go for it.

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  • Apr 22, 2005

Duuz

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For me, I really don't need those kind of ideas inside my head. I may have seen some ecchi stuff but my hypocracy will only go so far. And I have to ask what does any one see is some well rather nice looking ink blots going at it like a couple of weasels? If you're going to watch porn, wouldn't it be better to see the real stuff? Which I stay away from that as well.

It's a lesser sin, I always felt if you're going to sin you may as well go for one of the really big ones.

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Quote by Angel-on-DragonMmh, I've read a few threads here about guys watching ecchi/hentai or porn and their girlfriends having problem with this.


You propably talk about my latest thread ( http://forum.minitokyo.net/showthread/18251/ ) , right? Nyahahaha! XD I didn't expected it would be so popular: in few minutes a lot of persons asked. Anyway, I was so amazed when I found out that lots of girls don't mind when guys are watching ecchi or hentai, because I have fed up seeing other people (and mainly girls) says "Hentai? Ecchi? Eeeeeek! You freaky mind!" I remember on a very old thread that a girl said that if he caught his boyfriend watching ecchi, he would slap him! X_X Isn't it really extreme?

Of course, I knew already that there are lots of girls at this forum who watch ecchi and hentai, but I wanted to see how many of them are they in number, so I created this poll. Thanks for your time! :)

Quote by CataclysmA lot of people find it offensive just like they do with normal porn,
but in my opinion people are free to watch what they want and do what
they want so long as they don't try to force it on others. I think the
main reason most people have a problem with it is because they're
uncomfortable with that sort of thing or in the case of a girlfriend
having a problem with it maybe they feel that the attraction/attention
is being taken away from them or maybe they treat it as threat to their
relationship. By that I mean they think that by watching that sort of
thing their partner will be unsatisfied with them or become obsessed
with the fantasy of those movies. I don't know really...


You gave a pretty good answer, my friend! ;)

Quote by GutsyAnimeAs for why there's a problem with guys watching it, I'd have to say maybe it makes girls jealous. Who knows, women never tell us these things...


Yeah, but when some girls watch yaoi and their boyfriends says "what is this crap?!? O_o", then they can feel how is it for a guy when his girlfriend yell him for ecchi/hentai.
Conclusion 1: boys and girls, don't be selfish. see what you want and be quiet. :P It's all about isonomy.
Conclusion 2: keep watching ecchi/hentai and don't mind other's opinions.

What is "normal", anyway? If you aren't troubling the rest of the world, then there's no harm in being abnormal.

Mordin

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I think it really depends on the comfort level of that person, it is taboo for some but a delightful entertainment for others. So I do say one thing, it should be a decision by that individual only, no one should have the right to tell him or her what to do with their lives or what they should watch. We can preach but not force. :)

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  • Apr 22, 2005

DREAM

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Engel: i personally am cool with hentai but don't care for yaoi or tentacles. human sexuality has always been taboo so it only follows that most people are embarassed by it.

Quote by MordinI think it really depends on the comfort level of that person, it is
taboo for some but a delightful entertainment for others. So I do say
one thing, it should be a decision by that individual only, no one
should have the right to tell him or her what to do with their lives or
what they should watch. We can preach but not force. :)

right Mordin one can only suggest one "turn" to the dark side.
join us - there is plenty of room here. :nya:

Quote by Tias... are you a lesbien or somthing? well i look at ecchi like negima XD (its fun and stuff)
but i dont look at hentai-porn...thats to hardcore and agrasive....
4 the people who whant to look at it...i just say this...look as much
as you whant cuz its not me hows looking at it...
well hentai/porn is just not my style...huhuhuhu lets not talk more...
kids might be around^^

:tosses Tias an english dictionary: actually a person's sexual preferences shouldn't bother you, mon ami. i do agree with you though on the porn- can't stand that crap; damn women look worse then $10 trailer park prostitutes. :(

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Uhhh... the title says: What's wrong with guys watching ecchi/hentai/porn?
All I can say is... nothing? Even though some think it's degrading, blah blah blah, I think it's quit e normal.

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  • Apr 23, 2005
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I would come straight out and say I did enjoy watching it at one point in my life but then I just left it for what it is...Porn/Hentai are not worth more of my time now than it was then. I do believe in intimacy and maybe,sure, a little bit of a tease but other than that? What's the fun seeing other people fornicating together? Where is the satisfaction in that? A reflection it would be you (general pointing here) in there instead of one of the character?
Nah....Would go for Ecchi for imagination only

  • Apr 23, 2005
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right on angel-on dragon-duuude, girl powerrr!!.....N e hoo, i never have a problem wit my man watchin his porno, i aint his mamma and he deserves his sexual freedom (as long as its not with another woman......or man, lol!....)....sometimes i get curious and watch wit him.....but honestly, the girl on girl thing (not that therez n e thing wrong wit that!) just doesnt push my button.....now, i like anime, but i have to agree with my boyfriend when he says anime + porn = kinda weird!....i dont know why, but any sort of pornographic cartoon just.....kinda creeps me out....its a strange quirk we have i guess....but if he's watching str8 porn, shheeeit, im watching it too! .......hey, i feel dirty typing the word "porn" XP ......as far as whats wrong with guys watching it anime porn? nothing....whatever floats yer boat i guess...

  • Apr 23, 2005
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i personally dont watch hentia or anyhting like that but everyone is differnt and my motto is "whatever works" i can see where people think it is a good idea, being a major anime/porn fan, but i jusy dont think the two should go together.

  • Apr 23, 2005

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