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Quote by waruiNothing is wrong with watching those kinds of content, at least in my opinion...
I agree with warui here. There is nothing wrong on watching those kinds of things. It's just what you DO when you
watch it is wrond. And guys,.... I've bet that you know what I mean!!
Quote by VetusI was so amazed when I found out that lots of girls
don't mind when guys are watching ecchi or hentai, because I have fed
up seeing other people (and mainly girls) says "Hentai? Ecchi? Eeeeeek!
You freaky mind!" I remember on a very old thread that a girl said that
if he caught his boyfriend watching ecchi, he would slap him! X_X Isn't
it really extreme?
That's the experience I made too. Still have a female friend that can't understand that I look
hentai or porn. She thinks it's just wrong - above all, if you're a girl...
But my parents were just normal about this topic. I can talk to my mother about sex, if I like (what I definitly
don't). And she doesn't have a problem with me having a girlfriend.
Quote by Tias... are you a lesbien or somthing?
Ehem, dunno if this belongs here... But what's the problem about a girl having a girlfriend. And this does not
always mean that one is a lesbian... There's something between this, but as I said, that's not the topic ^^
Quote by DREAMEngel: i personally am cool with hentai but don't care for yaoi or
tentacles. human sexuality has always been taboo so it only follows
that most people are embarassed by it.
Yeah, I think that's right... And I also think that it has a lot to do with the parents and their attitude towards
this topics. I don't like tentacles or yaoi either *lol* It just... doesn't turn me on ^^
Quote by DREAMcan't stand that crap; damn women look worse then $10 trailer park prostitutes.
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Whoever said there was anything wrong with guys watching that?
If anything is stated, its based on personal opinion and only that alone. We have the freedom to do what we want to and its our choice, it doesn't matter if someone things its wrong. If that person wants to do it, they most likely will.
Its all about personal choice, as its stated so many times in this thread, as to what someone wants to do and doesn't want to do. What someone likes and doesn't like. Just because someones against it, doesn't mean its wrong in general. It may be the stereotype of it to be wrong, but does that overall make it wrong, or is it just the gathered conclusion of the masses. In the end, isn't it more of just an assumption that someone comes up with, because is it stated somewhere that all pornographic material is wrong? Well if it is point me to that.
Though, I myself am not a fan of pornography. I am, however, a fan of individuality.
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Well, I like to watch ecchis and sometimes I watch hentai, but it is also true that you should not think about them all the time. However, I don't think that ecchi or even hentai is bad. Admit it that there are viewers of this kind around the world everywhere, so it is not strange if you found out that you boyfriend (or even you girlfriend (- -')) watches it.
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Er I think its normal for guy to watch this kind of stuff. Seriously, how many of you guys out there can say I havent watch any kind of porn/hentai/ecchi before? I am sure everyone would have encouter it once before or something.
I think it is ok as long as you dont get addicted to it.
They say that god arranged relationships, but men created separation.
Is nothing wrong if guys watch hentai or porn, but the person dun watch that means he got some sort of problem. My honey neva stop me watching that, somehow she encourage me. Becoz she is even more hardcore than me.
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I think this is huge issue in society. The temptation to watch it and the amount of it now is pretty massive. I believe that people can resist the temptation. But behind the resistance concerns the attitude that you have towards just the human form. Its very disrespectful to watch this sorta stuff just for your own sexual arousal.
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It's absolutely normal, as we women sometimes like to see really handsome guys and other things.
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He ? What is this question ? I could want to know what's wrong with girls who likes yaoi... I never seen any problem against porn or hentai's readers. At the limit, i think "normaly people" think all males otakus are perverted and watch only hentai...
mAn,a french guy who likes ecchi and sometimes read a bit of hentai
P.S. / SOrry if I don't understand all the mean of the question
Pretty good topic. Anyways,I've submitted a research on pornography and related subjects recently and according to my research, I've found out that no matter what bad aspect ecchi, hentai, and porn have it's still a part of the human genome to be sexually active.
Personally, watching this kind of stuffs has been part of being a man. Me and my friends (including girls) watch porn/hentai at a weekly basis and I can't say that we have negative opinions about it. We usually just have some great laughs while watching. You can say that porn/hentai/ecchi to us is like comedy, because there's bound to be something off in the show itself that would raise some witty observations.
But for all you youngsters out there, go to Disney.com or nickelodeon.com for something better.
I agree very much with worldeater. Too much of that stuff desensitizes you to the real thing. That being said, I must
confess that I've seen my fair share. Still do see a little every once in a while ;)
Just remember that it can be quite a high price to pay for abusing such priveleges, especially if it knocks you down a
couple of points in bedroom performance. I don't think anyone wants to feel like they have a substandard lover.
It's not the fact that porn offends me (it doesn't), it's how often the girls are portrayed in a exploitative manner that irritates me.
well i have to admit but i don't like hentai or anything of the sort. however ilike to see hot girls or something in that nature.
Quote by Angel-on-DragonMmh, I've read a few threads here about guys watching ecchi/hentai or porn and their girlfriends having problem with this. I can't understand this problem.
I've felt frustrated reading the other responses here because I don't see them answering AoD's question,
which if I may restate it, why does ecchi/hentai/porn disturb people? I have
read many posters simply begging the question, such as
Quote by Cataclysm I think then main reason most people have a problem with it is because they're uncomfortable with that sort of thing.
I expect any of us who live in modern urban cultures know what the problem is, but we have trouble expressing it. While
online I can quote all kinds of sex-positive arguments, 'whatever feels good for you', etc, but in situ I experience all levels of Standard Embarrassment.
Here's my theory:
Sexual preference is essentially anarchic. What turns you on, where your limits are, etc are utterly unpredictable and
self-determined. Whether you like tits or bums, slow dances or the Berlin Wall, nobody can discover that but you.
At the same time, we crave confirmation. After discovering anime or linux, it disturbed me when I met people who just refused to admit that these were cool. I've learned to relax & even appreciate these differences, but that moment of rejection remains unpleasant.
We've grown up fearing differences as a strategy to avoid those moments of rejection. We've told ourselves the lie that the experience of sex is basically the same for each of us, while shunning the people who break that illusion. We may avert our eyes when we discover somebody masturbating, or say "I learned more than I wanted to know" when we'd otherwise discovered a stranger's preferences.
I believe that's why porn disturbs us.
Having said that, some porn disturbs me personally because it's wrapped up with humiliation & how dirty sex is supposed to be. I don't enjoy being reminded of that. I dig fantasies like Small Favors, where friends do it 'cause it's fun and that's all. I dig depictions of plausible psychology too, more so than some misogynist stroke stories I've read.
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me and my gf are very close, she even cosplays in some ecchi costumes, but she does have a problem with me watching TOO much porn....i think its because girls well, some girls beleive it can lead to pressure for sex instead of deep kissing and some nude activities.......which there is nuthing wrong with i guess.....
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I really don't think anything is wrong with it...because it is, like Angel said, quite normal. My guy doesn't watch it, but if he did, I'd be totally ok with it. I think it's really dumb for a girl to get upset with a guy for it, because it's not like it's really hurting them. If you actually watch it sometimes with your partner, it makes for a fun time XD. Most of the times, porn is funny and you can make fun of how over-dramatized the scenes are...or how crappy the "stories" are lol. As far as Hentai/ecchi, totally cool. I don't see anything wrong with that at all. Hentai is ok, unless it isn't take too far...like the extreme stuff and ecchi...geez, give me a break XD. It's like this. Say you're a girl, and you like yaoi right? Does your boyfriend get jealous or mad at it? Chances are, he wouldn't. Because there is no way in heck that you would ever get with a gay guy because well...he's gay ^^. Same thing with Porn/Ecchi/Hentai. There is no way he'd actually meet one of those porn stars or ever remember their names XD. That's just my thoughts on it ^^
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I guess people are disturbed by ecchi and hentai it because it is drawn porn. When someone admits he watches it,
there's allmost allways someone that says "Eww, he gets off in cartoons!"
With porn, I think most people who are disturbed by it think that watching any nude person you do not know personally is
offensive, because you're looking at someone who is naked who cannot look back at you. They might also deem it
disrespectfull...
Me, I usually enjoy watching it all. I watch quite a bit of it actually, and for me it has haid the opposite effect of "getting numbed" or whatever the exact words were of some poster on this thread. It makes me realise how beautifull love and sex are, and how beautifull the human body can be. It also makes me crave for a girlfriend, because I crave for physical affection, be it kissing and hugging or sex...
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well i viewed Hentai but is not wrong only is bad viewed by soceity, , the really very wrong is a person with less of 18 see Hentai,Porn and others
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Quote by CyanideBlizzardWhoever said there was anything wrong with guys watching that?
LOTS OF them! Expecially at the anti-ecchi club, where lots of person say "Ecchi and hentai are so disgusting! The
persons who watch them are so sick!" bla, bla, bla... I should note that not all members of anti-ecchi are like
that. There are also a lot of members at anti-ecchi who don't like ecchi but they respect those ones who watch
ecchi.
What is "normal", anyway? If you aren't troubling the rest of the world, then there's no harm in being abnormal.
I watch Hentai and Asian porn. It is awesome. Anybody who has a problem with Hentai or says it isn't 'the Real Thing' should really re-think what they said. The real thing is actually having sex with somebody, not watching people have sex. Hentai in essence is about as far away from the real thing as live action porn is.
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i think by 'real thing' they're referring to pornos with actual people, not cartoons....
hmmm...I don't see the problem with guys watching ecchi or hentai or porn. It's a normal thing. Though don't just do it in front of me because I personally don't like it hentai or porn, ecchi is fine ^___^ Oh and yes, some girlfriends do find it demeaning like worldeater said but it's overall a personal choice.
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Hhhmmm...Well I say to each his own and agree to disagree. I don't watch echi/ hentai/ or porn. I have a firm
belief in my faith I think it is wrong to do so. But...I can't look down on those who do because I don't
judge. I just try to set an example.
Besides faith being involved, if i was in a relationship, all my pleasure and arousel would come from my spouse. I
would not need anything else.
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You have posted a really good ??? and I know for myself and my husband we get a kick out of it. there is nothing wrong with it. It does depend on how you were rasied I guess. but not In my case. my dads a pastor and I watch it. it's personal feelings about it is more like it.
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