*smirks* Forgive them, they are still on the other previous pages. As for what you've said about the topic, while I
respect your opinion about most of the points you've made, I gotta hold off on it in the point about waiting to
have sex until you are married.
Yes, your first time is most likely not going to be some magical experience, let's face it, this is reality, but if
you're getting married JUST to have sex, then of course the marriage is giong to fail. Sex is to be the binding
tie, not the first loop, in a marriage. Due to that it IS your first time, hey, laugh it off, live, learn, get better,
you got the rest of your lives together to outperform those pornstarts. ^_~.
There are many things that sex is suppose to be when handled in the midist of a realtionship but most people just do it
because it feels good. Yeah, it's suppose to feel good, duh. Here's my thing - I know sex is good, great,
wonderful, whatever, but I want to save it for the woman who's gonna be with me for the rest of my life. I'm
gonna let her be the only one to get me to climax, to be the only woman whom I let make me feel this good. Only her and
no other.
Now, I know that there's a negative side to that viewpoint, which I'm not gonna comment but let's face
it, there's good and bad points to everything. I prefer to focus on the good. Call me an 'idealist' if ya
want but if you want to look at the negative and call it being 'a realist', then go ahead, fine by me, but I
tell you what, I'd be enjoying my first time a HELL of a lot more than some other people. ^^ b
You get out of it what you put in. If you've waited all that time to get married before you have sex with the
person you really truly love, then that 'first night' will be everything you've wanted and more.
And as for the original question of this forum - I gotta say, watching is a part of learning. ^^ Take what works and
leave the rest - do NOT go and try the tentacle thing or that extreme bondage crap - the pornstars get paid for that,
your bf/gf doesn't. ^^