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posed this question at another forums a while ago and i got a many well thought out and sincere replies .... so i
decided to post it here to see what replies i'd get back ...
First of all, thanks for sharing this here, very interesting topic indeed. *Stay back and start typing*
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so i was reading a book not too long ago, when i came across the sentence "It is said that the deepest cruelty
comes from the deepest caring". at first i laughed this off as an author's rambling because it was such a
contridictory statement that it couldn't be true,...
I heard about this sentence before from some friends long ago. First, I thought just like you, how nonsense this was,
since you love and care about someone, how come they can treat them in a deepest cruelty way. Since then, I saw in real
life things happens exactly as what the sentence states. I myself feel that too, if I care deeply for someone, I'll
be very strict to that person. I would not do that for the people that I don't care. For example, if a normal
friend, a friend that I just meet like once in a while and we don't really have anything to do with each other, I
wouldn't care if she/he hangs out with good friends or bad friends. But if it's my best friend, I would tell
them not to do that, if they don't listen to me I may be not talk to them anymore, I want them to choose between me
and the other bad friends, if I'm not good enough to be their friends than those bad people then I and my friends
will not have anything to do together anymore, I don't want to see my dear friends going down like
that....it's a typical example that I can think of, I did it once, my friend didn't listen to me, now her life
is just misery. I'm so sad to see her that but even my parents don't want me to talk to her again...
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however, as i found myself time and time again thinking back to that sentence, i began to realize that maybe there was
truth in that statement. think about it, a serial killer has to love whats he is doing to continue it, and a mother will
kill to get her child back... so in my contemplation, i brought up the question, is love and hate so interlinked that
it is inseperable or are they so different from each other that there can be no way that they can be interlinked at
all... i choose the fact that love and hate are interlinked ... i see now that withouth hate, there would be no love, a
bleak prospect in my opinion ...
so i give u the same question ... does the greatest cruelty come fromt the greatest caring? and is love and hate
inseperable ???
o and a final question ... try and guess where i got the quote from! XD
yes, love and hate do interlinked, you can at the same time love and hate one person that you care....*nods* and yep,
mother can kill to get her child back, it's so true, there's no love greater than love of parents to their
children, they can sacrifice everything for their children, they can be in deep misery just to see their children being
happy. Pretty much it.