A continuation of the story...now, I'm thinking that maybe my mother is a perfectionist because she tells me that I shouldn't make the same mistakes she made or what other people she has seen made. It's no wonder why both my parents want me to go to college so close to home because they think that something may happen to me if I go to a college 900 miles away. They want me to be this goody-goody...don't get me wrong though because I am one...who will always go forth despite all the bad things that are happening when I know that there are some bad things that will be blocking my path anyway. I want to learn from my own mistakes, and if I'm only taught about the mistakes that my parents made, I would never experience the consequences for myself; thus, I would be testing myself on how I would deal with the consequences. No path is perfect; therefore, life isn't perfect. Life has its ups and downs, and I wish my mother would further acknowledge that. My parents, as a result, are quite the perfectionists in my opinion. I, as a result, may be a perfectionist because of them because sometimes, I expect the best of things as well, and I don't like errors.
So my questions to you:
- Are you a perfectionist?
- If you have parents, are your parents perfectionists? If so, what do they expect out of you?
- For those of you who still live without sons or daughters, would you want your children to grow up being
perfectionists?
I'm open for any other opinions about my situation as well.