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idontdoperky

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what would u do if there is someone u like but are way 2 shy 2 tell them? u think they like u bak but aren't really sure, and really don't want 2 b rejected because u already have a great friendship. this is an actuall dilemma i am having. PLEASE HELP ME!!

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  • May 28, 2005

EternalParadox

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Since you already are friends, good friends would not cast you aside if you reveal your feelings. Even if they do not reciprocate that feelings, a good friend would not end nthe friendship. Otherwise are they really that good a friend to begin with?

And therefore, like I always say, you should express your feelings. Life is too short to wallow in the unknown. Would you rather have a clear answer, possibly find out he feels the same, or would you rather forever live in the what ifs?

My two cents, take it for what you will. :)

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  • May 28, 2005

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If i never tell, hoping that they may confess first ,the though that they may be the same way encourges me to tell them. At the least i have to hint it or show it in a not so open way as a confession. If i waited then the chance may disappear and depression would strike.
If i love then enough the freindship I would be willing to risk for the reconision and acceptance of my feelings.

Hope I'm helping and not rambling.

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  • May 28, 2005
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lol you know what's funny? I'm going through the exact same thing I like this guy but I"m too shy to tell him and his best friend told me he likes me but is to shy to tell me! how confusing!

  • May 28, 2005
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um just trust them to forgive you and if they don't right away then give them time....... they'll get over themselves soon.

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  • May 28, 2005

oOkotaroukunOo

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well, i'm pretty shy...but...i'm hungry right now, maybe i should go get some food.

  • May 28, 2005
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i would chance te friendship if you like them enough cuz you can never be to sure if they like you in that special way or not. if they are a good friend then they wouldnt throw the friend ship down the drain.

just tell them and get it out of your system.

hope i dont sound cold in saying it that way

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  • May 28, 2005
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There isn't an easy way about this, sorry to tell you.

You would just have to chance it if you'd like him to know. From personal experience, I'm sure he would not be cold as to reject you as a friend. It may be uncomfortable for a period of time. but everything would be fine a few weeks onwards.

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you're in a better position than i am.

there is this really cute i wanted to get to know. problem is, I'M WAY TO SHY TO speak TO HER!!

i've been practicing lately by talking to other girls and getting to know them. i've become a close friend of theirs within 1 week! these are also older girls. if they didn't have a boyfriend, i could easily go out with any of them.

but when it comes to this particular girl, i'm very energetic, but i can't speak to her!

  • May 28, 2005

punker0017

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speaking from experience, confess to him. I have passed over opportunities much too often. And though I do not regret my past (I've made it a policy of mine to never regret), I often wonder how things could have been different. The sooner you know his feelings, the sooner you can move on with your life. Though this may sound harsh, from my experience, its the best way.

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  • May 28, 2005

Nephir

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Like most have already said, confess your feelings. It's the best way to do it. Stay wondering for a long time, and he'll probably end up with someone else...Either way, telling him would be the best way, but you should tell him only if you can see yourself with im later on. If he would someday totally fall in love with you, then you'd be stuck together for a long time. i don't say forever because not many people end up being together forever. Anyhow, I liked this girl, and I was shy too. I told her how I felt, and now we're closer than ever. We promised to get married someday...in short, tell him, and if he rejects your feelings, know that a friend will be there forever when a boyfriend might not...

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  • May 28, 2005

AkkiEnzeru

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You first learn how to type properly.

Then, I can't help you, I'm too shy for my own good as well.

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  • May 28, 2005

wings

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well i think if your to shy to the her/him in the face than give her a email with your feelings. i think that this is alot easier to tell right? anyway good luck on confessing were all behind you :)

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  • May 28, 2005
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Ask this person a hypothetical question about what you should do. Take the advice he or she gives you and if you choose to, go from their. They won't reject you if they are true friends. Best of luck!
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ElectricPhantasm

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Quote by idontdoperkywhat would u do if there is someone u like but are way 2 shy 2 tell
them? u think they like u bak but aren't really sure, and really don't
want 2 b rejected because u already have a great friendship. this is an
actuall dilemma i am having. please HELP ME!!

If he's as good a friend as you say he is, there's probably a better chance that he'll share the same feelings that you do. They say that childhood friends make the best long-term lovers.

Quote by EternalParadoxSince you already are friends, good friends would not cast you aside if
you reveal your feelings. Even if they do not reciprocate that
feelings, a good friend would not end nthe friendship.

I agree with Paradox on this one, if he has deep friendly bonds with you, I doubt he'd break those bonds if you confess.

  • May 28, 2005

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Sometimes, when your just friends, its best to stay that way. Otherwise, if it goes horribly wrong, you may never look at each other the same way again.

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  • May 28, 2005

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I say go for it just tell the person how you feel. The worst that possibly could happen is that that person doesn't feel the same. Then there would be this whole period of awkwardness between the two of you. You will get over it in time. If oyur such great friends I don't think telling that person how you feel will affect your friendship much.
Don't do what I did I had a crush on a friend in the11thgrade but never told her. She incidently moved away and we haven't talked since.

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just go and talk to them more....tell her how u feel...dont fear rejection cuz wuts the worst that can happen???

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  • May 29, 2005

geninlv1

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You shouldn't, your setting urself up for some alienation, my friend. Do do a DAMN thing about your feelings, cuz it'll most likely overwhelm the second party. Chances are if they don't share the same feelings, they will stop being as intimate as they were as friends, watch what they say so they don't give you "the wrong idea", and altogether ruin what you guys had before.
They say it takes a lifetime to make a friend, and a moment to lose one. Don't make my mistake.

  • May 29, 2005

DaemonPhyreWyrm

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If you're friends, tell them. If you can't seem to do it, do it through a third party (mutual friend). Or if you wanna be like me, write a long poem pouring your sould into it, get misunderstood as being a death threat and barely escape the escapade with a thinly veiled lie about it being from someone else...maybe that's what has screwed me up for all these years...damn uncultured American youth...can't appreciate a good love poem...*at this point I ranted to myself for about fifteen minutes until I realized I hadn't posted yet*

In any case, you probably should find out if they like you in that way first...or you may end up like me, insane, eh?

  • May 29, 2005

asagoro

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hey...no...who do you like anyway?

  • May 31, 2005

cardmage

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I'm not sure if I'm a bit late in posting this since everyone else seems to be encouraging you to confess and its 4 days old... ummm... I'd say drop hints. How? Ummm... I'm not sure, but drop hints. Obvious ones even but don't come right out and say it. If he takes the initiative then its good for you. If not then he just doesn't like you... You know, a study by a psychologist once showed that contrary to popular belief, guys do NOT like girls who take the initiative...

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  • Jun 01, 2005

diamarrr

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cardmage....sadly to say.......that isnt exactly true.....just like guys ......i think girls do take initiative too.....we're only human....and love can sometimes be......uncontrolable.....and the person might not be able to keep it in them......besides......keeping you feelings is bad...its better to find out than to suffer not knowing the truth so ganbateh ^^

ElectricPhantasm

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Quote by cardmageYou know, a study by a psychologist once showed that contrary to
popular belief, guys do NOT like girls who take the initiative...

That doesn't apply to all guys. Men who are shy with women (like me! >_< ) would probably have a difficult time taking the initiative.

  • Jun 01, 2005

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