Is kind of very hard and upset feeling flooding in me to put up this thread... But is not juz me... quite a lot of friends or member in Mt talking about this issue...
A lots of member getting removed from friendlists...???
And i'm one of them too...
Plzz! Don't think this is a offensive thread... is juz a feeling express for ppl who get removed from friendlist and i wanna know how they feels...?
So plz for whoever post up the feelings one... do not put the name who removed you... !! this is not a thread to point out or scolding ppl... plz respect their decision... they hav their reasons...
I really getting upset so deep... i'm the only son in family, a semi-handicap person... i need friends far more
important than myself... so can anyone tell me
1. why you ask ppl to start off a new friendship...?
Mostly i'm the one who ask for it... my reason is simple... In MT everything regarding artwork and wallies... i
hope not to miz out any great subs from members in MT...
And is true that when you ask for friendship plz write something on gb board to respect the person you looking for... most of member don't like ppl juz addin their name into other's FL without notice... But the first thing i'm not happy is i'm not getting any reason or explain why i've been removed from the FL... i do required the same thing from them... at least i know what i hav did wrongly or offencing ppl...
Well at least respects and a minimum courtesy required on this i think... may be the reasons get removed are never talk to them..., always juz fav and comment with pointless ideas, members who are no longer active, or accidentally get offenced without notices...
But they never give any chances for you to explain... not like posting ripper wallie you still got 2 more chances after
GD warning before getting banned... And the second thing get me really upset is... if
above reasons are the reasons... why should we act first in approaching them automatically but not them who never try to
maintain the friendship...? i really get confuse if we are the ppl who get removed becos we never start off the
topics or get approach to them on the first time/automatically approaching them... So
2. Is really our fault for whom to start off to ask for friendship must automatically
look for you, care for you, concerning, you, and worry about you but not the other way goes...? Why? Are the person who
ask for friendship, do not deserve the concern or even a greeting from you on first?
And for new member... they even more confuse and too new to MT... some ppl might find it annoying if ask for friendship... plzz do not add them bac... someone will do... Bcos one of the reason above mentioned is "they never talk to you..." but do your try to talk to them before? Besides not everyone can conversed english well... So if someone can't conversed in english well... Should this be one of the reason to get rejected??? (And i'm one of them who's the worst in English...)
Finally .... i really don't want ppl start a argument/fights in this thread... juz express you feelings will do... but i hav a small request... if you really wanna reject or remove ppl from your FL... can at least post a apology or give the reason why we get removed... we may feel more comfortable and know/learn our mistakes... i juz hope nobodies get hard feelings or get hurt from this issue...
thanks for time spent in reading such long post from me...