Okay, I'm not targetting anyone by creating this thread. I've been hearing lately in certain situations about moving on and giving multiple chances at things.
In my opinion, I understand that moving on is quite a vigorous step, especially for unwanted relationships or even trying to get away from people you don't want to be around with anymore. It appears that there are some people who think moving on is an easy step, but they have no idea that it may affect other people. What I like to do is assess any damages or seemingly damaging things done before moving on from someone or something, and I would try to give as much time to the other person as I could to think about things as well.
However, there are some things that people are unable to move on for as quickly as other things. Turning back is one of the easiest things to do if you let it get to you, but for others, moving forward allows them to leave behind the bad things that occurred and even the good things that occurred, such as friendships, deaths, or even relationship break-ups. I would try to remember all the good things that happened as much as I can, and that will give me the strength to move on because I know some of those good things may happen again. They may happen in a different way, but they will happen.
I do think that life is about moving on because dwelling in the past on certain situations can be quite a bad thing. Sometimes, giving second chances can be a bad thing because the same things might occur the same way they occurred the first time around. Thus, it might even put a damper on the plans for the future. Everyone reacts differently, and some may want to just move on from everything and some would give chances.
I have a question:
- Would you rather move on in life or give extra chances? What makes it worth making that decision?