Until now I really sure of who I am. Do you guys know what I mean. It's really hard to explain though. All I know is that I want to be known for me. People in school expect things from me like in being a musician, like my mother or good in math like my dad. I want to be me not shadows of my parents. Have you ever felt this way?
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I felt that way before, but I ignore them and make my own path... I don't want to live in a shadow of other people.... I know who I'am and I know what I want to be...
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Lucky you.. I still confused in the Maze of Life.... where all the way is blind by shadow...
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lolz....i got the Haruhism Fever T_T- Jun 30, 2005
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Quote by KryuzeiLucky you.. I still confused in the Maze of Life.... where all the way is blind by shadow...
Same here and will always be. I don't know myself until now because I can't find myself on the road to my destiny.
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I think everyone feels like that at least once in their life time. My mom (when she is angry) keep telling me about her life; about how she had to walk to go to school becuase she didn't have a car; about how she had to wirk to buy her clothes, etc. And I for my part keep telling her the same thing... we are two different entities and as such we cannot act the same. It is not only that we are two different peoples... but also the fact that we grew up differently.
However it is always easy to feel the stress of the expectations of people around you... you just have to learn to deal with them... either by ignoring them or trying to change them.
Hope this wasn't confuising.... lol
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never live on other people expectations. Follow up on what you feel you love and desire.
Be more authentic with people and they will have a more positive way of accepting you and accepting OF you.me, i am just a joyful serveant of humanity. i don't give a care in the world of what other people think of me as. So i have a lot of freedom and power.
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Heh... just remember that life is like a game like it says in my signiture:
Life is a game. The moves you make effect the result of your future. Always figure out the risk your taking.... because there's no turning back, no reset button, or get out of jail free card..... make your move with your best judgement and hope the decks not stacked against you....
if you remember that then you will be ok!
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Quote by tripleGI think everyone feels like that at least once in their life time. My mom (when she is angry) keep telling me about her life; about how she had to walk to go to school becuase she didn't have a car; about how she had to wirk to buy her clothes, etc. And I for my part keep telling her the same thing... we are two different entities and as such we cannot act the same. It is not only that we are two different peoples... but also the fact that we grew up differently.
However it is always easy to feel the stress of the expectations of people around you... you just have to learn to deal with them... either by ignoring them or trying to change them.
Hope this wasn't confuising.... lolLol, haha, my mom is like that too... such a typical Asian thing. Well actually it's not my mom who's like that, it's my dad because he grew up in a poor family...
My parents learned to have high expectations I think mostly because I became an overachiever. I think my younger sister is feeling your pain right now... not because my parents are pressuring to become something but because they want her to excel in school. however I try to be there for her and relate what's happening in my life to hers and hopefully that makes her feel better, so if it ever gets too bad you can dump on some of your friends or family members.
If it ever gets really bad, you should sit down with your parents and just have an honest talk about how you feel. Oftentimes they think everything is going ok and really have no idea what you think unless you lay it out on the table for them, I think.
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Quote: I can't find myself on the road to my destiny.
Your Destiny, is what you make it, live your life to the max, Is what My mum told me. I dont really bother about loads anyway
Im a 15 year old Guy Called Rusty. I Like to play Video games, work out, Read Manga's and Watch Anime's, and hang out with my Hometown Girlfriend. My fave Animes are Fullmetal Alchemist, Megas XLR, beyblade and Ed, Edd 'n' Eddy. If you Share any of the hobbies (cept my Girlfriend XD) Feel free to add me to your buddy list, or send me an Email, or whatever.
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Quote by TimothytheDarkMagicianHeh... just remember that life is like a game like it says in my signiture:
Life is a game. The moves you make effect the result of your future. Always figure out the risk your taking.... because there's no turning back, no reset button, or get out of jail free card..... make your move with your best judgement and hope the decks not stacked against you....
if you remember that then you will be ok!
Just don't forget, Law of the life can't be changed by a certain things.......
but there are some thing that you can change in your life..
hmph, even knowing this I still can't find myself..
there are somethings that I must learn my self..
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ha! I don't know where on earth my life is going... And I'm not sure I know myself either.
Quote by TimothytheDarkMagicianHeh... just remember that life is like a game like it says in my
signiture: Life is a game. The moves you make effect the result of your
future. Always figure out the risk your taking.... because there's no
turning back, no reset button, or get out of jail free card..... make
your move with your best judgement and hope the decks not stacked
against you....
if you remember that then you will be ok!I get your point but... it sounds somehow... dramatic. I think its ok to take some risks and chances in life... Even if there is no reset button.
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i always feel that way, and whenever i try to find out who i am...i get really confused and don't care about anything anymore. it's always been like that, nd i hateit when ppl "expect" a certain amount of something out of you
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I am who you want me to be, you see me as you want and I can't change that, I have my own prespective of me as well..and yours could be totally different. But you'll always be somebody to someone.
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Quote by az-chanUntil now I really sure of who I am. Do you guys know what I mean. It's
really hard to explain though. All I know is that I want to be known
for me. People in school expect things from me like in being a
musician, like my mother or good in math like my dad. I want to be me
not shadows of my parents. Have you ever felt this way?Feels that way all the time.
It's hard to figure out even for urself who u r sometimes. With so many roles u're juggling and ppl expecting things from u. I am who i am, no one can change that. What matters is not whether u know who u r, but what u want to be.When my day comes, I want to be buried face down so whoever doesn't like me, can kiss my @$$
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But of course, I know who I am now and what I want to be. I have for awhile now. :d
(i live in the shadow of my elder brothers and the shadow of my dad)
Why do you kill the joy of death?
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I have never wanted to live in the shadow of someone else. My parents have always had these high expecations and hopes for me, and I don't think I am becoming what they want me to become. I'm still not entirely certain of where I want my life to go, but I have a good idea, and I'm working toward getting what I want out of my life. I understand myself and my personality, and I know what I'm good at and not good at, and I just have to figure out where I want to go with that. :) Sorry if that was confusing! XD
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I ever felt that, most of our parents have a high expectations to us, they depend to us, especially if you are the only child in your family. But luckily, my parents don't force their will, they just want me to become myself.
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I'm only an ordinary man. I'm the one that decides to my future. (not all). I have no accomplishments & doesn't won in any contest I've joined. Everyone sees me like a dumb & absurd guy. I'm mysterious, quiet & difficult to understand. But remember this, my name will become part of anime history someday. Don't forget that. Everyone of us are unique, have own paths to choose.
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Quote by Keeadonever live on other people expectations. Follow up on what you feel you love and desire.
Be more authentic with people and they will have a more positive way of accepting you and accepting OF you.Agreed! This is what you need to do to know thyself.
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Who am i? Seriously i do not have the courage to admit my name is...(confidential) ahaha, but my name means 'the great'. I dont have the determination to speak my name out and be proud for who i am. In fact, i am just a nobody and the publice doesnt give a damn abt a pathetic citizen like me! Ahaha, im still on my journey to find out who i am!
"The Hardest Battla is to keep on Living" Cagalli Yuula Attha
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well, living in a large family puts pressure on me, especially the fact that i have eight siblings who have completely diverse talents and personalities, as well as the fact that i am the 7th (it's confusing how the family treats you, they think you're either too responsible or too lax.). it's normal to feel insecure, even inferior (especially when you're PMSing -- the hormonal surges can cause a berserk rush of emotions!).
but in the end it's all up to you, how you look at yourself, how you make yourself feel. you just have to find yourself, live with yourself and laugh at the people who're trying to get you.
Cheer up! ;)
"i think I'll follow the voice that calls within/ Dance to the silent song it sings/ I hope to find my place/ So my life can fall in place/ I know in time I'll find my place/ In the greater scheme of things" - The Pilgrim's Theme
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Quote by az-chanUntil now I really sure of who I am. Do you guys know what I mean. It's
really hard to explain though. All I know is that I want to be known
for me. People in school expect things from me like in being a
musician, like my mother or good in math like my dad. I want to be me
not shadows of my parents. Have you ever felt this way?
I haven't feel it. ^^ I'm lucky they don't know my parents.. Hehe...
But If I'll experience it, I'll feel the same. I don't like people who judges a person by his parents and relatives. They must know the person first before they judge him. :)- Jul 01, 2005
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Quote by KryuzeiLucky you.. I still confused in the Maze of Life.... where all the way is blind by shadow...
Same here and will always be. I don't know myself until now because I can't find myself on the road to my destiny.
Welcome to the Plastic Age, my brother. The Tuppwerware times, and the Orocan days....
I've always been the unique one. Silent but deadly. When I let it rip on the microphone I know everybody is gonna know who I am. No one shapes me to who I will be, I only follow my insitincts.... and it's telling me to end this post now.
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