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Limefreak

Limefreak

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hi everyone!
It just seems to me that everytime i try to think of even trying to find love it just somehow ends up being me hurt in the end.I really don't want to feel this way...
I used to like this girl ,ihad known her since i was 4 or 5 can't remember...she rejected me.of course. now i have to pass her church and it really pains me everytime because i think of all the times i thought about her.I felt so bad on the Fourth of July i tried to hide it from everybody but,i was in bad pain.I know that i really sound stupid to alot of people like i'm just trying to get attention or something...What i really want is someone to love and respect me for me.What do you think?

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It's not wrong to feel this way. You've lnown this girl since you were young and then when you expressed your feelings for her she rejected you. Rejection hurts I know from seeing others being rejected. Never felt it personally (I'm too shy to actually say anything to girls I like) so I can't really say for sure how it feels. You will get over her eventually it's just going to take a heck of a long time but you'll get through it and it will make you a stronger person inside.

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miraku-spike

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Well, you see. You can't really find love. First, you need to get to know someone first. It's like having a pet. Yeah sure your pet is nice, sweet, gentle. But you just can't say, "Oh, I love you". You need to be patient. If your with someone you like, that's good. But you need to just get to know them and time will tell if either your in love, or if that person is right for you. Let me know if you get it. If not, I'll try to explain a bit more.

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  • Jul 06, 2005
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Well as i don't know you or your situation any better all i can think is that you just need to get over that particular girl and move on. Even if it is hard and painful... but even if you do so and one day she should like you, then she would let you know, and you lost nothing. But if you hold on to her and she'd choose different road than you, then you might have missed a lot that could have happened if you were open to other girls and people.

Meet as many girl as possible make them your friends get to know them better, meet more people. If you do that there will be time when somebody notices you and maybe you could find your love :) Don't dwell too much in misery, it's the way to lose your confidensy. Just try to be open and keep your eyes open... but too intense searching can worse things up. Just be yourself, there will be time for everything :)

  • Jul 06, 2005

AngelKate

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I'm sorry to hear about what happened. :( I know being rejected is hard. Don't let it get you too down though, you will find the one you are meant to be with someday. :) You are still young yet, so you still have a whole life ahead of you.

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Kiako

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well you should just wait. it is good enough to have good friends. because i don't think that you need a girlfriend at your age but that's just my opinion.
if it ends up you being hurt just let it be.

joycev

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Im assuming you were freinds with this girl from the time you were 4 or 5??
If you knew the girl for so long then maybe she thought of you as just freinds. It's possible that she started to think of you as more like a brother to her and although she knows that she could always depend on you for anything it would seem weird to her to be dating someone who had been such good freinds for such a long time...
All I could ever suggest is try to find another girl that you like. There is no way that the girl you like now will ever think of you as more than freinds so I would try to keep your freindship as long as you can at least. Try not to think about being rejected from her and just think about the fact that she is still freinds with you. You just need to move on and find someone else...

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  • Jul 06, 2005

koohyuko

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Don't worry, love will come eventually. There is someone out there for you. Love will most likely find you. Not the other way around. But don't worry. Love is out there. Patience is key.

  • Jul 06, 2005

Itami-Chan

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the way i see it is that you shouldnt go out looking for love but let it find you....im not sure if that makes sense but yea.....

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thecatmistress

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i feel your pain Limefreak, i`ve known a few guys that long, and they`ve all rejected me.... but because i have a strong will, i try not to let it get to me.... you have a strong heart. though you may say you don`t, you do i can tell......if she does not like you for you.... then she is not for you..... i don`t wanna sound mean, but she may not be for you...... there are other girls.... you may be in pain now. but time heals all wounds, remember that...

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  • Jul 06, 2005

staplefreak6

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i understand this...in lots of ways... but you have to let what happens happen and not dwell in the past...take it as a learning experiance.....live life to its fullest everyday...... also if someone rejects you...dont threaten to kill yourself and them also, cause thats not cool. i've gone through it and the guy seriously was out to kill me....but you'll find someone...just remember the good things in life and i garante (sp) that the good stuff will out way the bad! ^_~
ps good luck!

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i luff u vinny!!!! ^_^

  • Jul 06, 2005

WindAlchemist

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its the hormones i tell ya!
THE HORMONES!!!!!
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jk jk
honostly you dont even need to worry about, ive felt that way lately, but ive made it clear to myself that its just not the most important thing in the world
P.s- God loves you!!!!

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well Limefreak...you seem like a great guy so you find love ^^ just be you.

Quote by WindAlchemistits the hormones i tell ya!THE HORMONES!!!!!loljk jk
honostly you dont even need to worry about, ive felt that way lately, but ive made it clear to myself that its just not the most important thing in the world
P.s- God loves you!!!!

and you can't choose who you like...so its destiny too ^^

  • Jul 06, 2005
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o thats really sad i have the same problem except i havent told them how i feel because i always end up finding out that they have a girlfriend and i just dont want to compete with that because its scary when another girl is jealous i had one that just in my face and i dont like being yelled at called names because im sensitive

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aww.. so sorry to hear that... like others... u just have to wait for her... her as in the right person... xd... u cant just love someone like a snap.. or her to u... u need to know each other first.. pain is a part of life.. u need it to learn from ur mistakes.. dnt worry bout love too mch.. there are a lot of other thngs to worry bout...

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  • Jul 07, 2005

Limefreak

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Quote by mOochaNaww.. so sorry to hear that... like others... u just have to wait for her... her as in the right person... xd... u cant just love someone like a snap.. or her to u... u need to know each other first.. pain is a part of life.. u need it to learn from ur mistakes.. dnt worry bout love too mch.. there are a lot of other thngs to worry bout...

Thanks that makes me feel much better!^.^

luckymouse

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lime there isnt a soul alive who hasnt felt that pain before,believe me,i know personaly,but what hurts more is mislead ment ive had that happen to me before,just think as it as them missing out not you ;)

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  • Jul 07, 2005

WaCa

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everything comes at its right time m8
wait, shell come when you expect it less
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  • Jul 07, 2005

jeanie727

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Awww.....i'm sure you'll find someone. Don't feel hopeless.

The important thing was to love rather than to be loved. // W. Somerset Maugham
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SweetGrl

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Sorry bout that!! Hope you feel better!! There are probably more girls better than her ( sorry if i am being mean). You'll alway find love later! ^_^

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  • Jul 08, 2005

luckymouse

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exactly right sweetgirl,besides ya really to young ta find true love right now,you should enjoy being young while ya can cuz before ya know it your growen up,and it sucks

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  • Jul 08, 2005

mewmewpower

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This doesnt sound like the super confident (sometimes cocky) limeboy that I'm used to talking with. Were you havin' a bad day when U wrote this? Limey if you really feel this way, do you think it's good to just put those vulnerable feelings out here in unknown public land where some might exploit those feelings...just a thought. Your self worth comes from above. I know you said you're a Christian so you know that better than anybody. Loneliness like this is hard to deal with. Only the frosty cold hearts have no trouble with it and those are the ones you best avoid. It's hard to be in the waiting. I'm in the waiting room too, ya' know. We've talked about that. In the meantime, pray, trust, wait and stop throwing your "pearls to the swine (pigs)..." know what I mean? She's out there...waiting 4 U but don't settle for less or you'll never find her. love2U Limey..

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  • Jul 10, 2005

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