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If you had a bestfriend(GIRL) then times goes by and suddenly you fell in love with her, because you cant be seperated most of the times... then suddenly another FRIEND(MALE) cames by then swap places with you... you thought he and she had the conspiracy and started to avoid them..
then 3-4 months after transferring to another school because of the incident.. you come back to the old school only to find out nothing happened and she and him left each other... they were just really closer than you at that time you thought badly...
if they knew this things who should be angry? who should ask forgiveness first? and would the crack between friendship wouldnt be redone anymore...

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whooo pervertfox. you in a real tight spot. you really like her right? and she was your bestfriend. if she was...then you can still be friends with her. and you should slowly ask her about it. let her and your friendship heal the wounds. well thats all i can think of now.

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  • Jul 11, 2005

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thats the situation... do you think relationship wouldnt break our friendship if didnt work out?
maybe i should tell her bout why i transferred and hope for the best ^_^'

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Maybe you were just scared to show her your true feeling becuze u were afraid shed say no or she'd nnot like you so you should sum up your courage and ask her whatever you think you should and hopefully it all goes well....hope that helps cya

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  • Jul 13, 2005
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Speak to her and get re-acquinted with everything that has happened with each of you during the time you were apart. Once you have established that your friendship is on good or better grounds (it should be, based on your story), then you can go to the next step (whatever it is). I don't see any need for either party to apologise.

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  • Jul 13, 2005

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I'm not really sure I quite understand but I think I get the jist of it.

Maybe she got tired of waiting for you, or just didn't know of your feelings and so thought you guys would always just be best friends and that was all. So she looked for someone else.

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  • Jul 13, 2005

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Quote by ChobitsluvaMaybe you were just scared to show her your true feeling becuze u were
afraid shed say no or she'd nnot like you so you should sum up your
courage and ask her whatever you think you should and hopefully it all
goes well....hope that helps cya
-D.j.

maybe your right... maybe deep inside i feel that way..

Quote by SiriI'm not really sure I quite understand but I think I get the jist of
it.
Maybe she got tired of waiting for you, or just didn't know of your
feelings and so thought you guys would always just be best friends and
that was all. So she looked for someone else.

can it have happend? XO XO

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It just takes time... I guess

  • Jul 16, 2005

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First and foremost, it's never wise to assume something without assessing that something, unless it's a natural cause and you know the possibilities. Okay, maybe you did get the wrong impression that she wanted to be his girlfriend, but that's not always the case. If she has a strong bond with you in terms of loving you, then most likely, she would've stayed with you and not go with the other guy for any period of time. I could assume that she wasn't in love with you as much as you were in love with her.

You really should ask for forgiveness since you made an assumption that she and that guy were supposedly talking together as if they were boyfriend/girlfriend. However, it was also wrong on her part to not notify you of what she was doing especially if the both of you were as close as best friends, but then again, like I said, it depends on the amount of commitment you have towards each other in terms being on the level of best friends. Right now, given that the circumstances weren't as harsh as you thought they seemed, in my opinion, friendship is quite likely.

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  • Jul 16, 2005

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hmm... i see...

first thing... nobody should be angry... well, at least, not anger... you didn't have a clear relationship... it was slightly distorted... you weren't open with each other... i guess you were immediately jealous... that's not good... you see... wounds do heal... it's just that, some wounds go but they leave scars behind... you cannot treat the situation as if it never happened...

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  • Jul 16, 2005

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Quote by SilentMasamuneFirst and foremost, it's never wise to assume something without
assessing that something, unless it's a natural cause and you know the
possibilities. Okay, maybe you did get the wrong impression that she
wanted to be his girlfriend, but that's not always the case. If she has
a strong bond with you in terms of loving you, then most likely, she
would've stayed with you and not go with the other guy for any period
of time. I could assume that she wasn't in love with you as much as you
were in love with her.
You really should ask for forgiveness since you made an assumption that
she and that guy were supposedly talking together as if they were
boyfriend/girlfriend. However, it was also wrong on her part to not
notify you of what she was doing especially if the both of you were as
close as best friends, but then again, like I said, it depends on the
amount of commitment you have towards each other in terms being on the
level of best friends. Right now, given that the circumstances weren't
as harsh as you thought they seemed, in my opinion, friendship is quite
likely.

while reading this.. i see it more clearly now... I did do that things... and thought that maybe i never had the courage to tell her... until it was too late... >_<
maybe it would take time to me admit to her that.. but i think like saori said things wouldnt be the same, because everything even the small wounds leave scars.. i really feel bad for not trusting her choices and did stuff for my benefit alone.. but hey how can you react if the only person you told of what you feel suddenly replaces you... XO

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