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Akaiken

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Don't know if the mods will accept this but still I need some opinions regarding this matter...

Well, you see, it's my mother's birthday and I really want to at least say that to her but the problem is me. i don't know why but I can't say it to her even though I'm capable of saying it on other people. I think it's my illness...

I really hate myself! I can't give her anything or just saying! I really can't. I love my parents both but on occasions like this, my mouth's always close. And she even reminded us yesterday about that. Damn! I really hate myself!

Need opinions or advices guys!

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BossMac

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What do you need advice in? An advice on what to give your mom or an advice about hating yourself?

About the gift part, nothing beats the feeling of telling your mother you love her. Try giving her a card or just say it face to face.

About the hating yourself part, let me give you this nice line from a certain someone:

Quote by Jakulito Bayagbag IDon't hate the playah, hate the game.


You are the playah, life is the game.

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Bro! I really think that you should try talking to your parents. I understand you coz that's how I fell with mine. We're the same, kaya nga bro kita eh. In my case I just write a letter to express myself. I'm not good in talking so I just write it down and give it to them or in your case to her. Maybe she'll understand when she reads it. Hope that this can help you.

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Give her a bunch of flowers and a card :) I'm sure she'll appreciate it... that way without using words, you can tell her Happy Birthday... but be sure to buy some good flowers and preferably fresh ones... you can tell by looking at how much they've opened up. And get something nice like roses or something... and I *know* my flowers. I have worked at a florist before just like what WeiB did...

i don't know what else you could possibly do... but you could just give her a hug and say happy birthday... I know that I dont' even celebrate birthdays in my household... including my own. Why not ask your sister and do something together? I think that could help a bit :)

Whatever you choose Ken, it'll be good :)

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Judging by how well you can express yourself through the internet, I think that the easiest way to say that to her is thru a birthday card. They're really affordable and what's more, usually for parents, it's really unusual to receive a sincere card from teenagers. Personalize your card. Be sure to say everything you couldn't say up close. You may also use whatever means necessary to make it original. An example would be mailing it to her even though you live in the same house. :D Greet her a happy birthday and try to say that you love her after she gets "touched". Maybe it'll be easier for you that way.

I feel that you love your mother very much. I wish you the best of luck. ;)

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  • Aug 04, 2005
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You have to find some way to say it I believe that your mother knows that you love her
jakulito's idea is good but I believe that flowers would be better >=0000000~~~~~!!!!!!!!

  • Aug 04, 2005

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While we're on the topic of gift-giving, maybe you can tell your Mom "Happy Birthday" from the entire Subahismo Clan. I know you and your mom and I know you won't be buying flowers. Try getting a card and one of those sweet little cakes they have at Goldilocks, or if you've got some cash go buy her a roast. I think they're only 150 or less in Tutuban.

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soory cant help i'm also encountering teh same prob plus i cnat be w/ her on her birthday because i have to train fot the upcoming presscon T_T

but... maybe a simple Happy Birthday and i love you mom and a kiss on the cheek will do? ^^

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well geez if you don't get her flowers then I don't know what else you would want to get her with it. You might want to get her something nice and special rather than just some cake ... and if you want to give her a cake, friggin make it yourself! I wouldn't want my kid just buyign some rando cake for me... I want work put into it!

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Quote by kuroimisawell geez if you don't get her flowers then I don't know what else you
would want to get her with it. You might want to get her something nice
and special rather than just some cake ... and if you want to give her
a cake, friggin make it yourself! I wouldn't want my kid just buyign
some rando cake for me... I want work put into it!

Unfortuantely, Filipinos are not as advanced in kitchen technology as the entire world is. Making a cake wouldn't be much of a problem if we had the tools.

But trust me, your mom would just love it.

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well I never thought of that one. Maybe just cook her a meal or something then and buy that cake. Either way, something has to be hand done at least to get the message across.

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hmm, i see so we're the same. i don't have the feeling of talking to my parents. but if you feel guilty by not greeting your mother, i think you should do it though... after all she's mother.. and you owe her your life...

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for your mum, I think you can make anything for her birthday.....hum, I don't say "Happy Birthday" to my mother, I coudn't but I draw and I write a little letter for her and in my letter I put "Happy Birthday". I do that because it's all what I can do with my means.

i hope that I help you.

  • Aug 04, 2005
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Why not treat her out for dinner? Flowers...I really think they're useless. They'll just wither right? If you don't want to spend money, you can always say "Happy B-day" or make a B-day card for her.

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i kinda have the same problem too...i don't really say happy birthday to my parents. While my mom is taking a shower i put the present on her bed. or when my dad is watching tv, i quietly put by him and walk off >.>'

but whatever you choose Akaiken. i'm sure she'll love it ^^

  • Aug 04, 2005
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Quote by REI123Why not treat her out for dinner? Flowers...I really think they're useless. They'll just wither right? If you don't want to spend money, you can always say "Happy B-day" or make a B-day card for her.

That would be nice. Thats a good Idea

  • Aug 04, 2005

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Giving her a card, or a letter would be nice. It doesn't need to be a long perfect-written letter jut a cute, sweet letter from her son :)
Since you can't "say" it directly, write it.
I suck with words myself... and I find it easier to write.
If you don't want to buy flowers, then buy her chocolates... or something of the sord...

Quote by AkaikenI really hate myself! I can't give her anything or just saying! I really can't. I love my parents both but on occasions like this, my mouth's always close. And she even reminded us yesterday about that.
Damn! I really hate myself!
Need opinions or advices guys!


Suppose you buy a card but you can't give it to her... put it somewhere. In her bed, or some place in the house that it's somehow "her" place in the house...

Good luck & don't hate yourself!

  • Aug 04, 2005

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well.. it seems like the best is to give her a card... give her a card which has all those quotes representing what u feel bout her... but u really must try and talk to ur parents.. its very important to tell them how u feel, verbally, even if its difficult.. i know.. its really hard explaining ur feelings in front of them... its like u would rather be in a different place than there in front of them... but its for the best.. hope this help.. ^^ tekker poh.. happee bday s mom nyo poh.. ^^

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  • Aug 04, 2005

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You could buy flowers or pick flowers out of your backyard.
And you could buy her a nice simple card!! ^_^

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  • Aug 04, 2005

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it seems everyone is in agreement about getting a bday card for your mom...you could also make your own card for her rather than buying one cuz it would be more personalized since it would be made by your own hands. and if you don't wanna spend money by taking her out to dinner, you could always cook or make something small for her for breakfast, lunch, or dinner at home. i think giving her breakfast in bed would also be very sweet. or you could just spend the day with her doing something she enjoys. whatever you decide, i'm sure she'll appreciate anything from her own son!

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  • Aug 04, 2005
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if you really love your parents.....you'll just do it through action...like hugging or kissing them....hehe....
you know what were the same.....i cant say it to my parents how i feel...if i say i love them....its makes me cry very hard.....

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Uh... Give her her favorite cake and place some kind of an icing saying, Happy B-day mom!!! For short, go to the nearest bakeshop/restaurant and buy her somethin' to eat... OR if you don't have any money, tell her by writing something to her...

Did that help? -_-;

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  • Aug 05, 2005

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hmm about ur quistion my opinion is that:
all mi=other know that her child love her and sure she knows that u cant tell her what u feel or share her ur feelin' ..shes not gunna mad ov u shes ur mother ...if u wana do smthin special at her birthday try to buy her smthin she always want ed to buy or try to write (i love u) n bathroom mirror or give her big kiss ...u can do lotsa ov thing without talkin' so just try to find out what ur mother like and get it ;)

Akaiken

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Guys! Thank you very much for the posts regarding my problem. I really appreciate it so much and I think it's enough for now.

If the mods will close this thread, they may do so. ^_^

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