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Kuai

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Ok I dont mean this as an attack or as a flame of any time. I just want viewpoints and feelings. No fighting please. Thank you!!

It has come to my attention that a member of this comunity has been hunting me here for some time. By hunting I mean he has been waching my words and movements and waiting for a chance to attack me wich he has already done. Aparantly he is pissed off because I hurt his ex yet I know her first name and talk to her regularly and all she has told me is that she was hurt when he left her.

So I want opinions on this. Is stalking or huntin on forum rite or wrong?
Should staff keep a closer eye out for it and be strickter about it?
How do you feel when it happends to you?
How do you feel when you do it to others and why do you do it?
Am I the type of person he must think I am to do this?

Also I want opinions on when simple pet peves go to far. For example alot of the guys here hate me because of how I talk in the spam lounge and the fact that alot of the girls are friends with me. Most of them dont let it go to far and its no problem but the fact is its just palying around and it dosent hurt anyone so what happens when they start openly posting there hatfull feelings on the forum and attacking people they dont know.
what do you think?

Please keep in mind that i do know the names of these peopel but have chosen not to post those names because I was this as a discusion about it not as a flame thread about what happend to me.

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I could say this...if you do have a problem with a member, whether he or she is stalking or hunting you down, you could always send in a Support Inquiry to the moderators. It's the most silent way to prevent being flamed or attacked from the other member. ;)

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but its a known fact that sometimes nothing will be done because th eperson didnt do anything realy illigal by forum rules. Also I havent had much luck with suport inquirys.

Besides I didnt ask what to do abut it I ask how you felt and what you thought about the topic!!!!!!

Lets please stay on topic here people. This isnt suposed to be about what happend to me in particular.

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Quote by KuaiIt has come to my attention that a member of this comunity has been
hunting me here for some time. By hunting I mean he has been waching my
words and movements and waiting for a chance to attack me wich he has
already done. Aparantly he is pissed off because I hurt his ex yet I
know her first name and talk to her regularly and all she has told me
is that she was hurt when he left her. So I want opinions on this. Is
stalking or huntin on forum rite or wrong?


So he's stalking you cause you said something to her? Well whatever it is he needs to let it go. It's just the net. Come here to have fun and to be all evil and scary. ;)

Quote: Should staff keep a closer eye out for it and be strickter about it?


Maybe they should but then again it is none of there business in the first place but if it becomes to much then yes the mods should do something about it.

Quote: How do you feel when it happends to you?


Hmm... Kinda been in the samething but it was more like stalking and not leaving me a lone. For good god it's just the net. I'm surprized by how somepeople take it so seriously. But if he keeps doing this I would report him.

Quote: How do you feel when you do it to others and why do you do it?


Well I don't stalk or hate someone on the net. Stalking's just plain creepy.

Quote: Am I the type of person he must think I am to do this?


No, no one should be in a situation like this. Speacialy when there as nice as you.

Quote: Also I want opinions on when simple pet peves go to far. For example
alot of the guys here hate me because of how I talk in the spam lounge
and the fact that alot of the girls are friends with me. Most of them
dont let it go to far and its no problem but the fact is its just
palying around and it dosent hurt anyone so what happens when they
start openly posting there hatfull feelings on the forum and attacking
people they dont know.
what do you think?


There's no problem with having fun on the net. Just don't go to far, like when you know they have a bf or gf. Other then that I don't mind at all.

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Quote by KuaiBesides I didnt ask what to do abut it I ask how you felt and what you thought about the topic!!!!!!

And here goes my 2 cents! Fighting in the forums is wholly unnecessary because I'm sure that there are many other members who do not want to get involved, and if other members get involved in other people's business, that increases the level of drama that goes on. Drama is something that could be an influence for 2 things...members feel sympathetic for the person causing the drama, or people begin to turn against the person which could make things even worse. One of the worst ways to broadcast members because of their activity or actions is by creating a thread because that immediately causes other members to ask questions and they become involved.

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Kuai

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Ok once again I make this clear peopel pelease read this and care. THIS IS NOT about ME AND HIM ITS A general discution. I'M 23 years OLD AND BEEN online A YEAR I KNWO HWO TO DEAL WITH THE situation thank YOU.

Ok now that thats done I want to thank alisha for her good points. Its not the staffs bussiness but it is the persons bussiness and if the two dont talk about it or solve it and one person just goes on waiting for a chance to attack it will instantly become there bussiness.

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I think its all pretty stupid really.
Everyone just needs to sit back and chill.

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Kuai

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THis thread would not be a problem if peopel read all of my first post and respected my request. this is not about me and should not be a fight any more then any other thread made here. i left out names and details for that reason. please do not post about my problem but only about the topic of this thread. thank you!!

SilentMasamune is rite I have seen this over and over. One person gets into a stupid fight with somone els and then friends see there friends hurt and they get involved and it turns into a war because two people exchanged harsh words. Its even worse when the admin and mods are part of it and start taking sides because of personal feelings. It is stupid and I feel that stalking or hunting online is basicly an easy way to avoide the initial fight and just start a war. After all basicly what your doing is waiting for a chance to discreadit another member on open forum in other words your trying to find an opertunity to drag other members into the argument by getting them to take your side. I feel that mods and admin should be strikter about thsi because of that. its not there bussiness but it will be eventualy.

And once again please dont ask peopel to post here or flame here or talk about my situation. i can handle myself in a respectfull and non flaming manner. Thats not what this is about!!

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Dude, all i said was "chill".
don't freak out on me, i wasn't even talking about you

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I apologise if you took it wrong but what i said was ment as a reminder for everyone. If people dont repect what I asked this can turn into exactly what we all want to avoid realy fast you know? So I remind people alot because I want to keep that from happening. Once again I am sorry if you felt bad about it but I did not intend that for only you.

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Quote by KuaiI apologise if you took it wrong but what i said was ment as a reminder for everyone. If people dont repect what I asked this can turn into exactly what we all want to avoid realy fast you know? So I remind people alot because I want to keep that from happening. Once again I am sorry if you felt bad about it but I did not intend that for only you.


i getcha.

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The simplest thing to do is ignore it. Dont let idiots get into your mind..let them pleasure themselves...if you ignore them..they'll stop..if you show a reaction..it makes them happy. Eventually, they will get frustrated and do something really stupid and get banned.

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People who have enough time to stalk others and watch their activities should be kept in a room surrounded by cushions.

Just put your feet up and take a load off, that's what I do.

But if they want a fight, I'm not backing out.

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once again i remind people not to bring up what happend with me an dsince its important i will do this every time i post here.

Personaly waht I do is I just deal with it I try to talk about it and if if he wants a fight I'll give him one in a way that he can not use it against me in any way. In other words I wont go further then he does and will do it in a respectfull and private way the best I can. If it dosent go anywere I tell them not to contact me again and if they do I send it all to the first admin I can find and call it harrasment of memebers!!

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Also I want opinions on when simple pet peves go to far. For example
alot of the guys here hate me because of how I talk in the spam lounge
and the fact that alot of the girls are friends with me. Most of them
dont let it go to far and its no problem but the fact is its just
palying around and it dosent hurt anyone so what happens when they
start openly posting there hatfull feelings on the forum and attacking
people they dont know.

Kuai, you have asked for opinions..and you received what you wished..but you keep complaining..so basiclly your thread has been turned around into a complaint thread instead of a discussion thread by your reply posts. Sorry, but..Maybe there is a different reason as to why some people on MT hate you..i mean people dont hate people for nothing..unless they are truly mentally challeneged. Perhaps you did or said something to them,?
Im not sure..but its none of my business anyways lol

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So I want opinions on this. Is stalking or huntin on forum rite or wrong?
Should staff keep a closer eye out for it and be strickter about it?
How do you feel when it happends to you?
How do you feel when you do it to others and why do you do it?
Am I the type of person he must think I am to do this?

yes stalking and hunting on a forum is wrong in my eyes there is no reason for it no matter what and shouldnt be allowed. and yes the staff should be a little bit more careful if someone says something they should at least look into it irregaurdless.
if it happened to me then i would be upset. i would never do that to someone ever that isnt right no matter what the other person did to me.

personally i dont think you could ever do anything to hurt anyone let alone stalk or hunt someone.

well i hope i stayed on subject and that is whast i think personally.

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taking thing calmly and with a clear mind helps a lot. Staying calm at all times is very helpful as it keeps you out of stress and allows you to think things over. I hardly think anyone is stalking you. Its called paranoia, and it can get to you and apparently has. Sometimes people just have a healthy good old arguement, and somehow gets out of control and becomes what you have here, if you chill, relax and think things over, you might see things my way. But maybe you still think Im stalking you, be my guest to think so, I assure you I have better things to do.


this thread should be closed before it comes to the worst and someone ends up banned.

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Quote by KuaiAlso I want opinions on when simple pet peves go to far. For example
alot of the guys here hate me because of how I talk in the spam lounge
and the fact that alot of the girls are friends with me. Most of them
dont let it go to far and its no problem but the fact is its just
palying around and it dosent hurt anyone so what happens when they
start openly posting there hatfull feelings on the forum and attacking
people they dont know.


Kuai, you have asked for opinions..and you received what you wished..but you keep complaining..so basiclly your thread has been turned around into a complaint thread instead of a discussion thread by your reply posts. Sorry, but..Maybe there is a different reason as to why some people on MT hate you..i mean people dont hate people for nothing..unless they are truly mentally challeneged. Perhaps you did or said something to them,?
Im not sure..but its none of my business anyways lol

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*sigh* complaining about it will get you nowhere. Sorry, but my sympathy is worn thin. I do happen to know one of the "Offenders", and I don't see how everyone can hate you because you know girls. Believe me the person I'm talking about has more girls that he can go through. So there's another reason. -_-

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You should get a bodyguard man... you'll need it. ^_^'

Anyways, I think the posts above are enough...

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Quote by AkaikenYou should get a bodyguard man... you'll need it. ^_^'

Anyways, I think the posts above are enough...

He's not askin for your advice, he's askin about your opinion on the topic.

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Quote by AkaikenYou should get a bodyguard man... you'll need it. ^_^'
Anyways, I think the posts above are enough...


He's not askin for your advice, he's askin about your opinion on the topic.

I know and I think that the above posts are enough to explain further...

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Say.... thats some nasty shst to have happening... but here is my opinion, MT is a place to make friends and chill, I mean, what kinda person will go looking for trouble on a virtual comunity??? Its SO sad
I mean... ok as U said U know the girl and chat with them, and that makes the stalker mad?!?!? how sad can that be!! jajajajajajaja

I had some issues too... and it sucks, because I cannot belive that even here, people is not able to chill and be friends... there is always something... someone... we are so lost...
well, as undeadsymphony said, chill, wouldn't it be wonderful if it just happened? chillin?

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Quote by SaschaCSay.... thats some nasty shst to have happening... but here is my
opinion, MT is a place to make friends and chill, I mean, what kinda
person will go looking for trouble on a virtual comunity??? Its SO
sad

I mean... ok as U said U know the girl and chat with them, and that
makes the stalker mad?!?!? how sad can that be!! jajajajajajaja
I had some issues too... and it sucks, because I cannot belive that
even here, people is not able to chill and be friends... there is
always something... someone... we are so lost... well, as
undeadsymphony said, chill, wouldn't it be wonderful if it just
happened? chillin?

Yes I tend to agree but as I said its not just this guy here I have friends that do this to others as well and it bothers me.

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People who stalk others online have no lives. They need to grow up and get over stuff. If they don't knock it off they should be chastized by moderators and if it continues further they should be banned.

Seriously people, get a life. ~_~

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