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I don't know what I doing is wrong?

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You see I have this problem of mine. Almost everyone that I know express they problem and ask for my help. Most of the time I never do, I just listen. To me when it come to people probelm the best way for a person is listen. I allow others share their problem to me. I don't mind listen. I don't gave them adivce either. I mean I do, but is rearly happen. So far only 3 people. I don't know why? Even they do ask for adivce. I told them nothing and say to them is up to them. To me, I can not help them but themself. Because of this, in my eye. It seem they can not tell I have my problem as well. It really tick me off. At the same time knowing people do not know what wrong with me. Clam me. (I never done drug, or did any crime, or drop school, or commit suicid.)

Is what I doing is wrong? Not gaving advice, and sharing my problem. Or something is wrong with me?

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Problems in life can be more useful that most people think. At times we all need another person to lean on. The reason people ask you for advise is because they look up to you do to the fact that they think you are wise. If they are asking for advise on a problem that you have had in the past as well then sure give them advice if they ask for it. Listening is always good, we all know that the other person has problems even though we are unloading on them, but it is nice to take some of that weight off of your back every once and a while. Sure it is up to the other person how they want to deal with the proble ultimately, but sometimes they need a little guidence in order to get themselves threw it.

kuclo

kuclo

My broken wings

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sometimes things happen ,and sometimes we have to solve problems by ourselves but , saying nothing is not correct even if you can not do nothing , try to cheer them ,say positives things and most important , support them so never give up .

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lthnadml

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Chasing shadows . . .

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No, there is nothing wrong with you. But it is good to share some of your prombles with others. Sometimes when we say our problem . . . just only to hear it . . . gives the solution . . .

A nocturnal concerto,Candlelight whispers me where to go,Hymn of gathering stars as my guide,As I wander on this path of the night

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