Like everyone had told you; I'll reinstate this again; give it sometime before you try contacting him again. Guys
tend to have a bad temper (I'm not saying everyone and I'm not bagging males because I am one myself!) and
they find it hard to control/express/share with others, generally. Give yourselves (you & him) sometime to sort
things out. Seek advice from your close friends/parents is a good idea. Its more common for females to talk to their
parents in these situations than guys. If you really think your relationship is one of a kind and you wish to save it
then you should find a proper way to reconciliate. (I hope that's the right word). Communication is important in a
relationship (I'm sure you know this) and in order to resolve conflicts both parties need to be able to
communicate. If he can't communicate to you then obviously something is wrong. You'll have to discover whether
his lack of communication was because he's got problems of his own or he just want to end the relationship. Now
becareful how you'd go about this because you may lose his trust if things gets out of hands. I'm not the best
person to talk about tactics so its better to ask someone more experienced.
I've been hurt by girls many times both directly and indirectly. The most recent one begun end of last year and is
still happening right now. Like you, I've thought about ending it all there and then. However, I have thought of
the consequences of taking that route. Most importantly is those around me. I would be hurting them much more than I
could ever imagine. Just the thought of that stopped me from thinking any further. ^_^ You could say that I'm a
chicken, but, to me other's feelings come first before mine. Also I reckon that taking the easy way out
doesn't solve anything. In fact you've introduced more complications into the lives of your loved ones. After
all those years, how do you expect them to cope losing you just like that?
I hope that you will get through this ordeal somehow. I know you can do it. Just believe in it and have faith; look on the brighter side of life. Be optimistic and never forget to smile! It's a powerful healing medicine. ^_^ Just try it! Take care Polarie, and if I have offended anyone then excuse me.
PS. If I killed myself everytime I got hurt in a relationship...gosh even a cat won't have enough lives for me. ^^
