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Hi well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and a half now. We have a great relationship, hardly ever fight or have problems with each other...but lately somethings been going on. He's like not talking to me as much anymore, he just sits and plays computer all day. I mean he cuddled with me yesterday cos I have been feeling sick but he hasn't been talking much...we are going through a lot of stress though. We are moving on Saturday to a new apartment. It's just right down the block and we don't have much to move but I just don't understand why he's becoming kinda distant...it's been driving me crazy...I'm scared he wants to leave me or I don't know but I've been crying about it alot...I don't know what's wrong with him...

and myself I've been thinking if I should break up with him...he's kinda lazy sometimes...and he thinks that a job will just fall into his lap...he didn't work for like 2 months and well this new place if we don't pay the rent we might end up homeless :( but I just love him so much...I don't want to lose him...I'm so confused...

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Well,you should speak up to him.I mean there's clearly a problem,and it's not gonna fix itself.I'm shure he'll undertand.And after you do that.give him a little time,maximum two days,before talking to him about a job.Somebody's gotta bring money home.That's the best advice I can give you on what you have written.I hope that things get back to normal between you and him.Good Luck!
Oh,one more thing:
Should he not want to get a job,tell him it's either that or living in a carton box.His choice.No matter where you go,you have to have money.And money doesn't grow on trees.I mean I'm lazy too,but when you need money,you gotta work.That's life.

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Like UzY3L-san said, I would suggest talking to him. No matter how much we think, guys aren't mind readers. Maybe he's not ready to move in together, which is why he's getting distant? Maybe he's not ready for the commitment? I don't know, but the best way to find out is to talk to him and voice your concerns. Good luck! :)

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no we have already lived together for a year now...we talked yesterday about what's going on. we are both gonna go to this place to see if they are hiring. it's difficult for me to interact with people but i'm gonna try to work. he told me he was getting quiet cos he was angry that he's not getting his taxes back and that his temp job of where he is working is up. he gets quiet when he's mad but he was like that for a few days so it freaked me out. it's alright now...it's hard for me to tell him things cos I think he'll get mad at me..but he actually wanted to talk about it so it's alright I suppose...shall see what happens when we get into the new place. thanks for the comments though guys ^_^

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