hey all. i was hoping that i could get some relationship help.
i am married and we constantly fight. every day usually all day. we constantly fight for the power in the relationship
and to be the dominant one. my husband wont do anything i tell him to simply for the fact that i tell him; even if he
knows he needs to do it. even if i ask him to do something he usually wont do it but then he complains that all i do is
nag him. but he sees dirty dishes piling up in the sink and i have asked him to do the dishes like 4 days ago and they
still dont get done. why do i have to be the one to do all the work around the house especially since he hasnt even been
to work since jan. he constantly tries to assert his authority over me and i simply refuse to be some docile little
slave wife. things are really bad and i dont know what to do to fix things. any sugestions would be appreciated.
thanks in advance.
also, does anyone else have a problem similar to this? maybe between a friend even? i would be interested in learning how you deal with this issue.