Perpahs it's a bit harsh but i thought about it many times.
For example, your family decide to go on a trip by plane/car/boat/train and you decide to stay at home (you are old
enough to decide), few days later you hear through the news that a crash happened and all the travelers died.
What would you do? I think i just could not bear it. Perhaps if you have a girlf/boyf you can stand 'alive',
but in the other case...? I just wouldn't know what to do, and you?