That's called Personal Imcompatibility.
To be Judged and Judgemental of an Idealogy and Opinion is probably the most tacky situation above all else there is in
communication. That's why there exist politics and political power as a countermeasure for balance.
Accept all the person had to say about his opinion, not neccessary what he said may be wrong but niether are we ! Cause
as times goes by, and mankind's history's evolves , facts of life,balance,logics,beliefs,laws and morals
changes. What we do today that seem wrong at first to the eyes of everyone now, however, the event will probably turn
into a right one in the eyes of everyone in the Future. There ain't any absolute rights or wrongs for the matter.
We just need acceptance and acknowledgements from it.
But to aways with that !
*wtf*..... jasaiyajin is right on the point :
Quote by jasaiyajin"
It's not what you say, but how you say it! "
Here's what i had to say.
I prefer to quiet down and listen to what he/she has to say and make him/her
prove his/her piece is solid. THen I will speak.That's a sign to say, "ok, you are done, here's what i
think, pls respect me by asking it later and dont cut me in mid sentences". That's one of a proper way to ease
the friction and fraction for heated and serious topics. Hell, we can't be right all the time ourselves ! He/she
may probably be right too !
Casual talks wise, lol. Just make sure you understand and display a proper body language. Don't get work up easily
and never insult. Be a good listener and say only after he/she had finished. THat way, they will respect, listen and be
willing to accept your point of perspective of your opinions. It's technically more like, Sharing respect. Yeah.
Above all, when it comes to topics we seriously think we are right on, We are always judgemental on it and most probably
need to exercise more patience.Cause we want to win ! It's a fact. That's what is restaining us when we are on
the creative thinking side of our mind.
If a situations turns ugly, example to a state of impending arguments,fights, etc etc , stand down. I'm sure no one
wants to make one more enemy out of a friend , don't ya ? Yeah, it stinks cause we can prove them we are right, but
it is better off they learn and find it out themselves the HARD way. Some ppl just can't twist their logic around.
They need to experience first hand. Most don't even want to change their thinking. In short, we can't make and satisfied everyone we know that we are on the right
track.
So don't worry if the next time they refuse to accept your opinions. As long as we know and are satisfied on what
we know, that's enough. Cause its part of creative-thinking. Ppl like to think one-side most of the time...go
figure !
Geezz,...i sound like an old man.
Someone slap me in the face to wake me up. *Just Joking*
