I apologize if this thread exists already, but my question to you people is would you rather marry a girl/guy who is a virgin? i mean would it matter to you if they were or not? And if you don't find it too personal to ask, are you going to marry virgin and lose it to your spouse traditionally?
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When I marry my future wife, I want her to be pure so yeah, virginity is very important to me. :)
To make it simple, if you go and buy a product, of course you want it in a sealed box.
Who would want to buy something that is already opened?Stop staring at my sig! :P
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People aren't like objects on the market, so why should the same principles apply? (yet another good question i want to ask of you nice people)
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Quote by tiki223When I marry my future wife, I want her to be pure so yeah, virginity is very important to me. :)
To make it simple, if you go and buy a product, of course you want it in a sealed box.
Who would want to buy something that is already opened?
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Things are nicer new but if it's something you really want, it shouldn't matter if it's slightly used.
... and people aren't objects but it's a good analogy
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'used', 'product', buy', do you people even put love into the equation?
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it really depends on the situation. I mean what if u find someone who was abused his/her life? If you really love someone, it shouldn't really matter concerning virginity. Virginity really does not concern someone's attitudes and ideals. But like i said, it really depends on the situation and person.
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would I rather marry a virgin..... yeah! the sad truth is there is no point in saving your virginity till u marry cause I will but u 100 pounds ur partner wont be a virgin.
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Yes I would rather marry a virgin. I'm a virgin anyway so I don't think it's an unrealistic expectation. Unless of course, girls lose their virginity more easily than guys... but I don't think that's the case... right?
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I'm saving myself for marriage, and I'd rather marry a guy who's saving himself as well. Marriage is sacred, and I view what comes later as sacred too.
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I would. I'm not gonna have sex before I marry so my spouse should be able to do it.
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Quote by tiki223When I marry my future wife, I want her to be pure so yeah, virginity is very important to me. :)
To make it simple, if you go and buy a product, of course you want it in a sealed box.
Who would want to buy something that is already opened?i like how you described virgin as new sealed product. but sadly finding good looking virgin girl who is old enough to get marry is very hard.
and yes i would prefer "new" than "used"
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Ya i think i will also stick to be a virgin until i get married, i think guy shud also do the same so as to be fair, isn`t it?
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my mom would love if I would do that. unfortunately, I lost it a long time ago. And I don´t regret it. Why marry a virgin. If yuo don´t know much about having sex, men tend to get bored very fast, and then go for plñeasure some other place
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why does virgin that much imporetant? the most important thing is 2 people love each other. r u guy agree?
and we can recognize a girl lost virgin by phycical reaction (blood come out at the first time) but can we recognize a guy?
i think that unfaith, correct?
and virgin can be lost when u play sport or been rape.
so will u willing marry a girl lost virgin by accident?
and normally, when in love, they usually give all, right?
and men always is the one ask for it first, then run away.
in my opinion, keep urself is good, but too consider a bout virgin can be seem discrimination.
anyway, as long as the couple love each other truthly, virgin is not important.im the unique one
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For chickychickycat. My view for u.
nope virgin or not is not very important if you really love him/her.
Now there are many points of view for virginity and for me. I view her as a virgin if she does not lose it willingly, in other word if she lose it at sport or accident (raped), being virgin for me is being loyal to yourself if you lose it so easily to a guy that you like before marriage than I will view her being unfaithful to herself.
Being unfaithful to her self, how can I trust her after marriage?
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Quote by chickychickycatwhy does virgin that much imporetant? the most important thing is 2 people love each other. r u guy agree?
and we can recognize a girl lost virgin by phycical reaction (blood come out at the first time) but can we recognize a guy?
i think that unfaith, correct?
and virgin can be lost when u play sport or been rape.
so will u willing marry a girl lost virgin by accident?
and normally, when in love, they usually give all, right?
and men always is the one ask for it first, then run away.
in my opinion, keep urself is good, but too consider a bout virgin can be seem discrimination.
anyway, as long as the couple love each other truthly, virgin is not important.well said. And although most of the time a girl bleeds when she loses it, that's not always the case. A girl can be a virgin and not bleed the first time, it's all about the different body types. Most guys percieve the girl 'unpure' if she doesn't bleed the first time, but they could be wrong. Then again..... if you can't trust and blieve what your partner says to you, the relationship is doomed anyway.
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Quote by chickychickycatwhy does virgin that much imporetant? the most important thing is 2 people love each other. r u guy agree?
and we can recognize a girl lost virgin by phycical reaction (blood come out at the first time) but can we recognize a guy?
i think that unfaith, correct?
and virgin can be lost when u play sport or been rape.
so will u willing marry a girl lost virgin by accident?
and normally, when in love, they usually give all, right?
and men always is the one ask for it first, then run away.
in my opinion, keep urself is good, but too consider a bout virgin can be seem discrimination.
anyway, as long as the couple love each other truthly, virgin is not important.
It's not discrimination. It's wanting to eat the candy before it's been licked. If you are whilling to make the commitment to stay a virgin then you should be with someone that is as strong as you to make that commitment.Men are always the ones to ask for it first? umm.....no. Always blame the men instead of taking responsibility for your own actions, is it not?
"and normally, when in love, they usually give all, right?" That's just an excuse. So I was in love (i.e. horny), therefore, it's justified. Sorry but that's incorrect. It takes two to tango.The hymen can be broken by accident by playing sports but the woman is still a virgin since she was not penetrated. Rape is another thing though....I don't know who would want that baggage transfered on to him but if you're one of those guys who want to take on that challenge, go for it. There's a lot of crap that comes with that though.
I suppose if you love the person then it does not matter. If you're modernized then you would most likely have his view. Keep in mind, however, that only a nonvirgin would say something like this.
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Quote by ChronicXI would. I'm not gonna have sex before I marry so my spouse should be able to do it.
Precisely. And think about this... if you're that strong, then, don't you deserve someone as strong as you?
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Well, i'm a virgin and i'm not going to loose my virginity until i find a virgin girl.
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rslgto; love is not being horny. And if you don't feel love towards the person or if you are simply incapable of it, then you shouldn't be having sex with them. Regardless of whether or not you're married to them. Matter of fact, you shouldn't even be marrying them unless you're willing to except some flaws.
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Quote by Shadowdawnrslgto; love is not being horny. And if you don't feel love towards the person or if you are simply incapable of it, then you shouldn't be having sex with them. Regardless of whether or not you're married to them. Matter of fact, you shouldn't even be marrying them unless you're willing to except some flaws.
Well then perhaps I misunderstood what was meant by "love." There's being "in love" and actually loving someone. "Being in love" has to do with biology. Love is a whole different thing and what we should strive to attain. If you marry because you're "in love," you're a fool. If you love someone and therefore want to marry them, then you're on the right path. The state of being "in love" will end sooner or later, but loving and caring for someone can last forever. Can you marry "in love" while loving someone at the same time? yes, but it would be very difficult to determine if you really love the person because your own body can decieve into thinking it's real love. You'll find out whether or not it was much later. lol!
That being said, you shouldn't marry unless you "accept" them for what they are, and if you find someone who will accept you despite being used before, then go ahead. I, however, do not accept that. Love means accepting people for what they are but if virginity (i.e. purity)--which, by the way, if you weren't a liberal would understand that it's very important for a person to have--is not present and it is a condition for love, then you cannot truly accept the person because of that. There, I just addressed your whole post.
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Firstly, The importance of virginity id a matter of opinion, not fact, and secondly.........liberal? Are you going to associate my personal beliefs with politics now? You don't even know what my stand point on politics is, so don't judge me. Matter of fact youo don't even know what exactly i belive, or do not, so you have no right to pass judgment on any aspect of my life. Do you concider people to be objects on a market there to look around, purchase and try free samples? Clearly you've never loved anyone before. Or mabye you're one of those people who are too damn buisy looking into the persons familly, wealth, political standing, place in society, who they associate with, ect, ect, to notice anything about who they are? Are you simply seaking a respectable title?
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LOLZ, consider this...
Virgin: Inexperienced, knows nothing about how to please the other... unless many a sex-tape-dvd-whatever-night study sessions. But even then, it's still that sacred vow of untouched appeal...
Non-Virgin: Experienced... knows what to do in bed or wherever, I hope at least, some never learn. Could possibly have some problem like an STD... ^__^
Ahem, and I realize the question contains marriage as a contingency... in order to be in love, live a life "like you're married" but not really also works out the same. Marriage is that sacred tradition of putting the ring on one another in front of witnesses and you are bound forever.. ^__^ Do remember though, I've seen MANY MANY couples get married and "things change." The wife lets herself go, and/or the husband, and things slowly become "different." Watch out... ^__^
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