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Would you ever go with with your friend's ex?

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I had a friend who fell in love with his best friend's ex, so they went out. Them being boyfriend and girlfriend didn't really have anybody's approval. My friend lost his best mate, some of his other friend's along with everyone's respect. Everyone was horrible to them giving them nasty remarks, even though it is none of their business. Everybody basically threw away their opinion of him and thought he was a bad person. But he's just a person in love right?

If you fell in love with your friend's ex...
Would you go out with him/her?
Would you say that your even allowed to?
Are friend's exs strictly forbidden?

Please tell me what you think. :)

Hiraku-San

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Fall in love ith your best friends ex.. Well it is better to refrain from that especially if your best friend broke up with her recently... it will most likely lead to misunderstanding... We human beings tend to think of things as the negative possible scenario..

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BiNumber3

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I'd say it really has a lot to do with how serious the relationship the friend n her had, n also whether the friend still has feelings. Your friend prolly shoulda spoken to the other friend before datin the girl, tho even then some people are too closed-minded to see anythin other than jealousy n anger, believing the friend betrayed him.
But seriously, any good friend should be able to understand, rather than blowing things outta proportion n losing friends that way

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There are lots of things that could affect such a situation...but I think if I knew for sure that I wont hurt him, I would go out with her

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the only way i could date my friends ex is if i've really fell in love with her and my friend had mo problem with it

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the only way i could date my friends ex is if i've really fell in love with her and my friend had mo problem with it

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Actually i can understand why because my school gt alot of this type of situation where boyz get together with the ex-gf frens... At that time what came to my mind is "why they like to share each other state". Sorry abt that comment but i think as long as they are happy they are fine la, i will not bother much. I think why people dun approved this relationship is because they have an image of something like "betrayer", to some group of guys, once this gurl break up with their friends, it`s labelled with "bitch" or other things la... I think i will still go out with that guy if i really love him even it`s one of my frens ex la but it will be quite werid la... What i think to solve this problem now is explain, ask them to ans the qn you ask! "Place yourself in my shoes, what if you fall in love with this gurl once the ex of your fren, how will you feel when you are treated like how you treat me now?" "I didn`t do anything wrong but just fall in love with her, seen the last relation has already been over why can`t your just give this new relationship just abit more support and encouragement?" I hope you can help out your fren abit and gain the blessed from his fren once again... It`s difficult but pass my encourament to them, hope they can last till the end, ganbate!

foreverforgotten

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Well as long as they are in love with eachother, I think it's okay, but I think it really hurts the friend who broke up with them. So it doesn't seem like a good idea to me... Speaking to that friend beforehand, and letting them understand, will be a good first step though.

Well I fell in love with my *cough cough* I won't even call him my ex, he hurt me so much, I never did anything but break up with him for the sake of the fact that I fell out of love with them... he threatened to hurt me, to kill all those I love.. so let's just call him a major loser. I fell in love with his worst enemy. *cough cough* my current bf, he's such a nice guy. So that loser got totally pissed off cause he thinks my current bf 'stole' me from him. But he didn't. Oh the irony. but this is another story.... eheheh. xD

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mmmmmmmm ithink not i'm too embrace to face her coz i'm who break up her

CamiChick

Crimson Moon

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Um...*raises hand* That would be me. I met my husband through a close friend of mine, they were dating at the time. They dated for 1 1/2 months and he broke up with her, she was hurt, yada yada yada. I didn't bother trying to get to know him because he'd hurt my friend and I thought he was incredibly immature. Two years later, the three of us ended up going bowling together 'cause my friend had remained friends with her ex. Things just clicked and I started dating my friend's ex about 1 1/2 years later. I had asked her before we even started dating if she'd be okay with it; she said that the idea of her two best friends dating was great. And then she started drifting away from me a year later 'cause I'd "stolen" him from her. Needless to say, she and I hardly talk anymore due to crap she pulled in the past, she is newly engaged to her boyfriend of 3 years, and I'm very happy with her ex, who is now my husband of almost a year. He and I have been together for almost 5 years and I don't regret a thing.
My point is, it hurts when your friend dates your ex..especially if you really cared, or thought you really cared, for your ex. For that matter, if you really cared for your ex, it hurts just to see them with someone else, whether their new date is a friend or not.

xmisaox

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if the friend is okay with it.. and the ex likes you.. and you like them back.. then go for it ^^ ! if the friend isnt close to yoou, but you just know her with the occasional "hi".. then go for it ^^ ! if the friend is your best friend.. then nooo~! there are certain things in which you should do and shouldnt.. and going out with a best friend's ex is one of the shouldnt do's.. but if it's a friend.. consider it, i guess!

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thats wrong......hell yeah!, nah just kidding

j0n0

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As long as there is a suffeint amount of time between when they broke, and you ask your best friends approval, then it's all right. It doesn't matter if your best friend approves or not, just tell him/her to grow up if he/she doesn't.

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There's really nothing wrong going out with your friend's ex. You just have to get things clear first with the ex of the person you're in love with by asking if it's okay. Learn from other's mistakes; that's what they all say. =)

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Well according to the MAN LAW textbook, it's okay to go out with your best friend's ex after 3 months. However, if she is a slamming hottie you can ask her out after 3 days. Man Law!

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SrEyLaKh

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From some reason.. No. Seems as if I'm taking their Left-Over. BTW, What If my Friend still have feelings for him. It just wont be right.

x-gear

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Running away...

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I wouldn\'t do it personally. I just doesnt seem right

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Well usualy i would ask first my friend if he is not annoyed for that, but all my friends are very practical and selfconfident..so if they have an ex, after they broke up she is public territory, so they doesnt matter..as i dont matter if they date one of my exs

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Whether or not a girl was an ex of one of my friends would really have nothing to do with whether I like them or not. Of course if they'd just split u I think I would refrain from doing anything, at least for a while as not to give the wrong idea about things.

Just say for example I'm interested in a certain girl and so is my freind, but I don't know that. And he asks her out and they go out for a bit then the relationship goes up in flames, I'm not going to look at her any differently than I did before. So I don't think it makes a difference in the long run, but definately in the short term.

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I've fallen in love with my best friend Girlfriend...
But I'm not going to do anything about it... even is she becomes his ex-girl friend...
I could not handle it...
It just doesn't seem right

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hitsugaya18

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it depends on what the circumstances are. i know that one of my best friends did that to me but i forgave him and said what the heck dont let a girl come between friends. but if i thought it was truely love then yes i would but out of lust i would never do it for at least a year and then it is fair game as long as they are over her.

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I would never even consider it until my friend found another girlfriend
Or if I really wanted to be with her and my friend already knew that

kazuki-

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ahh gezz....i just feel bad now. well yeah i'm going out with my best friend's ex but his got a new girlfriend and he's just happy for me and her.. I got the whole long story if yu would like to hear it?

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only if there wasn't much to the relationship between your friend and the ex... If not, it will be off limits..

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Davinator61

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I'd probably want my friend's blessing first before even considering such a move.

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