Quote by kokuyuquite a fiction
love novel to me btw, generally, it needs strong commitment for both to work this
out (yep, that's the essential point).
if they can keep in touch often, then it's alright. otherwise, prepare a stronger dose of sincerity and
promise.
second, there's always outside influence that'll wreck them out. because of distantness, we may not know
what's happening to him/her. curiosity creeps in... (but, that may be good cause' it'll keep them
together)
so, what if someone else walks in as third party? 'perhaps that 3rd one seems to be better than the current
one.' you see, human are always full of desires (and temptations). thus, it's the reason why it can be yes or
no.
i don't think there'll be a fixed answer. there tips to help but it's the couple themselves to decide and
pledge it, just like "are you loyal to your own country?"
I have Looked, Read, Read Again, And THink lot about it.
Why not ?
It is highly possible....No...it is and it work out fine. Now, i am not saying that it needs to be this, that, and
everything else for it to work out. But rather, have anyone of us here ever EVEN think about the Impossible that can be
made attainable ?
The First THought EVeryone reads this thread intially will be a big No at first. I know that. Because i too have the
same sentiments as my fellow peers here.However, that was a perception i have deem silly and blind enough to hoard till
sometime i left some other forum community years before i enter here.
Kokuyu, as well as as SweetBreeze has had prove a point here. If you believe, you committed, you trust, you devote,
what else matters to you if you know the person on the other side of your Computer/Lappy screen is thinking on you
always, regardless of your physical apperances you may have revealed. Yes, ppl
fear. Rejection. Incompatible Love. (Forbidden Love...a love that was never there in the first place....call it
...crush) They fear a great many from it. Which leads to why our mentality can so irritating and been too egoisatic at
times. Thinking too much may harm more than help. Trust
in our feelings rather than harbour thoughts on it. One cannot deny themselves the truth of the matter. It
just takes time to realise.
We are human afterall. Adapting to it takes time. Patience is never a virtue we learn to master but always struggling
for it.
As long as the two are willing to initiate, a small spark of trust embue between and it's this layer of it that
creates the impossible. Believe it , or not. It's all up to one's senses. *Shrugs*
I am so not into telling anyone here the matters of love and how it works here because it's a touchy
subject.Neither am i going to tell why i am strongly in support of it. However, know this, my fellow peers and MTers,
given time, will you be willing TO take a chance with the one person you are
dying to know and have been looking for and you know its that person all the while...waiting. As FateDecides pointed
out, intiative and perserverance. The Chance Factor.
To me, it is a big Yes. I am one willing to take the Risks. Mantaining a Long Distance relationship requires more than
anyone may think if you are not willing to do so, believe it in the first place...and is closer than anyone can ever
imagine if you do. Even closer to meeting them face to face or/and knowing them in the flesh. Even when lonely, one must
know that, the other doesn't not wish him/her to think that much over it and get on with life...just knowing that
it works out well in the end as soon as the distance factor is over. That`s true love for you.
Sadly... only a handful of such happenings and devoted couples exists...
`Cause, we are not bond by the masks and superficiality but rather, the Devotion and Compassion for each other. What is
distance when you know how the other is feeling all the time ? Lonely-feeling ? ... It is always there in the first
place.Just don't let it mix in with doubt. THAt will entirely spoil ... and strain the relationship. If you do,
speak out. If you want to hear, Stand up. True, the anoynmousity of the internet plays and teases....and acts as the
buffer too.
If you meant on another kind of Long Distance as such what Asinine as above. (Knowing the person already in person
instead) It has proven to be Successful and it does work. My pal and her are Soon to be Married.
All in all, the mantainance of this...it all depends and varies from person to person. I am just speaking from my mind,
experiences shared. So sue me. X-P
I know i kind of overexggerated on my point...and it seems so far-fetched. Sorry if i have not been in here too long.
Just Remember. You want the person to be happy. Work or not, it cannot change the fact you/they/him/her have had a
successful relationship in life.
