I love MT...
but from what I know, beauty is often associated with women, and with a guy, being mistaken as a woman, could possibly
mean you're beautiful, pretty.... DOES NOT MEAN 'gay' so don't think its a bad thing, society always puts out what men
should look like and what women should look like, its detrimental, but good sometimes.
but look here, from studies and from what I've read so far. beauty is further associated with symmetry, purity, a person
with a kind heart... aren't those traits good? Girls would dig you and guys also dig you, then you must be pretty
pretty, and add on those other traits you have... then no manly guy could ever get as many guys/girls acquaintances
ever! its a good thing, since we live in such a judgemental world, its good to be liked from both sides.... it can be
beneficial to you. but only if you're liked, only if in this case, if you're a guy... being mistaken as a
girl...
Not that I'm saying a girl being mistaken as a guy isn't good, its just a new way of viewing things, girls are standing
up for themselves now, being more independent of people's closed minded values and beliefs, Its not the usual... ' they
should be proper, decent, composed, a nice figure, non-aggressive'// instead, they're being themselves, so don't worry
if society deems it as a 'weird' bad thing, its just that we haven't lived long enough to appreciate it.
girls being mistaken as guys, if on phone.... i really don't think it happens often, i may be wrong, just 1 in 100,
nothing wrong or special... and if online, then there's no arguement, cause online, you can be anything you want, say
anything you want, and do anything practically...
btw, you may think that because of the username i have, the tone and vocabulary I use, I'm a guy... But in fact, I'm a
girl :),
No I'm not, that statement is false, I am a guy, It could be that easy? a few statements? a few words? well, for the
topic starter, you use alot of those smiley expressions, which I think you know, is key for people to assume you're a
girl... according to society's standards, and I'm sure you all know this quite well, and need not me repeat, but I will
for my sake:
Guys: macho, protective, strong, intelligent, agile, higher spirited, blach blach,,,..
(mostly caused from the human male/female makeup, males over the years are reported to be larger in general, compared to
a female, thus, people, having nothing better to do back then, associate them with what seems right)
Girls: slim, not aggressive, intelligent... i need not say more,..
and people around us, reiterate these very facts to us, what we are Supposed to be, its WRONG, that's one thing I know
to be sure, those ads, those subliminal stuff, people accept it, thus everyone would eventually fall prey to these
things, its horrible, it ruins people, it makes them not who they should be, which is themselves.... really getting off
topic here.
Its awesome, so to cope with these situations, giving them a pat, like kokuyu said is a good idea, or just be u. like u
as in you
you.... =D
