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anima241

anima241

Holdin onto the past!

o.k here's the deal. I made some new friends this year, and let me tell ya these are friends that have been there for me since we met, they are all the best people i've ever met in my life, they're all like me. But for some reason i feel as though we're all drifting away. maybe it's just me...but... *exhaspeated anime glare* YOU HAVE TO HELP ME MT! I DONT WANT TO LOSE THESE FREINDS! HOW CAN I STOP IT?! HOW CAN I STOP THIS DRIFT!

fading away isn't an option.

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Kohana-Ami

Kohana-Ami

Amii the Ripper

hmmmmm.... well all I can say is tell them how you feel about them drifting apart. And then you can do something to bulid your relationship back up.

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well... i got the same feeling too.... but 1st, we have to ask ourselves.... why is all this happening..... coz people grow up.... sooner or later everything will change.... the path we took is different.... different people have different ambition..... the only way to stop the drif is to stay in touch with each other.... to do things together while time is still there.... to hang out together more often.... time past by as we grow...

KOKUJINDESU

KOKUJINDESU

TYRONE-KUN

I agree with both responses you got so far--
Communication is key to relationship health and sometimes we get into a relationship that was not meant to last forever. As I understood it, we have friends for:
a reason--a specific purpose that happens in our lives.
a season--for a specific time in our lives.
and forever--those soulmates that you can't shake off no matter what you do.
Find out where your friends stand on the issue of your relationship and work from there. But be ready to put in the work otherwise drifting is exactly what will happen.
Good luck.

"We are but spiritual creatures enacting a physical existence."

GreenRanger

GreenRanger

<==The Man under the Helmet.

I agree with all of you above.

Hey Anima241, I'm one of your friends :) We've been talking since you responded to my post I made in one of your earlier threads. And btw, thats excellent that you found friends that have been there for you :D

I think you got a fear of loneliness, or failure. But think of this way, you must have done something or everything right to get those friends. Use that same method again if you want to make new friends, and work on what you think you need to improve on, try out new stuff. You can look at my thread My amazing depression story (Good conclusion)
if you ever need help. It's proven to work, well for me at least.

I agree with SChg & KOKUJINDESU on that your friends may not be there with you forever. I know it's sad, I've been through that road many times and it hurts to not be able to see your good friends regularly.

But you can still keep in contact with them. But I know, it's not the same as before. But as long as you got a method that can help you make new friends then you don't have to worry too much about losing your current friends, just enjoy your time with them and if worse comes to worse, you know you can at least make new friends.

Also, remember you got friends and people here in this forum that understand you better cause they've known what you're going through and been through.

I think in my opinion that the best of friends are the people who respect and value your decisions, even if they are wrong, accept who you are, & understand and can relate to you. Those people are really the people who will like you and want to be your friends, they are probably afraid of losing you as a friend.

Anyways, I hope my advice helps.

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Finalzero0000

Ninja Commander

As well as talking to them you could always schedule for more activities. I think that it may help your relationships if you share more experiences with your friends. That way you can have more to relate to with them. Hopefully this piece of advice helps.

anima241

anima241

Holdin onto the past!

thanks MT truly thank you....i just wish so badly that the end for friendship didn't have to come...i didn't know what friendship was until i reached eleventh grade (just five months ago)....i wasted all that time on fake friends and bullcrap. Until i met two guys named William and Luis(my name)...he taught me what a friend was...i learned about respect and loyalty and one thing no one has done for me...taken my trust...they gave me trust and i gave them it back. it truely meant alot to me, i just don't want it to go away so soon that's why i made this thread.

fading away isn't an option.

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