I was wondering because some female friends told me that lazy guys are attractive in some way. This really confused me, first because i am lazy myself and i think that there is no way someone like me can be attractive(my thought) but even i had many girlfriends and lately i'm having a NEET lifestyle and have gotten some fat. But i'm still wondering how can a lazy otaku like me can be attractive i just don't get it, its true that not everyone care about appearance, but for a lazy guy to be cool?, i think its weird.
Opinions please and its true that my self esteem is really low.