What do you do?

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Ok here's the downlow.I met this guy online BUT I knew his cousin and he really does exist before you ask me.So he eventually asked me if he knew me and i said no but i know both of his cousins and he's like ok.Eventually we started talking everyday.I tell one of my goods friends cause we both liked his cousin,daniel,but i now started to fall for this guy,which his name his daniel,too.I told her we talked eveyday i got home from school and he flirted with me and he was the first one to always message me.And we always talked about our days and what we were going to do and he always said take care to me (but he does it to everybody).Now he lives all the way in Colombia which is a problem,but not the problem i am discussing.Me and my friend one day get into this BIG fight and since i told her everything about him and me she threatend to tell him i liked him...she did.She told him i was obssessed with him and all that crap.In the end he stops talking to me.I'm pissed at her but she deny's she did anything.Liar.


I know realize something.I can't forget him.I love him.And i'm hurt.He was everything i ever talked about everyday.He lives in Colombia and won't talked to me.Even if i message him.I'm going to give it time and see what happens.But here's my question:

What do you do when you can't forget somebody? :(


  • May 08, 2008

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Well right now I'm unemployed waiting to go to school... oh wait that's not the question. The whole "What do you do?" title confused me. Onward to the point.

The answer to your question is simple, let it run it's course. After I broke up with my first love I felt like I'd never get over her. It hurt me for quite a while. But eventually that goes away. You eventually regain your composure and may find yourself better off in the end. I did stupid things to stay with her when I didn't need to. I never would have realized that had we not broken up. It may seem cliche, but time heals all wounds. The pain sucks, but it'll pass.

Besides, according to your profile page, you're 13 years old. Believe me, when you get older you'll look back at this and wonder what the hell you were thinking. Heck, the thing I was talking about was when I was 19 and I even look back at that and wonder what I was thinking. Don't let this get you down... just wait until you're working for a living then you can be depressed.

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  • May 08, 2008

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That's very... confusing...
I've been in a similar position before... it sucks... I'm sure he'll come around and talk to you eventually, maybe his cousins could talk to him for you. If you can't forget about the person you love, the best way is to find someone else. Its amazing at how quickly you can get over people once you have fallen for another guy (from my experiences). However the simpilist way would just be to live your life. Spend time with frinds, try not to talk about him, don't let yourself be bored, live every second of your life with a purpose and I'm sure the pain will go away and you'll start to forget about him, maybe not fully, but surely enough.

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  • May 10, 2008
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Message her or just try to call her and talk

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  • May 10, 2008
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I was in similar case two years ago and I have to agree with what Shoujoboy said. Time Heals. For me, it took a very long time to get over the guy that I liked. But in the end things turn out to be better. I think it's better you don't do anything rash. If he's put some space between you then comply with it. More persistence will make things worse. You, certainly, don't want him to leave your life entirely. He may come back at some point in time. Perhaps when he feels more confident and comfortable to face you and your feelings.

Everyone gets uneasy when they realize someone has deep feelings for them, whether they appreciate it or not. It's natural. Let him be and live your life. It's ok to think about him. I mean, it's ok to think about him as much as you want until his thoughts don't hurt you anymore.

A wound is better left alone to heal on its own. Don't do anything to inflict more pain to yourself and don't try to escape the pain either. Face it and get over it.

  • May 10, 2008
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you can get into another relationship. Or you can try to get involved with some other things to get your mind off him

  • May 17, 2008
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yeah i think that's right

  • Jun 17, 2008

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