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Is it hard for u to say "I love U"?

who do u love more than anyone?

ure parents
47 votes
ure bf or gf
40 votes
ure siblings
8 votes
ure friends
15 votes
ure dog
6 votes
other
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I Love My Liver!

okay but if you love some one and you don’t tell them your jus hurting you self , but if you tell them and get rejected well belief me the wound will heal faster then the pain of saying nothing so go right a head an say it don’t be shy love is not a thing to be scare of.

If I tell her its going to be hard on me cuz she is way out of my league. She will ost likely tell me to take a hike.

If I can't have her.... death....

No I'm just kidding. Lol.

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FatalB

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although this is the opposite of what i said earlier, i agree with sasuke987.

It hurts a hell of alot more to keep your feelings to yourself.

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I want my world painted black...
....in a good way.

Actually, not always FatalB. Before I continue your name sounds very familiar.... do you know a guy named Danny Choo by any chance?

Anyway back on topic.... my feelings for this certain girl actually is getting stronger and as it gets stronger it feels easier to live with it. I know it sounds strange and it could be just part of my character but thats how it is for me. I started feeling strong emotional pain but its slowly diminishing. But like you said it might be a good idea to tell her anyway....

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FatalB

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sounds like eveyone has a different opinion.. maybe it's just case by case scenario, treating each situation as unique based on the amount of love each person has for each other.

don;t you hate it when you realise your life doesn't have a perfect strategy guide?

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I want my world painted black...
....in a good way.

I hear you man. Thats why I made my own strategy guide.
And its whatever. Haha.

I just improvise every time I get a chance to talk with the girl I like.

But I think its a bad idea. I still haven't asked her out yet

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FatalB

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today i said i love you to my pillow. then i woke up and realised my girlfriend was still away...
does that count?

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FireBlaster

The Quiet Life

For me is hard
Because 2 things
First i'm shy
second I don't use this phrase* beacuse with my family I express in others forms
with my friends is very similar and for the "girl of my dreams" is the only situation when I say it
(sorry I still learning english)

Life is Figth

HaineAsakura

HaineAsakura

Silent Scream

I admit to throwing the saying around too much. I'll say it to anyone really. Someone lends me a quarter I'll say "Oh my god I love you!"

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Nah, it's not hard for me to say it. In fact I love lots of people. I love everyone here as a matter of fact ^_^

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It depends on who I'm talking to. If the person is a family member then it isn't hard.

if its real love well it is hard but if its not well you get the point..

I love my family the most, but even to them I don't say "I love you". To be honest I very rarely say those words. I think that actions speak louder than words. And beside I'm too shy to say those three magis words :P

gountessg

Dark Angel

nope!

what is your purpose in life?

i always say i love u in the mirror

All you need is love, All you need is love.
Love, Love, love!
Love is all you need, love is all you need!
Oh yeah! Yeah, yeah, yeah! ^.^
~ Beatles

Saying I love you is a way of sharing/expressing love. ...and there is one thing that EVERYONE needs more of in their life and that is love! I mean when was the last time you heard someone say, Man I whish I had less Love in my life! You don't! :-D The other thing is - a lot of people forget that not everyone is psychic and can read minds, so sometimes you have to say out loud that you love someone – and saying I Love You is one of the best ways to do that!
In relationships, as everywhere else in life, we each tend to think that we're the only one who's got it (the problem, the cold etc.), or had it (the bad day at work) or needs it (more love), but that’s not how it really is. ...Everybody needs more love! More Love! More Love, more love and more love! :-D
I know there are times when you may feel awkward saying it, but go ahead and say it – you might just make someone’s day! ^^ ...so spread the love and tell your partner you love them, tell you parents, tell you grandparents, tell you brothers and sisters, tell your best friend too! Everyone needs more love – for all you know they could have had a bad day; and this could be the one thing that cheers them up! Even if that isn’t the case; expressing love is one of the best ways to build a strong relationship. (They may not say it back, but it doesn't mean that they didn't feel it – they could just be feeling that same awkward feeling themselves.) If it really is an awkward situation just find a different way to word it. Like you might not tell your teacher you love her (right? lawsuit anyone :-D ) ...but you might say you love how she takes the extra time for you, as few teachers do that nowadays. See now, pretty easy!

Oh and as for the part where you think that saying I Love You means your either gay or weak. Well I say it – and mean it, furthermore all of this typing I'm doing on love is coming from a 23 year old guy with a long braided beard who looks like he could be in a rock band! So by no means is saying I love you weak – if I can say it, so can You!

...Now go tell someone you love them! ^.^


i think it's hard for me to say that
to everyone i think
maybe that's because of the way i'm brought up and the culture of the society that i'm living in
and maybe cos i dun really love them?
my parents, siblings , etc never said that
and i feel odd saying it
dunno why hahaz ...

Haha, joing the club, I only say 'I love you" to my food/pet tortoises but to people...you can probably get better luck pointing a gun to my head. I don't know...guess its embarrassment or self consciousness? I suppose family upbringing has something to do with it as well, my parents don't say these things either.

Foley

Baka!

theres so many ways to love other, and thats makes saying it and hearing from other very hard. I would even say meaning "love" starts be too outdated word describe...

ive experienced many kind love.. and its caused lots good and bad... hmm for me hardest is say it parents.

para mi si es muy dificil decirlo, un chico lleva diciendome una y otra vez que me quiere como desde hace 1 mes y todos los dias me manda mensajes diciendomelo y todo pero yo todavia no siento que pueda decirselo haha prefiero esperara a verlo y abrazarlo o algo asi porque con palabras no puedo TT_TT

perents.
i want to vote for siblings too, but i can only vote once.
to me family always first.

+ i dont say i love you i show them through my action.

O929O821

Zero

I'm the type of person who believes it's possible to fall in and out of love on a daily bases. I believe it's something that just happens, and when I feel strongly for a person I will tell them I love them.

I tell my family I love them every morning I wake, before hanging up the phone, before they leave the house without me, whenever I depart from them and any time I just won't be near them for a few hours. I want them to know I love them, so I remind them every chance I get. Of course, they are usually followed by hugs and kisses - or the air equivalent.

I also tell my friends I love them, though not as often as I tell my family. My best friend is probably the person I say I love you to most of all. <3 I really do love them with every fiber of my being.

I hesitant to tell boyfriends/girlfriends that I love them, however. Not because I'm afraid, but I don't want to pressure them. Whether they love me or not, it won't stop me from loving them - that doesn't mean I should make them guilty. If they ask, I will tell them the truth.

Love is a beautiful thing; it's good to love many.

:'D FRIENDS?

TessaLover12

TessaLover12

MT is My Home!

I couldn't vote, I love my parents, and family, and my gf. I couldn't choose. It's not hard for me to say it. The question is: Is it hard for you to MEAN it?

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