Quote by Popcicle0112 umm
I don't want to sound like a prude but your friend is a straight up SLUT & A BIT@H in the making and you my
dear should run for the hills. To hell with the "support" of such nasty behavior, the girl obviously has no
damn respect for herself let alone her boyfriend and hell, the one night or day stand included. And I'm actually
appalled by how calm and collective everyone has been about the issue. Is everyone here okay? I mean don't you
people find anything wrong with this?
Quote by melymayWell, if she only knew him for a few hours he must have been really attractive/charming. I wouldn't
blame her if that was the case - since I probably might have ended up doing the same thing as she did ^_^'
I do find it odd that she chose to lose it on a one night stand, but I'm not judging. Like you said, she's a
sexual person. It's too late to turn back, but she shouldn't feel cheap at all. Just because a woman embraces
her sexuality doesn't mean she's a slut or anything.
X-P Girl, you need to value life more and grow as person (not a slut) because you are seriously shallow to make such a
statement. Sleeping with someone within a few hours hell I think your lying it would be more like minutes for you if
he's extremely attractive (to your standards) and you guys share the same taste in music. Anyway sleeping with
someone you hardly know is just nasty. You are a sad person! :(
Choice is choice, after all. And labeling someone as a slut or bitch isn't a good way to prove your point. Just
because a friend's lost her virginity doesn't mean that you should stop being friends with her. It's like
not making friends with someone just because they're of a different religion.
Popsicle is apparently unaware that there are greater monsters in life such as rape and paedophilia (both issues,
regardless of the gender of the victim) running around on this earth.
I am not appalled by the calm behaviour of everyone here (except yours) because this has already happened. It's not
as if freaking out will solve anything.
Then again. Choice is choice. So. It's all up to you.
As for this whole shebang, Sakiza, what country do you hail from? What does your society think of pre-marital
sex?
At this age of horrid 'globalization' and rampant spread of 'sexual information' losing one's
virginity (regardless of gender) is pretty much normal. (Though one's 'first' with a one night stand
seems pretty scary)
No matter what Sakiza. If she still treats you as a friend and she still trusts and respects you. You should still be
her friend. You can tell her your opinion, but state clearly that you are not judging her because of what she did, but
you are being honest.
There is nothing you can do but warn her about STI's and pregnancy risks. There will ALWAYS be a risk of both even
with contraception and prevention methods.
Finally, I respect you for not judging your friend. It is a very difficult thing to swallow.
And sex is a touchy subject, you know. People just don't understand how other people feel for things. It's
different from doing drugs or embezzling cash. In one way it might be wrong but in another it isn't. (I mean, how
else are you gonna get children? But of course, sex is currently not only a duty to the species, it's also used
for...other means)
Since, the whole thing already happened, Sakiza did the right thing. You can't erase the past, but you can prevent
bad stuff from happening in the future. Make sure she doesn't go running around with one night stands again (or too
often, if such a situation is unpreventable), make sure she gets herself checked.
