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Hi everyone. I guess I should get to the point.

Alright. My friend has broken up with his girl friend since the very first day of new years. So it's been like about 4 weeks now. And I kinda... like his ex. What's funny is that she told me ahead of time that she was going to break up with him before the break up happend. And I seemed to be one of very few people she can open up to. But after the broke up happend, they seemed to be better friends now. They've been talking alot which didn't happen alot during the almost 2 year relationship. Now I want to ask her out but im not sure wheather I should do it, wait, or not do it at all. My friends has suggested me to go for it. They said that I won't know anything if I don't try. Who knows what'll happen quote by them. Plus I think she may like someone else or chances are, they might still be together.... I don't know. So what should I do?

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

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well i agree that its worth a try but how you go about it is important. im no expert in these situations but i would suggest that you would bring up to topic to this girl you like, like ask her how she is feeling about the breakup sort of like a friendly check up on her feelings. do this so that you know how she really feels about the situation.
i also suggest that you dont read too much into the fact the she told you they are breaking up and that she is more open with you as it can also only just mean that, she was feeling emotionally burdened about her decision and wanted to tell someone, and the fact that she told you is because she feels like someone she can be open to as a friend. this however doesnt mean she wont like you.

my verdic remains the same :) give it a try and hopefully my advice can help. goodluck

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Thank you LazyStranger. What you just said has really given more confidence than before. And your right. I will give it a try. If it doesn't work out, i'll just be back to where I am now. So yeah, I'll give it a try and let see how things go.

Thanks for the advice. Hope to hear more of your wisdom in the future. :)

weird12u

weird12u

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the truth of the matter is that since it is your friends ex (in girl world) that is a huge no no. but you should try for it if you do have feelings for her, and if she says no then you learned something new

Don't jack yourself on Jesus use someone else's hand!

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Thanks weird12u. Like they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Curious to see what happens.

Gamefreak91

Gamefreak91

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If u really think about going out with her, u should think this through n ask them both about the status about their relationship like if they still love each other.U should ask ur friend how would he feel if u went out with his ex n if she is really over ur friend n wants u or if she's going out with somebody else. Just b careful, don't do something u think might ruin ur friendship with both ur friends.

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I think you should wait a while and step back and observe a little more first about the situation. The worries you stated are valid, therefore you have to be careful or you might lose both the girl and your friend.

kyo-tohru-1985

kyo-tohru-1985

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In my opinion i think you should talk with her first about what you are feeling and see where she stands. Then when both of you think you should give it a try then talk to your friend about what is going on between you. Or you can talk to your friend first and then her, its up to you. But good luck on whatever you choice to do.

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so so...
u better try the other one...
when she get mad... r u always keep a smile on that face...
it's though...

merged: 08-11-2009 ~ 07:53pm
nope.. please don't take it so seriously he9...
that my opinion...
only...
just an opinion...
Ha9...

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grab this opportunity and run with it, if she can open up to you that's a good thing for a relationship to have. Anyway if you like her and she likes you just take the chance
bye bye

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