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i just lost what i thought was the love of my life. we where together a year and seven months and we where engaged for 8 months of that. can someone help please!

carlozzzzbr

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I can give u an advice if u tell me what happened...
Why did you broke-up?

angelxxuan

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ippiki no ookami

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might not have been a break up...but I'm with carloz person more details please, nothing too personal just to help us help you

ashi ga tsuku

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deads dont talk

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its a little hard to say something without know what really happened, sorry... the only thing that i can say without know the facts is "take a deep breath"

sorry for my bad inglish

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u use the word "LOST" this word somehow ambiguous, it could mean, Dead, Taken by another man, or Leaving u.
since u didn't giv a full detail, perhaps u dont want to share with us, may be juz want us to sympathy with u.
then... i should say,
may be it is not time for u to get the love,
if u still want to live, keep on with ur life,
becoz it is Life, Sweet and Sour always Come and Go...

maymay073

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I agree with bounceramg. When its not your time. Its not your time. As much as it hurts. The more you tend to let go, the more it will be worth it in the end.

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well we broke up because i moved out i moved out because here mom said she was gona beat me up (we where living with them at the time). said she that me moving out says to her that i dont want to be with her. i told her that that wasnt true. o and her mom said that cuz i stud up for my self.

angelxxuan

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well you could see if she wants/wanted to move out with you, it's not that hard if love is present, but if she wants to be childish about the whole thing then you're better off without her...personally it's not hard to get a job of some sort and live in a one room apartment, etc, the possibilities are endless on the angle this could have been taken...but regardless you're young there are other fish in the sea, mourn and move on...just in the future mom's house might be a bad investment regardless on "tough times" and the likes, mom is mom she has the right to kick you out of the house if you were freelancing/loading or she didn't like you, if the girl had liked you she would have gone too, to me it appears you didn't mean to her what she meant to you...hope this isn't too cruel and mean but that's how I am processing this situation

ashi ga tsuku

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hola this is my first post

i think the reason to keep life goes on is find fun stuff like ,singing,dancing,drawing, desingin,sports, play game,handsome guy beutyfull woman, and etc

ignore problem those problem tell your heart to have fun

if you not interested in any of those you should check Religion Become a Good servant alway remind human about good and pray for heart peace

i think you should visit Picvi.com this site surly gonna cheer you up

be all good to each other we shall find peace whitin then.

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why don't u try read a book....
beter find it....

Bernouli

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I wouldn't dwell on it. That girl doesn't sound like she was worth your time anyway.

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i know how you feel it felt like i lost the love of my life also but i moved on with my life. Going back to school, talking to my friends and family. But what you said why you two broke up that was sad, if she did love you she would have stand up to her mother also and leave with you. but it looks like she still likes a baby and does what ever her mama says. I am sorry if i am being mean but its the truth and yeah the truth hurts. Anyway the best thing to do is try to forget about her, do things that make you happy and slowy but surely she will just be a memory. It will still hurt for a while since of what happen but the pain will go away soon just give it some time. like they say "time heals all wounds".

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D: thats sooo sad to hear! im sorry to hear that...i lost the love of my life too,my fault though so im livin with that gulit and too afraid to move on

Some People say that I'm a goody good for my own self..Is that true?

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I'm sorry about your loss. I myself have been going through a breakup because of stupid parents.
But all you can do is find something you enjoy and keep on living until you feel happy again. Time is the ultimate healer in situations like this.

Fight for the love you dream of
Fight for the love you want
Fight for all you believe in
Fight til your strength is gone

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oh my gosh.. as all the others said, maybe she wasn´t the best for you, she would had to understand the reason of what you leave if she loved you the way it meant to be.. people like that that can´t have the enough amount of understanding for such a situation like yours simply doesn´t deserve your truly love. im sure that you are a real valuable girl, so remove those tears and cheer up! (even if is´t hard at the beggining) n.n
cuz all the other people that loves you will help you and surely will stay with you until you feel better n.n
and then maybe something wonderful will arrive at your life ;3

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EAT something tasty,delicious..,whatever u like(i m talking about healthy food of course) cuz it definitely will make u feel a lot better.make a fresh start!move on.Sure u will find ur true love someday!

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Not sure what to offer as far as advice, but you have my condolences anyway. ^^;

Well hell, you're only 20! I'm almost 28 and I've never even had a real date or even my first kiss yet! ::smiles, then realizes how much of a loser that makes him sound like, and slumps in his chair:: Ugh.... see, you're doing much better than I!

Life is cruel, why should I be any different!?

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thanks for the advise guys. she really didn't break up with me cuz her mom told her to she did it cuz i guess she thought i was abandoning her ( even though i moved 10 min walking time away). But she says its cuz she hates me but i think she still loves me but she is scared to. idk if that is right i get the feeling that she feels that way cuz she lashess out at me over the littlest things. idk what to do do i ask her about it and ask for honesty or just forget about it.

DarkKitty69

DarkKitty69

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I just need help with looking for a guy that will stop rejecting me when I make the move or one that will not lie to my face. Men don't know what they want to tell you the truth!

“Witness [my BanKai] with your eyes and remember it well … don’t worry, you won’t regret it. Before you can do that, you’ll most certainly already be dust in front of me.” — Kuchiki Byakuya

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you are in control of your own emotions focusing on the bad stuff won't help you.
you'll find someone even better because there are like BILLIONS AND I MEAN BILLIONS of ladies out there. If you told me the full story i might have been able to help u
anyway toodles

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ffx2boy

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Quote by angelxxuanwell you could see if she wants/wanted to move out with you, it's not that hard if love is present, but if she wants to be childish about the whole thing then you're better off without her...personally it's not hard to get a job of some sort and live in a one room apartment, etc, the possibilities are endless on the angle this could have been taken...but regardless you're young there are other fish in the sea, mourn and move on...just in the future mom's house might be a bad investment regardless on "tough times" and the likes, mom is mom she has the right to kick you out of the house if you were freelancing/loading or she didn't like you, if the girl had liked you she would have gone too, to me it appears you didn't mean to her what she meant to you...hope this isn't too cruel and mean but that's how I am processing this situation

I agree. If you had explained it to her or if she didn't want to move out with you, rather, break it off, then love isn't there, and she probably wanted to leave you, just not so dreadfully, I could say. Idk, but this is a guess, she could've told her mom to do that to give her a chance to break it off. It's possible.

Just move on. When you ask someone to marry you, expect all you can from them, but don't expect eternal love, that's something that doesn't necessarily exist. People get tired of each other, some quicker than others.

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Maybe... you should tell us a story...
I'm sorry

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Only feel your own heart
When you find your true feeling about this situation .
Your problem will end .
Stop thinking
Start whit .
How do you feel ?
Sad.
What do you feel ?
Anger.
Check your own heart .
Maybe you could find a answer .

see you .

fatalattacker09

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my tip for you my man is....
breath in,
breath out,
after that,,
shout out loud!

(T_T)

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