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That lonely feeling T_T

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Hey, Guys this is a post for all of you tech buffs out there are anyone remotely nerdy.

I really realized lately how lonely I used to be and kind of still am ( though the effects aren't like they used to be). I go to school everyday to the same old same old. Classes on classes, and I don't mind since most of the time during the summer is pretty boring and I find myself begging for something to do. Well, anyway, everyday I notice the same thing really nice girls with amazing body from all sizes. No, I'm not a pervert, I just really appreciate the female body especially since one day that same body has to care life. I always see my football buddies with girls and I"m friends with alot a girl and guys but I never hear any girl say they want to date me. For once I'd like for a girl to like me for who I am, but no such luck. I mean I'm not bad looking and I've gotten compliments from girls about how good a look ( when I"m decked out ), but when it came right down to it not one girl gives a second look. It's depressing, and I find myself being envious of the couples I see.

It really feels like I'm going to be alone forever, and strangely I'm starting to be ok with that, but I don't want to be. I know this may sound weird coming from a guy but I've always dreamed of have my own family with a beautiful wife and a peaceful life.

Just want to know if anyone is feeling me?

angelxxuan

angelxxuan

ippiki no ookami

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I thought that once, of course a huge chunk of my life passed before I finally found someone, but seriously don't be so rushed to find someone....what's wrong with finding a life, work (career), to me family and marriage was way down there on my list, yes the lonely feeling does feel haunting sometimes, but well family can't follow marriage and to me, in this day and time, it's best to be able to afford things...us girls aren't cheap dates we like our movies and plushies :P

ashi ga tsuku

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Close your eyes and make a wish~

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You're only 16? Psh, you're still young. I'm sure you'll find that special someone when the time is right. Concentrate on living a full- life-- enjoy your youth! I had a lot of friends who didn't date in high school (either because the gal they liked wasn't interested or for other reasons), but when they went to college it opened up a whole new world of possibilities.

If you were interested in going out with someone, you've got to be pro-active. You can get compliments from all the girls you want, but sometimes you've got to take the initiative. The last guy I dated... we'd been friends for awhile, but then we started hanging out a lot more and we developed feelings for each other. I knew he wasn't going to do anything (because he didn't think he was attractive), so I took the risk and asked HIM out. We had a good couple of years and are still really good friends to this day.

Please don't feel like you're alone... there are plenty of people out there who are in the same boat that you are. :)

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i have no body either join the club

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I sometimes feel like the as well.

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I have the same feeling! last nite, was watching a movie[alone] and dang..that feeling...

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Kiss a piece of paper with an anime chick on it. I kiss my avatar. Lol.

Well in all seriousness.... wait for the right time. And you are still too young for it.

SCHOOL RUMBLE!!!!

miss-kittychan

miss-kittychan

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Someday you will find that someone for you, I beileve everything happens for a reason and that there is someone out there for everyone. You just gotta look and not be afraid to put yourself out there. Life is short so you gotta make the best of what you've got and take every chance you can get =] x

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x-lawss

x-lawss

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Brother, you are 16 and still young, you still have a long way to go to feel that loney. Look around you, you may find some intersting things :D

jake09valencor

jake09valencor

Learning tO Fly !

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HAha...16 and already longing for someone to be next to you. Trust me, you'll miss your single life if you find someone special so soon. You should be hanging out more often with your friends (guys or gals, doesn't really matters) and enjoy while you still can. You don't stay young forever, romance can wait a while. The best part about a guy's youth is doing LOTS of stupid (or maybe retarded) stuffs with your friends. Something to laugh about once you're older =D

When the times come, things will change in your life. You're just thinking too much

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I fell the exact same way. It is like that I am okay with being alone, but I am not. I wish I had a girlfriend. Well when the right time comes I will.

mrdesuninja

mrdesuninja

Stealin' yer interlolz.

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Dont look for love too quickly. I didn't find mine until... Heck, almost 7 months ago now. And I'm 21.

Rushing only makes things go downhill.

What would you do for a Klondike Bar?
*Looks at the chub on his belly*
I don't think my belly can afford another one. T_T

Tenko-san

Tenko-san

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I've had this feeling throughout high school and as much as I wanted a girlfriend, things just never went to plan for me. I've had feelings that girls liked me, but not enough to ask me out and vice versa. You could say I lacked the courage, however it wasn't all that bad for me - I had great friends to hang around with and they filled my mind most of the time. Back then, that thought was always in the back of my mind and kept thinking will things change or how long will it be before I get a chance to do couple things?

But I don't regret not having a girlfriend at the time, my youth was actually pretty fun and pleasant with my friends. We did so many silly and stupid things they were the best time of my life! You're only 16 and my advice to you - which I would give to myself when I was 16 is to just enjoy whats infront of you, what you have got. If love does cross path with you then take it but if it doesn't do rush or force it to happen without seeing some value in it. Like mrdesuninja - i didn't find mine 5 months ago and I'm almost the same age as he is. =P

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I was like you surrounded by many people but feeling loneliness and alone in the sense of couples .I was wishing to be whit someone that i loved .i take courage searching for love
i was looking for love .
and i found it.
i found my love.
I´m happy.
and i love she.
my advise it´s that ´wait and always keeps hope .aa
and other thing youáre to young so dont worry. me to but ...you know
You´re not alone and there is someone for you .

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Same here i'm 18 and still can't find 1 but lets see when i find

SometimeS, RocK AnD RolL DreamZ ComE TruE

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I'm still young and I'm in no rush in finding a boyfriend, and I don't feel lonely. He will find me, I will find him... Only time can tell.

Most complex problems have a solution. You just have to view it in a different way.

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