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Keep it as friends or go for it?

Go for it or keep it as friends?

Go for it!
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dyc

dyc

just a dream.

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Sorry if there's already a question like that but I'm currently in this situation and I would like to know your opinion :)

For those who haven't or aren't in one of these situations, hypothetically...
You have a friend who you really like and there is a chance he may like you back. Do you tell them how you feel knowing it won't ever be the same or do you keep it hidden?

The pro to that is, you may end up together.
The con, you've been reading the signs wrong and he doesn't like you back which may lead to awkward friendship.

angelxxuan

angelxxuan

ippiki no ookami

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well like the other post dyc....pain...sometimes the signals gets crossed...if it was me i'd go for it...try not pulling him aside, privately away from the friends, and simply ask him...but don't just leap out there maybe ask in a subtle way or the likes...don't make it sound needy or anything or worse sound too aggressive....hope this helps some

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Close your eyes and make a wish~

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Lol, I've found myself in this position a couple of times~

The main questions you have to ask yourself: are you willing to take the risk? Do the pros out-weigh the cons? For me, I always ended up at the point of not wanting to live my life with regrets so I went for it. It may be different for you...

My advice would be to keep it short and sweet... "I think you're kind of awesome and was wondering if you felt the same way..." (something along those lines) and like angel said... don't seem too desperate or aggressive.

Good luck with whatever you choose... we're rooting for you!

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i would just express how i feel and if he likes me back thats great and if he doesn't just ask him if you can still be friends
try your best kay

dyc

dyc

just a dream.

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Thanks for the advices :) I really appreciate it <3
And of course I'll take them all to account :D
<3

ffx2boy

ffx2boy

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Or he's leading you on to "keep you on the bench" in case his current crush or gf doesn't work out.

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3nforcer

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i got the problem, its a childhood friend (girl) of myself and i rly love here, i telled her about my feelings and she was suppressed, but we part us and we find us some months later, is always the same, and its not the first time this thing happened, i love her and she know it, but i can talk with her now again and i can control my feelings, its sometimes hard for me, but better then nothing.

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