How would you know if a guy is hiding something?

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Just what is said in the title: How would you know if a guy is hiding something?
Specifically: If he's lying about his true feelings...

Well there's this guy... a guy I admire -- cool, cute, handsome, intelligent (not that much but he's ranked 17th overall in our year), good in sports (in varsity), a great cheer dance member and has very deep dimples and cute smile. He's my classmate and we share a secret "bond". But I do not know what that bond is. We often talk and with our simple talks, laughs and jokes - I accidentally fell in love with him... after I felt that way, I kept saying to myself... "No, I don't like him..." but the more I held back my feelings, the more I fell in love with him... now I think he already knows that... we also did something like couples do... like hugging... and I also experience him carrying me at his back.. holding my hand... but we didn't kiss... we don't have a clear relationship. But everytime he calls me (w/ his friends), he says "Do you want me to kiss you?" I don't know if it's a joke or not.. but I don't take it seriously.. but there was one time we ALMOST kissed... when we were alone in our classroom.. he pushed me into a corner and like leans onto my face (ready to kiss me) but then stopped... Then he said "damn it" that time, if I can remember.
But one time, when my girl classmate knew our story.. she asked him, "Hey do you like my friend?" and he said no... but his actions show something different....
now I'm confused...
also, at first we can still hold each other hands but when we were partners for the dance night, he hesitated to take my hand, so I changed my partner.
So what do you think? What will I do? And do you think he's lying with his feelings?

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Wow, to tell u the truth, i've been where u were. Its like watching myself all over again. T_T
He's afraid to hurt u and go to the next step with u. Typical male behavior. So no, he isnt lying about his feelings. U and he need to talk about his behavior and how he really feels for u, and why he said he doesnt like u. Hope that helped. :)

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  • Mar 15, 2010

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i agree
another reason may be that he has been in a bad relationship or 2 and is afraid to get hurt and that he might not be able to put himself into the relationship and may hurt u so ya i agree that "U and he need to talk about his behavior and how he really feels for u, and why he said he doesnt like u"

good luck :)

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The guy sounds like he may be shy on admitting to his true feelings. As a guy I will say I always found it nice when a girl told me she liked me it made me feel better and us able to go further into our relationship.

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LOL.. true

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yes i'm agree... it's true...

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I think he's just embarrassed... or hesitant... or unsure if you would respond positively so he's holding back..

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  • Mar 20, 2010

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he sweats, he cn nvr look me str8 n d eye,

and he nvr speaks lyk a man...

he stutters wyl talking to me...

nd he's actng lyk he's under investg8ion...

tht's common, i guess...

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  • Mar 27, 2010
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he acts weird or stupidly than he usually is (in my case!)

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look in his eyes every time that you talk to him

  • Apr 25, 2010
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he will be more quiet den the usual self ..

  • Apr 28, 2010

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Only you can tell if he is hiding his feelings or not, you clearly know him best and you'll be able to tell if his facial expressions are different when certain situations occur, or if he is overall emotionally happy when with you. To be honest, like many others have said, it just sounds as if he is shy and needs a little nudge.

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For a guy as it is me, it's somewhat harder for a guy to talk about his true feelings to another girl, but as it seems, it's easier if it's the other way around, see, if a girl confessed to me, it'd be way easier to hear that, it makes me a little more motivated to take next steps...

And I'm sure there's some list of these things on facebook... wait lemme look for it, *brb*

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yes i'm agree... it's true...

  • May 04, 2010

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i wish i could have that guy's personality, it's better than mine, mine is a trash.

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practice makes perfect and whole lotta courage =D

  • Jul 05, 2010
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yeeeeeaaah

  • Jul 18, 2010
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How about just say that men arent meant to be understood? Men really dont share their feelings unless they're unnaturally emotional or gay

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He'll be quiet, and not smile much, thats when some very important is on is mind mostly concerning love, but would never admit it, never, not even to his best friend

  • Jul 24, 2010
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from his strange acting?

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you should talk about it and clear things up perhaps he likes you as a lover but somehow something tells him that you want yourself and he to be better of as friends that's my opinion..

  • Aug 05, 2010

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he actually has feelngs 4 u...

too bad, maybe somthng came up,

lyk he's shy wen people notice ur

closeness, or somtng lyk those...

tendency, he's tryng 2 hide it...

if he's ignoring u,

then my guess myt b ryt...

but still, its a hunch...

i've been there...

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  • Aug 06, 2010

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guy is acting funny.

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