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it's actually like an advice this time...
i just need advice from mt,
what if ur friends turn against u,
without u doing anything wrong?
i mean, they started ignoring u,
then next thing,
u will know that they've turned
a lot of people against u...
T.T
i need ur help!
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My advice to you would be to keep your own council and if they turn on you then they were FINO (Friends In Name Only)
and you deserve better.
I can tell you this...getting angry or reacting in a negative manner will only diminish you as a person. I hope this
helps. ~Big Huggle~
Knowledge and Time are the Keys to Wisdom.
Well the thing about you doing nothing wrong is from your point of view but seeing that they are ignoring you tells me that you guys have a communication problem which usually means you people weren't much of friends to begin with.
Turning a bunch of random people against you isn't that big of a problem unless they're actively belittling
you,physically bullying etc. So keep a stiff upper lip and move on you won't have much of a relationship to salvage
off of your "friends".
I guess I have an advantage over most people. At least I know I'm not getting a happy ending.
find out if it just a joke or a prank but if it the real deal, find out why they betray you, if it becuz of a rumor and so on in anyway you can. if you cant then i suggest u forget them and make new friends, if those random people start to physically attack you in anyway report it or travel in a group it will help.
pup is right, I've encountered the same thing, online and off, if they (your "friends") are shallow enough and immature enough to turn against you and turn others against you in such a fashion then leave them behind and find a better "clique" of friends to hang with because they aren't worth your time, attention and let alone your frustration. there will always be users in this world, finding good and/or true friends is the hardest task to do.
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actually, they just suddenly fighting me,
i mean, i didn't even dare back stab them...
but they started going about kicking me out of our team...
i never did anything to cause such friction...
all i did was ask all of them if they had a problem with me so that we can
all straighten it out before the worse comes,
but they just blew me off... :(
but no worries, at least, as of now,
i know who my REAL FRIENDS are...
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Aww...that's not nice...I have been in that kind of situation twice.
The first one was with a childhood friend, I talked to her but she kept her distance from me and the worst thing she
make most people I know, turn their back on me. It takes years for her to finally take off the distance from me. But
still she didn't say sorry.
The second one was my high school friend. She's a simple minded girl who can easily persuaded by others. I know
this well, so when she turns her back on me I just pretend that I don't know. It didn't take a long time for
her to finally realize it and apologized to me.
I do not fear death, but I do fear of losing sight on what I believe in.
well mandy, as for those people,
if they REALLY ARE my FRIENDS,
they'd never let their pride down...
as a person who once was their friend,
i know them really well...
a proud group of ill-mannered b**ches...
and i'm disappointed with myself everytime
i remember those times i got sooo much pressure
on me that i did things i don't usually do...
to me, now, their nothing but mere
BAD INFLUENCES...
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My question for you is how did you managed to be with those ill-mannered ******* ?
I can't stand even an hour with that kind of people.....
You know it's hard to be a well mannered person, to be such a straight person, to be kind and any other angelic
stuff....
And if we managed to do that, others will consider it as a flawed that must be expel.
When it comes to that even friend can be an enemy, I usually take a deep breathe in a place where I can be alone and
keep this sentence in my mind, " It's okay, they will stop, just ignore them "
But sometimes I have to fight back, if they have crossed the boundaries.....
Fortunately I have never in such pressure for doing what I don't want to do, probably because I don't dare to
take a step out of my vision.
I do not fear death, but I do fear of losing sight on what I believe in.
if a "friend" decides 2 turn on me i leave em alone...i dont talk 2 them unless they talk 2 me....then they start thinkin that its not botherin me nd start 2 try nd hurt me physically....thats when i get pissed nd fight them....but i dont hurt them much...i hit their pressure points which is more than enough
but i wouldnt suggest fightin 4 any1 lol xp
@ mandy: well u could say i'm a VERY PATIENT person...
cuz i got 2 take 5 months just to keep everything inside suppressed...
@ yaminara: well yami, they just piss me off most of the time...
then they started back biting me...
and the next thing i know,
they've turned sooo many people around me against me...
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Well, I don't think suppressing everything inside means patient....
I keep most everything inside but I'm not that patient, lately I'm easily pissed.
But you keep them for 5 month? It must be tough.....
I do not fear death, but I do fear of losing sight on what I believe in.
I believed encountered this situation once, but it never went as far as physical contact.
The time when I encountered this situation, friends turn their backs on you, it usually mean they dislike what you
done.
And if they don't tell you what is the problem, it could mean they are still angry at what you done and want you to
figure it out.
Then if they using physical contact or something to annoy you, that should mean they are releasing some of their anger
at you.
If you want them to stop and maybe become friend with you again, you might need to find the problem.
Depend on the problem, you might need to do something to regain the friendship.
That is what I think. But it may be different for you.
But usually a true friend is when they will endure the bad and good, or make adjustment.
If they couldn't stand the things you do, they would tell you to stop it or find a solution that would work both
ways.
In the end, I would say they might not the friends that is right for you.
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it doesnt piss me off hoe immature they r cuz i am 2...what pisses me off is that decided 2 back stab me which is somethin i would never dream of doin
@ bro: well, they really are not my real friends after all...
i've only realized that when they came up to me
and said: " we don't really need you. you may as well get lost! "...
now, that really hurt!
@ mandy: yup, actually, tough isn't the word,
it's OUTRAGEOUSLY STUPID...
i got blinded by their fake personalities...
:(( but i'll get over everything somehow...
@ yami: that's the point...
well, i admit, i'm a bit immature...
but still, i never lost trust in each and every one of them...
but they did this to me...
it's been years . . . but MT's one and only Sim-chan IS BACK.
get it over with as fast as possible
@ sky terror: get it over?
it's them who doesn't wanna end it...
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sim if they are harassing you in any form or fashion and causing a lot of trouble you could try bringing in a trusting adult into the situation and try to use them as a medium or at least to get them to help you out so that the situation doesn't get into a worse of a situation than it already is. you could try avoiding them, and stop talking to them. it's not going to stop the gossip but this is a form of harassment and a lot of schools have zero tolerance towards such actions because a lot of schools, these days, due to situations in the past, could see this as a threat. people have gone over the edge and done some bad things when things got too far out of hand. don't consider it snitching, consider it keeping the peace. hope this is of some help sim. I know what you're going through, I've dealt with the mess my whole entire life, my family, my friends. and people often wondered why I because an outcast, an anti-social sort of person, suppose it was better than the alternative.
BuBbLeS!
The interesting thing imo is that they managed to turn people against you, who exactly are these people? The bullies? The nerds? The geeks? Dweebs? Fools? People who judge easily? People who you know that do not judge easily? Randoms? Nitwits? Trash-talkers? 'The in-kids'?... Merynoko?
Either way, to answer what's at the title of this thread, what can you do?
Betrayal is a strong word to use, so I say screw 'em. You deserve better.
It's a simple process to understand and do: They don't like you, you tried to ask why, you get ignored, you are confused, they beat on you, they screw up others image of you, you're still confused, you don't get it, you wash your hands of the situation, you send a 'Post-it' to them with the word 'Lulz' written on it and piss in their shoes, you walk away knowing that you're better off without these misfits.
Or you can do what I do and lock these guys in a portable toilet and set them on fire.
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What goes around comes around. cut all contacts.
In that case sis, I'll go with Tenshi (angelxxuan) and blerina13 advise.
Seek adult help if they harassing you and cut contact with them.
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well, i appreciate everyone's help...
@ bro: well, u are absolutely right... that's what i'm doing now...
from major queen bee to loser-ific outcast... pfft!
but i'm shocked that i feel sooo much better this way... :OOO
@ Tenshi: u're actually right...
i've decided to be major outcast til the school year ends...
cuz next year... i'm gonna give hem a blast of changes
that they've never expected me to have...
@ blerina: i've done that... but sadly,
it's them who doesn't wanna cut all ties...
@ darthas: well they're just some of my friends who consider themselves
a part of the " IT " crowd in our school...
too bad, they really thought so little of me...
XPPP btw, it's their loss... not mine...
they're fault cuz the lost a goody good friend like me...
it's been years . . . but MT's one and only Sim-chan IS BACK.
just leave them. They're not worth it if they betray you.
i agree wd u honeycomb... :DDD
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