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YoukoxLover

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Question: What would you do when ur ex starts flirtn wit yu again... tryn to get together wit yu? ... ==;;

waaaaahh!!!! wat would u ppl do? o.O .. .. nd lets juss say u HATE ur ex!!! >________<

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  • Oct 26, 2004
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What *can* you do, besides make it clear that you're not interested? (which I'm assuming you've already done) You could also avoid that person if possible, log onto a different sn, and don't pick up/accept their calls.

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Takeya

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ask them if they're flirting.. if they say yes, then say no way. if they say no, then say sorry it just seemed like it.

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  • Oct 26, 2004

MrSagara

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Depends....if other peson broke it off and is starting to get back into you...you need to know why...worst case scenario is when that person is using you as a safety net...if that's the case....SLAP DA b!t64 away! ya heard??? *ahem*...Like i said...it depends.

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  • Oct 27, 2004

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In my situation, part of the relationship breakdown included the realization that I could not trust the other person. So I would agree with the advice given by the others above; make it clear you are NOT interested in them, and put as much distance as possible between the two of you.

It probably would NOT hurt to ask and be certain that your understanding about the "flirting" itself was correct. It is not difficult (I know from experience) to read too much into an action. Hope this helps, and good luck...... :D

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  • Oct 27, 2004

Keough

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Sounds like a situation ur in or a friend. But ez'est way is to just back off from it walk away or make it clear that ur not interested.

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it would depend on what the reason for them being "ex" was I suppose.

EDIT: I missed the part that said assume we hate the ex. plain and simple tell them to get lost.

  • Oct 27, 2004
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If you hate your ex, then you don't have any reason to be with him/her again right?Just make it clear that you don't want to be with him/her >.< or later you will regret for not doing so =P.

But people will change also sometime...if you feel that you still want to be with him/her again then go for it, of course without regret ^_^.

Youko izit ur ex flirtn you now? XD

  • Oct 27, 2004

WunAngelwHoney

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If it was AnGz ex .. then it would depend ... y did we break up in the first place .. if its not a big thing flirt back XD .. but heeeeeeyy .. AnG no how kagomee and he bwoke up .. and how dare he flirt with kagomee !! >____________________< thats a total donkey!! .. if it was AnG .. AnG scared him off Tee Hee.. ~hint hint~ u no like get someone on him ^________^ and if he still flirt then punch him hard ... garrrr!! .. we tough girlw remember ?

AnG think that kagomee totally deserve better then that .. 4 face backstabbing idiot .. ^_______^ .. WhoO .. AnG ish probably not in mood mood wight now .. AnG ish a meanieeeee

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Never had a girlfriend before.....So I can't say....but personally he lost his chance.....if he broke up with you or if he did something stupid he needs to realize what he did and stop it. If you've got someone special in your life at the moment....then its tough luck for him. Thats his loss. Though becareful, he might try to 'seduce' you >.> Guys can do that......at times.

Anyways whoa.......you ok AnG? *Hugs AnG and Youko* You two be careful ok? take care alright? =( I'm worried about you two =/.

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  • Oct 27, 2004

GlassPetal

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Depending on the situation. If it was my ex, in my situation, I'd tell him to F off. o.O
But if it was because before, he felt it just wasn't right, for some reason or another.. I'd probably give him another chance. But if he's just flirting, and that's it. Has no interest in getting back with you, and you've got no interest in return, he's probably just.. I dunno. x.x; Most guys are weird.

Wasn't much help, huh? x.x;

  • Oct 27, 2004

Purplefire

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Tell him directly that your not interested, if you haven't avoided him at all. My ex use to stalk me, and finally got the message when i never anwsered to his phone calls or IM's. I have to agree with everyone else, it depends on the situation of why you guys broke up, but if you HATE him, I suggest you just tell him you dont want to be around anymore, and just say "its too hard to talk to you anymore, and i dont want to get back together." if you dont be direct, he will make up excuses to say that you like him. You dont want that. Believe me.

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  • Oct 27, 2004
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i have to agree with purplefire. she put it in exact words. exs can become really good friends or your worst enemy.

  • Oct 27, 2004

PANDAgirl

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I agree with Purplefire!

^^; That's what I was going through a while ago. He kept trying to get my attention...and he did the scariest things...so I told him to stop bugging me because he sorta got on my nerves. You just need to confront him and tell him to stop it.

DayBreak

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Well if he trying to get to together agian,
First thing , he going to use you as a puppet.
so i was in ur siutation, you can always um,
Btch Slap him all the way too The pacific ocean.
actually slap him and say something bad to him
on pubilc haha, that would be really nice to do.

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well maybe he/she is get boring
or yeah.. wanna back to u can be optional too..
*feel suspicious*
*what he/she want from me..??*
*i have no money u know...*
well better check it before accept it :nya:

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MistressPookyChan

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Depends why they are an ex. I've noticed that the reason an ex flirts is because 1) they are lonley and cant find anyone else to flirt with. 2) they miss you and know what they lost. Either way, be really cautious!

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Kei-kun

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I don't know what to say because I've never had a partner.
If you think he's actually trying to get back together with you then just be yourself and not be interested at all (that is if you dislike him). Or if you think he's toying with you, then tell him to be quiet.
IMO just tell him the truth, whatever your heart tells you then just follow it, don't lie to yourself.

  • Oct 27, 2004
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This sounds kinda dumb to me... if you HATE your ex why would you even entertain the thought of getting back together with them save for the fact that if they were the one that dumped you, you could dump their ass this time?

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If you hate him, then show him that you hate him. Make it clear to him that there is no way back.
There is no sense in sacrificing one's own happiness for the sake of somebody you hate.

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Quote by CyanideBlizzardNever had a girlfriend before.....

If i was a girl i could date You :3 but i`am not so .. : P

Back to the topic, the problem is delicate and it depends on the background you live on. And the answer must be only yours, so you could not blame anyone other then You for making the decision. Thats what i think. Its up to You.

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Tell them I despise you and have no interset in having another relationship with your pathetic soul.

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  • Oct 27, 2004

YoukoxLover

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-.- .. wen i ignore him.. he bothers me.. touchess my hair n d stuff >_< .. he addresses me as his 'bitch' >________< .... hez veryvery annoying.. ToT .. i cant ignore his calls.. cuz his number is "Blocked" .. nd my other friend'z numbers are "Blocked" numbers too !! -.- .. newayzz.. u guys got some good ideas ^-^...

Quote by MistressPookyChanDepends why they are an ex. I've noticed that the reason an ex flirts is because 1) they are lonley and cant find anyone else to flirt with. 2) they miss you and know what they lost. Either way, be really cautious!

lol .. he has thousands of girls after him =.=;; .. so i dont know y hez flirting wit me.. =_= .. haha.. he misses me? .. then y'd he do wat he did in the first place? ... T^T ..

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  • Oct 27, 2004

WunAngelwHoney

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>__________< AnG nos y did wants kagomee back .. its cuz people want wat they cant have ... the more kagomee ingore him the more he feels that he neeeddzz kagomee XD

o.O omgawd!! he calls kagomee his biotch ? >________< someone should hurt him .. if he say taht to kagomee agian .. be like ... well im not the one flirting with my ex !!! Tee hEe.. maybe he wants kagomee back cuz kagomee ish such a goood kisser ^______________________^ lolz .... tee hee

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